hi devi,things do happen for the stranges reason but we dont understand why.maybe your mom wanted you to have a little peace & harmony, to which the church is a reminder of how your mom lived her life by god & to let you know that she is still now living in peace & harmony but now with god.that is like one time i lived far away from home for a little while,but something inside of me was saying that something was wrong at home. so i called home & my grandfather was sick & i needed to be home.after i moved back home, my grandfather finally had a chance to see his great grandson for the first time. in the next day or so he had to be put in the hospital, they even called the precher because they wouldnt sure if he would make it.i went to visit him in the hospitial & when he notice it was me he said is that you angie, i said yes with tears in my eyes saying yes pop its me i told him not to worry everything will be o.k. & that i was their with him every step of the way with my prays for him to get better.soon after a day or so my grandfather was back home again. but now he then turn for the worst again but he passed away suddendely at his home, the way he wanted it to be. he didnt want to be in that hospitai with strangers he wanted to be with friends & family.i know it isnt easy to lose a loved one no matter young or old. but i know that my grandfather is in a more better place of peace & harmony, looking over me has one of my angels to take care of me.& when i know this it makes me feel safe knowing that i have someone so wonderful, who is still looking out for me & still caring for me even though he isnt here with me .i know that is how life goes & devi same with has you your mom will be always with you know matter which way it is .so take care devi you are a very good friend hugs for you!!!