COMPLETE

Just because no one has been fortunate enough 
to realize what a gold mine you are, 
doesn't mean you shine any less. 

Just because no one has been smart enough 
to figure out that you can't be topped, 
doesn't stop you from being the best. 

Just because no one has come along to share your life, 
doesn't mean that day isn't coming. 

Just because no one has made this race worth while, 
doesn't give you permission to stop running. 

Just because no one has realized how much of a woman 
you are, doesn't mean they can affect your femininity. 

Just because no one has come to take the loneliness 
away, doesn't mean you have to settle for a lower quality. 

Just because no one has shown up who can love you on 
your level, doesn't mean you have to sink to theirs. 

Just because you deserve the very best there is, 
doesn't mean that life is always fair. 

Just because God is still preparing your king (or Queen), 
doesn't mean that you're not already a queen (or King). 

Just because your situation 
doesn't seem to be progressing right now, 
doesn't mean you need to change a thing. 

Keep shining, 
Keep running, 
Keep hoping, 
Keep believing, 

Keep being exactly what you are already:....

COMPLETE! 

~Author Uknown~

Single people (or divorced) are always in search of (or so it seems)
that "right" person.  Have you noticed that? *S*  I have!! LOL
From ages 16-50 (?) - People feel compelled to find a 'mate'!!
Whether it's "chatrooms" or bars, or just not being alone at home;
I have found one thing to hold true-whether it's male/female -
we don't 'need' that right person, so much as we 
need to learn who WE are in order to BE that 'right person'!

and THAT means becoming COMPLETE in who WE are!!

That takes time - and we all need to slow down if we are in 
the 'dating scene' and spend time finding out who WE are..
and WE become a 'better' person if we will do that!

If YOU are single/divorced- get ACTIVE with things outside
the "dating scene" and stop worrying about Mr./Mrs. "Right"...

Get into a GYM and get into the 'program'
Go to a CHURCH - find one that YOU respect and enjoy
Develop your mental and spiritual 'side'..
Decide to develop your MENTAL, SPIRITUAL and PHYSICAL
BODY to be the very BEST it can be; and work on it
EVERY DAY!  It WILL pay 'off' for you in many ways!!
Make a list of things you've always wanted to do..BUT
never have-and find the time/means etc. to DO THEM!
Inquire about doing VOLUNTEER work in your city/area..
Find a STUDY GROUP that shares your interest...
Take up a new HOBBY or find a new CLASS at night at school..
Visit new places and do new things you've never tried..

DO something!!!

People who stay busy and active - have a more complete LIFE!!

THAT is what makes YOU more interesting as a person!!

It's not so much about FINDING the "right partner" in your life;
as it is about BECOMING the "right one!

So today - start becoming COMPLETE....

One day at time!!

You just may discover you LIKE who you ARE with or WITHOUT
Mr./Mrs "RIGHT"...OR they just might be lucky and

FIND YOU!

*S*

Take care!!
:)
Irishgrrl

Know any single ladies/guys who are single and may need a boost 
about being a "single" person and why it's "OK" to be one???..
PLEASE - Pass this page on!! - They MAY just THANK YOU!
:)
Irishgrrl

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