Child Training

Salman Rushdi wrote a book, the cursed man's book (Ayat-e- Shaitani) Satanic Verses, he was given five Lakh pounds by some company to write the book and many other companies also gave him plenty more pounds, his book was given the best book award that year. In his book he uses foul languages for the Holy Prophet (S) and his family (Ahle Bait). He write that the Holy Quran is a pack of lies, and he used the most low type of language in the book, (surprising how it was awarded the best book of the year). He said bad things about Hazrat Abrahim. You most probably know that Hazrat Abrahim is also a prophet of the Christians. Even then the cursed man was given so much money to write the book. Look at the Kafir people, enemies of Islam they are all united and we thousand million Muslims are so dispersed. Accused the Prophet of Islam (S) and said vulgar things about him, labelling the Prophet of Islam (S) with accusation, the Muslim should have a feeling of bashfulness and those who do not feel bashful should not be called Muslims. Such foul language was used against the Prophet, his companions and his family, but even then no country except Islami Jomhuri Iran took the stand against Britain and broke political tie. Our country's (Pakistan) leader who is Muslim and lover of Islam, follower of the laws of Islam and claim to preach Islam. The President went on a tour to Britain, shoke hands with their leaders, had dinner with the kafirs. This country (Britain) which incited Salman Rushdi to write against the Prophet of Islam (S) and spent hundred thousands of pounds for his protection and our country remains friends and keeps ties with them. It is not just our country but many other countries, Muslims or Non -Muslims, why? Only to make Salman Rushdi the back bone of the kafir world and Britain too saw the poison against the Holy Quran and the Prophet of Islam (S). Only Islamic Republic of Iran broke ties with Britain. Hence other European countries recalled their ambassdors. They showed the Christian unity.

THE REAL REASON

Now pay attention, why this low graded book was written and so much money was spent on it.

The real reason is that European saw the Islamic revolution in Iran and after that in London alone, Maulanas wearing Ammama (Turban) giving speeches, they minds lightened changing their thoughts and Islam reaching their hearts.

You 'll be surprised to hear that a Citizen of France became a Muslim. After becoming a Muslim, he came to Qom - Iran to study theolgoical studies. (Qom is the theological centre for all Shia Muslims) At that time the Iraq, Iran war had started, he without telling anyone secretly went to the war front and there he attained martyrdom. Now see further what happened, when the new of his martyrdom was given to his parent by Islamic Republic of Iran, his parents were Christians, on hearing his great death accepted Islam, not only did they become Musims but also their whole family members became Muslim.

In the old time a movement in Pakistan long before the Islamic Revolution send a learned scholar to Russia to meet their leader Lenin, at that time in Russia there was a Communist Revolution. This scholar explained that Islam is a complete faith with ideal rules and regulations, be tried to emphasize that Islam had plentiful of space and simplicity. On hearing this Lenin said what you say about Islam is so good, then show me a country with such a Islamic model, if Islam is so good for the correction the society and if it has the ability to reach different goals, then why is there no country with such Islamic rule? The scholar on hearing this was stunned and quietened, because he knew that there was no country with such Islamic rule and Model. But thanks to Almighty Allah, today there is Islam and there is that model country, with Islamic rules and regulation. Even today Islam has all answers to all demands and it brings society and humans close to all new progress.

Today when you go to Iran you will see the complete Islamic model ruling, and due to this we can see Islam spreadinܥeviously he is alive but it is said that if you kill the soul in reality the person is a dead body but physically he is alive. But according to Allah's Prophet of Islam (P.B.U.H.) and the Holy Quran such person is dead , because they have taken the path of the devil ( Shaitan) and killed their soul. Sins have killed their souls and now they are just a life body without a soul. Now in the Quran it is written that there are people whose body is killed and in reality are dead, but in fact they are not dead and they are always alife and the name of this life is martyrdom. Even if their body is cut or destroyed, their soul has attained continuous life. Later they do not feel any destruction.

Martyr is evidently killed and destroyed but his soul attains permanent life.

Sura Tahrim Ayat 6:

(( Oh you who believe, save yourselves and your families from the fire.))

May Allah Subhanahu Ta'ala keep us and our children save and let not the soul of our children and our children's children be killed.

COLONIAL POWER CONSPIRACY AGAINST ISLAM

Islam was revealed to us all for happiness and good fortune in this world and hereafter. In this new era the enemies of the followers of Islam do not kill them, they do not destroy the Quran, it was the Pharoah of the old times who used to jail the people and kill them.

In Sura Baqara Ayat 49:

(( Who subjected you and severe torment, killing your sons and sparing your women.))

But the Pharoahs of the new era do not kill nor fill their prisons, their aim is to kill the person's Islamic soul and the Quranic soul. Let the Muslim be free, but be slaves of the West.

You will see Muslims in the world but there is no existence of true Islamic soul. You will see Quran in every Muslim's home and Masjid but the heart of the reader of the Holy Quran is not glorified and is negligent of the Holy Quran and is unknown of the soul of the Quran. If you remove the soul of Islam and sentiment of the Islamic faith, then Muslims will always live in disgrace and inferiority, will never succeed or take power of the world, will always be fighting each other, and so for this reason they will never have peace. If Muslims' hearts are filled with the light of faith understanding and reckoning the heart of the Holy Quran, thus their presence in public will be known. Muslims due to the Holy Quran and the Islamic spirit can lead the whole world, wherever they go. Due to this the Kafir (unbelieving) world wish to destroy and finish the Islamic spirit and the Holy Quran by any method.

Curseg rapidly in Europe and the West. so to stop the spreading of Islam and Iran, these Kafirs had this vulgar book written by Salman Rushdi. So that the Muslim communitie's thoughts about Islam change, and that Islam may not uprise in their countries and also to prevent the true Islam reaching the luxury loving Muslims in their countries.

What was this conspiracy, reason they tried to kill the spirit of Islam and Quran. But Allah blessed our great Ayatollah Khomeini with alot who thus gave a Fatwa (ruling) that it is OBLIGATORY on all Muslims to kill Salman Rushdi - Now due to this ruling the cursed man is buried alive under police security, his life is in great danger and he can not even come out in society alone. Hence due to the fatwa no one will have the courage to write any vulgar thing against the Holy Prophet and Islam.

Many book can be found printed by the English against the Holy Prophet of Islam (S) before Salman Rushdi's book. A book was printed and after many years a new Muslim sect was born, called Qadiani. A Qadiani named Ghulam Mohammad writes in one of his book that he was written so many books in favour of the English that cupboards can be filled, and that he abolished Jihad (holy war) so that the British could be safe. He was an agent of the British. First, Qadiani religion was formed than Bahis religion in Iran was formed. Firstly, a book is written then people to follow it are found and then a new sect is initiated. But now since Hazrat Imam Khomeini may he be blessed worked with patience and now no one will have the courage to write any such book.

AGAINST THE LOVERS OF THE PROPHET ( pbuh)

This type of thoughts was also brought by the English that the prophet of Islam was and is now no more , finished don't use his name for help in your prayers and supplications ( duas), don't ask him to help you in your prayers etc. so that they may destroy the soul of Imamat. Why make the Holy Prophet a mediary? Why do you make the Holy Prophet a means of support in your supplication? The enemies see that Islam is the only religion that gives its followers strong desire which no other religion does.

In the warfield there is a Muslim and a kafir fighting. Since the Muslim does not have any confidence on his weapon rather his hope and confidence is on Allah alone. Whilst the kafir's thoughts and confidence in on his weapon, if his ammunition finishes then that's defeat. The Muslim will fight even without any weapon. The poet Allama Iqbal (Pakistani) says-

A believer is one who will fight

Without a sword

The biggest weapon for a believer

Is Allah-u- Akbar (God is Great)

The biggest weapon is Ya Rasool a-Allah (Oh Prophet of Allah)

And the treasure of faith is Nahri Hyderi (slogan Hyder)

Slogan of Hyderi purifies the faith

The difference between a believer and unbeliever is apparant.

So they wish to destroy the treasures of the Muslim's spiritual weapons and faith. If the confidence in the doctine is finished then the heart of Islam itself will be finished then the Muslim soldier will be like an ordinary soldier.

Initially false ideas are propagated by writing a book and then a new religion is introduced. In the book, it is written that one should ask directly from God for help and no one else, they say making some else a means in dua rather than Allah Subhanahu Ta'ala is pagnanism. Salman Rushdi who was not a priest (mawlavi), that is why he got caught, even though the enemies had caused disharmony by throwing their money and then seeing the show. They took full action by buying religious scholars (mawlavis) who were weak in their studies, and faith, filled their pockets and introduced a new religion. By false thoughts Wahabiat was propagated. In your prayers saying for the sake of the prophet so and so is not right and to make him your mediary is Paganism, whatever you want ask straight from Allah they say. They investigated and analysed that actual centre is love of the Holy Prophet. Love of the Holy Prophet is the actual movement. Love of the Holy Prophet is a revolution, and enthusiasm. Love of the Holy Prophet is weapon for the faith. Hence initiately to finish this they say that whatever you wish, it should be through Allah Who is the greatest and trustworthy, do not make anyone the mediary as it is paganism eg " oh may the creator give me a son for the sake of the Prophet." They say this is paganism request straight from Allah. Then, what prove do they give - by help of the government people who have been made to say that Allah has the right on his creature. Allah has given his creature hands and feet, ears, nose and eyes then for this reason Allah has the right on his creation, but the creature has no right on Allah. What does this mean? So when the creature has no right on God. But Mohammad Mustafa and Ali al-Murtaza (A.S.) are both creation of God. Thus they are his creatures, hence to use the means of the creature as a source of request from God is paganism. This is a prove to misguide the people against the greatness of the Holy Prophet, against the true thoughts of Islam and those lovers of sect differiation, have made the foundation firm turf and thus produced proves that the Prophet of Islam (S) and Imam Ali al-Murtaza (A.S.) and other Imams of Islam are all included as creature of God. Thus those created by God do not have any right on God, thence it is paganism to use them as a means to fulfil one's wishes (dua).

Now you can see that the enemies of Islam have so strongly tired to destroy the superiority of the Holy Prophet (S) and made another trap with false believes and thought and kept the foundation turf. But the Holy Quran has prior to this false believe has said in Sura Rum verse 47

"and helping the believer is even incumbent on Us"

and in a second verse in Sura Yunis verse 103:

"It is binding on Us (that) we deliever the believers"

Now you see how much right a believer has on Allah, so one who is Amir Momineen, has much greater right on God?

RIGHT GUIDANCE IN LIFE

The verse which we started with, the words of God in Surah Maidah, "Whoever keeps it alive it is as though he kept alive all men (mankind)"

So it is as much as saving or giving life to the whole mankind (human race).

Some one asked Imam Jafar Sadiq (A.S.) - Oh Maula ( Lord) how can we give life to a dead person - in the Quran it says that if you give life to one person's souls, you have given life to the entire human race. Imam said, that here, where it says give life does not really mean to give life to new born, but it means to guide some one to the right path. Example: Suppose there is a man whose heart is dead and does not recognize the light of God, does not recognize the light of the Prophet of Islam (pbuh) and is drowned in sins and obeys the commands of the devil (Shaitan) and is miles away from the right path; Hence if anyone guides this sinner to the right path and bring his dead heart to life and fills it with the knowledge and recognition of the light of God and light of the Holy Prophet, and the sinner ask for forgiveness deeply and removes the sins from his heart completely and turns away from the path of the devil for the path of God, the straight path. Complete success, thus it is true to say such a person has attained life, he has found the key to eternal life whether by some source, in reality if this happens the reward is not just that he has made one person heavenly , showed one person the right path but his reward is so great that he has shown the right path to the whole human race and made them Godly and lovers of the Holy Prophet and lovers of the foundation of Islam. So if a misguided person is made the lover of Hazrat Ali (A.S.) and Husaini, by education, one can be an example like Salman Farsi and Abuzar Ghaffari. To save someone from drowning in the river of sins, its reward is not just saving one person from destruction but giving life to the whole human race.

MISGUIDANCE IS DEATH

You heard in previous part of the verse now look at the second part.

"Whoever slays a soul, it is as though he has slew the whole mankind"

Below Imam Jafar Sadiq (A.S) has said about the verse, here killing does not mean that you literally kill a person but here it means killing of the souls of the human being, example if a person is misguided due to your character and that person goes against Allah's right path and drifts away from Allah and adopts falsehood, begins to follow the devil and making defamation a place of home, so the punishment and sin for a person becoming a sinner because of you is as though you have misguided the whole human race for just distancing one person from Allah's straight path. God forbid if your children due to your negligence become deviated from the Quranic path and Ahle Bait ( family of the Prophet) go against the laws of Allah, a girl goes around without hijab, goes in front of Na Mahram ( those who she can marry) with make up on and shows her body and laughingly speaking to Na Mahram. Your son adopts bad habits smoking cigarettes, drinking alcohol, watching bad films on T.V and video, shaving the beard becomes vulgar and rude, insults Alims (religious scholars) and forgets his parents. Due to your luxurious life, not caring of the soul and following the devil, only worrying about the world and become unconcerned about the hereafter provisions. You according to your incomplete mind, you occasionally ... them with the superior traditions and you taight them etiquettes of the modern times, thus they deviated from the out moded tradtions and written in the modern terminology - What have you actually done to its soul, you have killed it, you have closed the doors of right guidance, what you have really done is that you have killed the soul of the whole human race and you have also closed the doors of correct guidance to them. One child due to the parents ignorance was misguided only one soul, but the says Quran; no not one soul, but you have killed the whole mankind.

TRAINING CHILDREN IS OUR OBLIGATION

One day the Holy Prophet was passing a small road with his disciple (Ashabi), the road small children were palying, you after looking at the children were playing, you after looking at the children were playing , you after looking at the children took a deep cold breath then said, "Allah-u- Akbar." When the disciple saw the sad expression on the Holy Prophet's face and he asked , "Oh Holy Prophet, what happened? and you replied, "Oh children of the final day." It is ours and you children that the Prophet of Islam was concerned about and was the cause of his sadness. Oh parents you are always worried about your childrens worldly education, trying to get your children to attain the best of world education, son attains B.A, B Sc, becomes doctor or speaks English fluently ( this is all not wrong), but the thing is that they are negligent about is their children hereafter and the things that their parents do not have is the knowledge of the dreadul results of their children. The parents ar worried whther their son is studying well daily but they are not worried whether their son is praying his daily prayers or not, parents are worried whether their son is eating well but are not worried whether their son fast or not parents care for their son's clothing and wish to have new clothes sown for him, but are not worried about his soul's clothes whether he has fear of God ( piety) or not. They worry about the environment and the fightening society their children mingle in but they are not worried about whether their children are involved in filthy, obsence, destructive sins. They worry about the long life and good health of their children, but do not care of what their children do wtong ethically or morally and don't even feel the pain about the things that are dangerous for the soul which are consequently becoming means of their destruction and leading them to hell.

Briefly listen, parents naturally care for their children but they do not care of the safety of the heart. According to the saying of the Holy Prophet of Islam is that the parents will care only of the worldy feature, collection (Jahaz) of goods for the girls' wedding, but will not care ofher purdah (headwear), they will not care when she speaks to toher boys and men in a jolly manner and when men look at her with lustful eye they do not care to look after her honour and chastity. The Holy Prophet taking on cold breath and use to say, "Oh the children of the final days."

Think about the world, that they got a good business, go to America, go there and do whatever he likes, if he lies they do not care, only care that he qaulifies as a doctor etc. Now the Holy Prophet says, but his sentence is every harsh he says, "I with my tongue will curse them and they with their acts will curse the Prophet of Islam (pbuh)." If the parents bring up a misguided, sinful childr who does not pray, fast etc into this society then this child with his behaviour, ideas and actions will curse the Prophet of Islam. He will with his tongue accept the Prophet of Islam as the Prophet of Allah but by his actions he shall reject him. These types of children do not become Husaini, rather they become Yazidi. Children are given to us in trust by Allah who we have to train and bring up in the society in such a way that they have a use in society, help the human race etc. Ayatollah Husain Mutahhari in his book writes a peculiar sentence he says, 'After the Quran and the Ahle Bait there is no other best thing that Allah has given us in trust to us and that are children." Meaning of this sentence is that besides the Quran and Ahle Bait (A.S.) there is no other thing best that Allah has given in trust to us and that are children. In a tradition of the Holy Prophet it says, " that a gyoung girls due to her not doing hijab and showing her body to eligible men (Na Mahram) eventually will go to Hell. In this world you wore make up and wore obseence clothing in the streets and market, making yourselve a moel piece and roamed around with Na Mahram. Therefore, you will go to Hell. And the holy Prophet also says, "he mother who was always in hijab and kept away from the eyes of Na Mahrams, she too shall go to hell with her unhijabed daughter, because she did not bring her daughter up by the proper Islamic rules and regulations, but trained her with the rules of the world.

A boy, because he did not pray , fast, shaved his beard etc he will go to hell even though his father was religious , prayed regularly, had a prostation make on his forehead, but he too will go to hell with hi son. The father himself would not raise his son because his sleep would be spoiled. He would fast himself, but he would not encourage hs son, because he might become weak, especially when there is a tradition. "FASTING IMPROVES HEALTH." Likewise, did not encourage him to keep a beard , because people would think of him as old fashined. He himself would read the Quran, but did not stop his son from reading failty books, digests or magazines. On the Day of Judgement both son and father will come toghether, son due to not following the Islamic rules and father due to not training the son in a Islamic manner, both will go to hell. Question will be asked relating to the son and you wil become very very helpless.

Respectable guest, training children is a very extremely important issue, so what should we do so that the holy Prophet will not curse us and that we may not be rejected from his nation.

TRAINING CHILDREN- The side of wedding and its importance

Wedding ceremony (nikah) this is the first step.

With us we have our Quran and also the history of the Ahle Bait (A.S.) is also present. It you wish your child to become lovers of Islam and Imamat, so come to Haz. Ali and request him to solve your problem. Hazrat Ali to his brother Haz Aqeel would say, "Oh Aqeel, I would like to marry but my aim is that a brave son be born who would at Karbala be the protector of Husain (A.S.) Islam and Imamat." father of Husain is showing the aim of marriage. "Ageel find me such a brave household and pious female from whose womb such a brave child be born who at Karbala would favour Husain (A.S.). Ali (A.S.) wanted such a child who would be lover of Islam, brave and be incomparable in piety and be faithful to Husain. Why is Ali making piety as a condition of marriage because if a woman is pious the children will too be pious, and will become lovers of Husain. But today in wedding, people take note of prettiness, wealth, education or dowry (jahas). This is all against the laws of Islam. If you want your children to become Husain Habib Ibne Mazahir etc. Dont't take note to what the girl or boy looks like, their wealth, but note whether they are pious or not.

A person came in the presence of Imam Hasan (A.S.) and asked, "Oh Lord my daughter is young and I wish to get my daughter we to some one - " Imam replied, " don't llik at looks and wealth."

Imam Jafar Sadiq (A.S.) said, "if you marry for looks or wealth, you shall get neither looks or wealth, all you will be entitled to destruction only."

Why did Imam Hasan prohibit looks and wealth as a condition in marriage?

What Imam has said about marriage is a very important example for all parents. If one gives their daughter to some one, one should see that the boy is pious and stays away from forbidden things or not. Because if he like your daughter than it shall love her and respect her and if your daughter does not reach his standard, he will never oppress becausea pious person never opresses anyone.

Respected guest, today we see that those who have big shiny car, bungalow in Defence ( posh are in Karachi) and bags full of memory, this is what the girls look for. At the first step of marriage Hazrat Ali tell us that if you want your child to be a muslim soldier, you want your child to come in use for Islam in times of need and if you want your child to be a lover of Husain so you should find a pious and virtuous woman from a brave and pious and household. Prophet of Allah commands, "marry because time for doing thing have finished and this condition only pious children wil be a great help and asset while sinful children will be a big punishment." Therefore, if you want your child to be pious, then train your child in a right Islamic way. After your death your pious and virtuous children will reamin, if they worship ( pray fast etc.) , so this worships' reward will not be only for them, but you will also get the reward too. Due to your training he is able to do the good deeds and acts. If you do not train your child by the laws of Islam and give society a misguided person, the number of sins he commits you are also as much responsible for them. Even though they will get the punishment for because of your training he was distanced from God.

Now if we ask the Prophet of Islam about the aim of marriage, see what the Prophet of Islam has to say, "Whenever you think of marriage look for three things which are very important.

(1) See the morals

(II) Whether they are trustworthy and (III) faithful, see the morality and ethic of the person whether they follow the faith and whether they trustworthy.

The Prophet says, "If you marry anyone and after marriage you see that the person is neither religious, trustworthy nor morally good, then you have destroyed your childrens generation and besides trouble and arguments you will get nothing. If you give your daughters hand in marriage to anyone and you do not see whether the boy is religious or not - meaning he is good manner or had mannered and whether he fulfils and the trustworthy requirements or not, whether his character is good or bad, whether his household is polite or not, whether the people are pious or not, they do not make fun of hijab . Thus if you do not take this term, into consideration before marriage then our childrens' generation to come will be destroyed and arguments and fighting will only be attained. Dear guest, take attention that there are so important issues that we have to take consideration with many requirements.

THE SACRIFICE OF IMAM HUSAIN IS THE GOAL OF OUR REFORMATION (betterment).

It was asked from Imam Husain (A.S.), why are you going to Karbala?

Imam Husain replied, "I am going there so that my grandfathers (Hazrat Mohammad Mustafa - peace be upon him- remain reformed." Now you see that the whole life and aim of Imam Husain was for the betterment of the naiton and the reason of his martyrdom was only for the prophet's antion reformation. So everywhere now gatherings of Imam Husain are established and wherever you go to such gathering, think how much reform is taken place, and how much advice is being given ? The readers of Majlis' (gathering) and professional reciters of shiite elegies of Imam Husain (A.S.) Imam's right is on them that they lighten up every aspect of your life, in the household and individually. Your life relating to social affairs , your life relating to mixing with people outside in bazaars and society, your worship your Jihad (holy war) and your morals. The lovers of Husaini, when they hear the elegies and speeches of Imam Husain (A.S.) reform is possible.

OUR BAD FORTUNE

But our bad luck is is that our gathering point is just to attain popularity and speeches are read to the standard of people wishes, "praising types of speeches, these types speeches are shown to be successful and in such gatherings there are numerous number of people present but they do not think of receiving any reform only think of obtaining praise and our professional readers of speeches just rotate their topic around Khyber and Kundaq. Islam is a very vast extensive religion and all the solutions of the problems of this world are present in it.

GIVE REASON OF FAITHFULNESS TO THE BLOOD OF HUSAIN

The aim of Imam Husain was the reform of the nation. Imam Husain gave a sacrifice in Karbala , so that we the nation of Mohammad Mustafa be given the command to do good things (pious) and stop them from doing bad things in society. But it upsetting to know that there is no reformation in the gathering that these people commemorate in the remembrance of Imam Husain. If we forget the reformation of Islam for which reason Imam Husain was martyred, then we cannot be faithful to the blood of Husain. Imam Husain , sacrificed his youthful son Ali Akbar who was look like of the Holy Prophet for the refom of Islam. Imam Husain sacrificed his small sinless son Ali Asgar and put earth on him so that only the nation of his grandfather the Holy Prophet reforms. We come to the Majlis and just praise it and leave. Imam Husain sacrificed his sister Zainab a great lady's purdah (chadar) only so that our nation refoms, but what do we do we take our ladies out without purdah and on top of that we bring them to Religious gatherings in such manner. Due to Majlis our purdah should not be less but rather more, and our blind piety should decrease or finish, but unfortunately this is hardly to be seen.

The proper training of children is obligatory with referrence of Ayat Mazhari,- "Children are given in trust to us from Allah and breach of trust is unworthy." Meaning it is a crime. If the person breaks the trust then his worship will not be accepted. Father is in the mosque and the child is out praying, watching bad films on the video. Mother is on the pray mat, praying. Don't think such worship is being accepted because, if your children are drowned in sins. Therefore training the child is obligatory.

THE WRONG EFFECT IN MARRIAGES AND DOWRY ( Jahas)

In marriages many filthy, unacceptable things take place of which greatly effects the couple and the new generation to come. The characters are transferred into the new generation to be born. The time of Hazrat Saida Fatima Zahra's wedding the Prophet of Islam gathered the ladies and said, "Beware, let not any sin take place in Saida's wedding." Because, when sins take place in a wedding, ultimately the husband is greatly effected by it. In our weddings there are so many sins and forbidden things taking place which we do not care much of . Thus due to these actions our children are unworthy and unable to be pious. Now see why the king of the world and hereafter gave his daughter for marriage, few earth untensil, few clothes, and few other necessities, God forbid was the Prophet of Islam a beggar? No No. On one occasion a man went to the Holy Prophet thought him to be poor. The Holy Prophet picked up his prayer mat and showed what was under, now that he saw that under the prayer mat were numerous jewels and wealth. This lesson is for the coming generation to make them know that they are Muslims and why are you behaving like Hindus. Lets not use non-Islamic tradition and say it is a Islamic tradition. These are genuinely Hindus and Kafir's tradition. Demanding things is naturally oppression and whichever marriage is the foundation opression and beginning life together starts with oppression, hence it consequence is never good. If the groom says I want a car and the mother of the groom demands a gold set. If this greedness exists then our coming generation will become non'existence. If a marriage begins with oppression then the children born will also be oppressors. Therefore, rebuke the things that Hindus and kafirs have narrated, we should finish such roots, should be dug out and thrown away. Naturally Allah will not be pleased and nor will the Prophet of Islam, and Fatima Zahra (A.S) will be upset, if the Prophet of Islam was agreeable to dowry then he would have given so much to his daughter, likewise to what we give. History has seen that, what he gave his daughter. when you decide for marriage of your daughter you ask the Maulana (priest) is so and so date bad or so and so better than the next. This is just a disputing act. The day itself is not bad, only that on these days some tribe was punished by the wrath of God for going against Allah and the Prophets etc. Therefore, date had become bad not good. If in the weddings ceremonies sins take place eg. the sister-in-law put henna on the grooms hands and the actual wedding taking place in big marriage halls, wastage of food, demand of dowry, ladies coming without hijab, and mixing with Namahram men, taking of group photos taking video music etc. All such bad things effect the marriage and such effects are transferred into the generation to come. Therefore it is obligatory to stay away from all sins and such weddings. When Hazrat Ali explained to his brother Aqeel about the qualities of marriage was that the youth of the world learn the aim of marriage. Aim of marriage is not just to attaining dowry or bodily lust. Initially your aim should be that your children should become lovers of Husain, become religious. The prophet of Islam has said, "If you train your children properly and you parents die full of sins and on the day of resurrection if they pray, their prayers will be accepted and the sinful parent will be sent to heaven due to their pious children. Imam Husain commanded that, "If you wish to attain honour, come out of the sins of dishonour and enter into the obedience of Allah honour." If you wish to attain honour without family and without nation, if you wish to attain wealth without money, wish to achieve grandeur and fear without power. If you wish these things then get out of sins and dishonour. Distance from Allah and closeness to Shaitan are sins. Actually misguidance is death and dishonour. Honour is to have alot of money or if you come from so and so family background, you alone are worthy for honour or if you are a supreme authority then you are worthy for honour and respect. No brothers and sisters this is not true , the real honour is when you are the devils enemy. You are obedient to Allah. Allah, in 'Hadis Qudsi' says "I have kept honour and dignities in my obedience when people try to find this in family and household, for any reason they do not attain honour." The Holy Quran itself has commanded in Surah Hujrat Ayat 13:

"Surely the honourable of you with Allah is the one amongst you most careful (of his duties) pious."

In the court of Allah, the one who is pious and abstains from bad things, attains honour and respect. Here, different people give honour and respect to those who are connected with leaders of nation or famous family who have alot of wealth and money or who have some type of power or authority.

The love of Husain and who has put this love in your heart, Allah has promised in Surah Baqarah ( the cow) verse 152 : "Therefore, remember me, I will remember you."

Allah said to the nation of Hazrat Musa (Mooses), "Oh Musa, if you tell your people to remember me then I shall remember them in best of place. Imam Husain remembered Allah in such a way that his conditions cannot be found in history. Husain (A.S.) even in his last prostration remembered Allah.

This is the training of the child. This shows Ali and Fatima's training. If even you kill the body cut the throat and raise the head on a spear, it will be busy reciting the Quran. Husain remembered Allah on hot dry sands of Karbala, so that today in every part of the world remembrance of Husain is commemorated. Today when one mentions about Husain with it Allah , Islam, Holy Quran , the Holy Prophet and the divine law are mentioned too. And now in our gatherings, the reform of society is being mentioned by our religious scholars. Husain is also today the centre of guidance why his soul is still and forever alife.

"True, Husain is the light and salvation, ship of guidance."

Imam Jafar-e- Sadiq(as) every year on the first day of Moharram perpare the floor for mourning - A believer said that, "Imam cried so much like an old mother who would cry on a youthful sons death. The speaker kept reciting very good calamities and the people kept crying. Imam said, " read more" the speaker recited more, people cried, the volume increased. Now Imam was very happy and said, "you have paid our right." the believer said that I went to the Imam and the Imam said, "why did you not cry in the sorrow of my grandfather," The believer said, "Oh Lord see my handkerchief it's wet with tears." Imam said, "You did not pay the right for crying, listerners do not cry silently wherever you cry for my grandfather, cry so much and aloud, because he was oppressed because those who cried for him were slapped but you do not have to cry silently, cry aloud not in a light tone, and when you cry Imam is very pleased.

There was time when there was restriction to do Majlises, whoever did Majlis for Husain the houses would be burnt down. In that time there was very religious woman who on sighting the moon of the first day of Moharram wanted to do Majlises. In those days alot soldiers were sent forth in the streets to make sure no one cries for Husain. This religious woman was a lover of Imam Husain and wanted to somehow do Majlises and cry for Imam Husain. She went to the wicked oppressive king and said take whatever you want from me, but let me do one Majlis for Husain, so that I may cry for him. The king who who was a big oppressor full of oppression. Took the chance and said " you 'll give anything" she said, "yes anything you command." Okay, now see the training of the parents, the king said, "Will you give one son as a payment? Price of one Majlis one son." She said, "If I had thousand sons, I would give you thousand son."

See the result of true Husaini training the son himself forwarded himself. Here the head of the son was cut and there the floor for Majlis was set in the house and all the people from the city were called. The believers felt that we have not paid any price, but this religious woman paid the price. Therefore, everytime they would come and give condolence to the woman, you have given a great sacrifice, your sons. The religious woman sacrificed all ten of her sons for the mourning of Imam Husain and kept the mourning of Husain alife.

May Allah give us all the divine help to train our children in the best possible Islamic way, so that our children become lovers of Husaini and be able to protect the mourning of Husain.

SECOND MAJLIS

Fifth Surah, Surah Maidah verse 32:

"Whoever slays a soul, unless it be for manslaughter or for mischief in the land it is as though he has slew the all men, whoever keeps it alive, it as though he has kept alive all men."

In surah Maidah it has been commanded by Allah if you kill one soul you do not just kill one person rather sin so great that you have killed the whole mankind and one who keeps the soul alive of one person by gudiance, os it reward is so great that he has kept the whole mankind alive.

THE CONSPIRACY OF ISLAM (pbuh)

When the Prophet of Islam appeared in the Arab country, the population of Arbas were naturally human beings but their hearts were dead. They were by look human beings but naturally animals. They had left the road of Allah Subhanahu Ta'ala. They were mere oppressors, they were owners of Shaitan, believers and characters. In them there was no name of humanity and nothing of such nature was present in them. They would bury their new born baby daughters alive. They had reached such stage of ignorance that they would fight each other on simple minor things and were used to continue for fifty or more years and in such condition the light of the Holy prophet appeared to guide the dead hearts of the human race. Naturally this job was very difficult because of sins their hearts had become harder than stone aand they ahd reached such a stage of ignorance that they were unwilling to listen to any thing good. Whenever the prophet of Islam (pbuh) would start to say anything good, stones and rubbish would be thrown at being. Once in Tahif ( name of a place) you were stoned so much that your shoes were filled with blood, to stop your movement they economically bycotted you, and you took refuge in a field between the mountain of Shab -ee Talib. You with your honesty and firmness gave big sacrifce, you continued your holy war and you in your 63 years of life you never cursed the karfirs or hypocrites. Therefore, Allah gave you a most superior victory. The Kafir had united together against your Islamic missionary work against the the Prophet of Islam and today too they continue their missionary work against the Prophet of Islam and the Islamic revlution. In the beginning era of Islam the kafirs used Abu Jahl and Abu lahab to combat against Islam and even now the kafirs and jews used Salman Rushdi. In today's era the kafirs have tried to redue the greatness of the Prophet and the revolution of Islam. They have spread poisonous propaganda that they prophet of Islam was a poet a magician and a mad man, even today by means of Salman Rushdi this poison is being spread.

THE BIGGEST WEAPON OF THE JEWS - PROPAGANDA

The person who is successfully guided (victorious) that person is really alive. If anyone wants life, wants guidance ... those who are misguided from the right path by means of false propaganda.

The enemies of Islam, Jews and Christians their biggest weapon is propaganda and for this reason they have invented alot of media- eg. television radio, VCR, newspapers, BBC, voice of America CNN etc. They have taken over all source of communication and their representative is found everywhere. In the beginning era of Islam there was no such invention and in those time, there were different types of propaganda. The Prophet of Islam (pbuh) was said to be a mangician, so that people stayed away from him, "oh borthers, this prophet is a magician do not go near him, those ladies who were afraid of magicians used to prevent their children to go near the prophet thought that his magic will grip them in such a way that father and son became enemies of son and father. Now see the mind of the kafirs and Jews , how greatly conspirators of new and modern cummunication technolgoy but now the Jews have all source of modern communication by which exteme propaganda can be done against the Prophet of Islam (pbuh) BBC is a source of of spreading their poison CNNR National etc they try to defame Musims and make fun of the teaching of Islam. Did you not see that America did such propagada against our Islamic leader and scholar Imam Khomeini, that our own people became suspicious about him. Daily BBC world News would propagate that today in Iran. So many were killed, hearing such false tupe of reporting, people began to say , ' oh Khomeini is having the people killed and he himself is sitting comfortably. Thus the Jewish propaganda mad the great figure of Imam Khomeini look like a tyrant and oppressor to the world. Surely these are characters of dictators and killers Imam Khomein, and the movement of the Islamic revlution of Iran was pictured in such a way, that the face of Islam was mutilated. How many newspapers do we hve and in what way do they report? What type of things are reported? and who verifies these newspapers? If you investigate thoroughly you will find thatt he final hand is in the hands of the conspiracy Jews. You will see that in all Newspaper printers there is definitely a representative of the Jews, the tools of the Jews, prais of the Jewish culture and are seen as the slaves of the Jews mentally. In the newspaper what they Jewish wish is printed even today the Jews are spreading their poisonous propaganda to destroy Islam. They have done serious tupe of propaganda against this pious person Imam Khomeini, that even our own people have started to say that whatever is happening in Iran is wrong. The purpose of Turkey america and other so called Islamic countries extreme propaganda was done in the whole world, even then at the death of Imam Khomeini all the propaganda against him was destroyed. If he was a tyrant, killer and spilled the bloods rivers, then from his country and other countries more than one million thousand people came to his burial and cried - why did they come? If he was an enemy of his own country people, then why did they cry so much and so loudly- No where in history of the world where more than million thousand people attended the burial of a leader, but only in the burail of Imam Khomeini- so many people hearing the news of the death of Imam Khomeini passed away too. So many people fainted beating their chest. Today's Pharoah's biggest weapon is propaganda. Therefore, it is necessary to escape from it.

Allah Subhanahu Ta'ala is himself saying in surah Hujurat verse 16:

"Oh you who believed if an evil doer comes to you with a report, look carefully into it, lest yu harm people in ignorance then be sorry for what you have done"

Dear guest, the Holy Quran is telling you that without thorough investigation do not accept the words of a kafir, so how can we believe the words of the Jews?

A person came to meet the Prophet of Islam and said , "Where is the prophet? I have some wealth to give him." At that time Abu Jahal was present and he wished that the man does not reach the door of the Prophet and if he hears the words of the Prophet, he definitely leave the road of falsehood and accept the road of righteuousness. This person had come from Syria to see the Prophet. Abu Jahl told his compatriots that you make sure he does not meet the prophet and bring him to me because he does not know what the prophet looks like and tellhim, this the prophet Mohammad Mustafa,in this way we shall keep him away from Islam and also take his wealth. So Abu Jahl's compatriots went to the person , new to the country, no friends etc said to him, " We shall take you to the Prophet," and he said, "Okay come one." According to the plan they took him to Abu Jahl who was sitting on the throne, the man who was brought, asked, "who is the Prophet of Islam (pbuh). The people pointed to Abu Jahl and said , 'he who is sittingon the throne is the Prophet of Islam. "the person looked at Abu Jahl and said, If you name is Moahmmad Mjstafa then what is my name and my father's name." Abu Jahl was stunned at the question because he did not know this man name let alone his father's name. Repsectable guest those eho have faith are never betrayed and these who are less in faith may paossibly be betrayed by people such as Abu Jahl. This man then said, "The Prophet has the ability to know about the hidden things, Allah has sent his prophet with such knowledge, No illeterate or imposter can be the Prophet. " Now you can see how this person stampled false propaganda. We too should train our children in such a way so that they do not become the but of Jewish propaganda. We should train our children in such a way that they become helpers of Mohammad and his family (Ahle Bait)

PROTECT YOUR FAMILY AND YOURSELF

We should wish that we train our children in the correct way and give society the best righteous person. This is not a job, rather is a worship. Worship should be like this and the reward is great to the extent that you have guided the whole mankind and made them pious and virtuous, but Allah has said that due to your ignorance any child becomes misguided and deviates from the road of Islam and is disgusted with Islam then we have really killed his soul and the sin is so great that we have killed the whole mankind and misguided all from the road of Islam and disgusted them all from Islam. Allah has bestowed his trust on us and if we go against his trust this is a big breach of trust and we shall be guilty of it at the Day of Judgement. We would have to answer to Allah. On the day of Judgement all the people will be questioned, rather their questions would be difficult to answer.

Oh people you will be questioned- how did you spend your youthful life, in the obedience of the Merciful allah or in the obedience of the devil, Shaitan.

Your youthful life was spent in the way of Allah or was it occupied in sins.

O people you shall be questioned how did you earn your wealth in a lawful way or unlawful way- did you take anyone else wealth , taken by means of breach of trust did you take briberies. If the wealth was lawful where did you spend it , did you waste it wrongly?

Questions about your children would be asked, " you wished for children, you prayed to Allah, Allah accepted your prayers , os then did you train your children properly. Allah comands in Surah Tahrim verse 6: "O you who believe, save yourselves and your family from the fire."

It is necessary to save yourself from the fire of hell, but besides just yourself it is necessary to save your family and household too. From the fire of Hell. Potect yourself and most important your children first. In the Quran in Surah Maidah verse 105:

"Oh you who believe, take care of your souls."

With yourself save your family and household from the fire of hell...

In any case you have to keep giving advice to your household. If you tell your sister to do hijab once, twice or more and she gets angry and you say that I am on the right path and if she does not listen, it isn ot my fault. I have made my grave and what can I do for her grave? Continue your religious teaching. Man's heart is not of stone, it said that even if you conitinuously drop drops of water on the stone, eventually a hole will occur. By constant polite advice, great oppressors hearts have softeneed. Hazrat Ali has said, "Sometime the heart is loving and some times the heart is disgusted." If at that time your sister does not do hijab ( resistsI it does not mean that you stop telling her (Amr bil Maroof) and stop her doing bad things ( Naheen Almunkar). It is obligatory on you to explains about Islam continuously regularly. It is a human's heart it eventually may have some effect. In the way you yourself became pious and good, it obligatory that you make you household and and pious as much as the prophet of Islam (pbuh) says, "I curse those who do not care of ones' childrens' life after death and only this world." They do not care of the frighterning result and they position in hell, about this they are negligent."

The prophet of Islam says, "Allah curses those parents due to whom negligence the child becomes undutiful."

It is the fault of us, the parents whom beginning intention (marriage) was wrong, if our aim of marriage was like Hazrat ali (A.S.) today we would not have to face such difficulties and prblem. In our weddings there are no condition of religious piety, morality and ethics. Amir Momenin showed us the aims of marriage so that we can give society a lover of Husain, they can be true soldiers of Islam and of the Islam and of the Imam of the time. If in the weddings unlawful and forbidden things take place, not only does it effects the bride and bridegroom but also effects the new coming generation to be born.

HOW CAN WE MAKE THE MARRIAGE BETTER

People say how can we do anything good alone. The whole era is bad. What use it is that only if we are good? How can we cleanse our marriages of of wrong ideas and habits of the time (era). How can we make the household marriages Islamic and clean, so the children to be born are pious and righteous. How can we make the house marriages good, so that Allah and the Prophet of Islam and the family of the Prophet are pleased.

This is reality is a difficult matter. Islam is a vast faith (religion). Islam has the answer to all questions and prblems, and we have many pious, and vituous religious people. The history of haz Mohammad Mustafa and Ahle Bait is present. If we turn to the history of the family of the Prophet of Islam we will find all the results of all our problems.

After the event of Karbala a went in the presence of Imam Zaibul Abedin our fourth Imam and said, "oh Lord it my son's wedding, my wish is that you attend, with your presence the wedding of my son will be prosperous." Imam Zaibul Abedin (A.S.), "Oh my friend after the event of happiness." This man insisted, " oh Lord if you do not come to my son's wedding, the wedding will not take place." Now the Imam saw that this man was very persistent and would not accept No as answer and if he was not present , the imprtant thing such as marriage would be cancelled. so the Imam said, "Okay, if you really wish that I come , I wil come on one condition," The believer said, "I accept any of you condition." Imam then said, " Prior to the wedding a majlis should take place and in it the calamities of my brother Ali Akbar should be read." The man said, " I accept." At the wedding a majlis arrangement was amde and a special place was made for the Imam to sit and a speaker was invited and the calamities of Hazrat Ali Akbar were recited. After the Majlis the Imam was not sitting in his place, but was found sitting where the shoes were taken off. Imam Zainul Abedin cried so much that he was near to fainting. Imam was held by the arms and made to stand. Imam Zainul Abedin said, "I am very happy with the marriage of your house."

Now do you think the wedding where the remembrance of Allah, Prophet of Islam and the family of the Prophet, purdah of Fatima Zehra and Hazrat Zainab such marriages would be prosperous or marriages where ladies come without purdah hijab mixing, music etc. would be prosperous? Allah , Prophet of Islam and the family of the Prophet and Imam will be pleased when a Islamic marriage take place. Look at the enemies biggest conspiracy. Their marriages take place in their place of worship churches. While we lovers of Mohammad Mustafa and his family, our marriages take place is big " marriage halls" and plenty of unnecessary spendager takes place. If we promise that our marriages with take place in our Masjid ( mosque) or Imambarga, which are are place of worship and in our marriages we remember allah, Prophet of Islam Imam Husain Sacrifice and the purdah of Bibi Fatima Zehra and Hazrat Zainab, their chastity and purity. Such wedding would definitely will be prosperous. The morals and ethic of the family of the prophet would have great effect on the chracters of the bride and bridegroom. But we in marriages do Yazidi acts and follow the commands of the devil. This too has an effect on the bride and bridegroom and also on the new generation to be born.

STAGES OF TRAINING CHILDREN

After the wedding of Hazrat Mohammad how did Allah send the light of Hazrat Fatima? Hazrat Mohammad spent 40 days in the worship of Allah and Hazrat Khadija too kept busy in worship of Allah. Then after the 40 days Hazrat Jibrael (gebrael) came down and with him he bought a very special fruit and said to Hazrat Mohammad , that he and Hazrat Khadijatul Kubra should eat the fruit, then after both had eaten the fruit, then the light of Hazrat Fatima came. The first stage of training, is tht the food eaten should be lawful not unlawful.

If the earning is unlawful wealth is earned by bribary, wealth is stolen from others, this has great effect on the new coing generation to be born.

What effect does not forbidden food have on the unborn child (new generation).

It was the beginning era of Islam, the Prophet of Islam was passing through the street, with him were his discipels, there the children were playing, they saw the prophet and all the children said, "Salaam (hello)" one child said Salaam but he also insulted the Prophet of Islam (pbuh). The Prophet of Islam replied to the boy in such a way, "Salaam Alaikum Walidul Haram" (Hello oh illigitimate child)

His disciples went to his father and told him the event. The boy's father went crying to the prophet went in the presence of Prophet of Islam and said, "You are the Prophet of Allah and you can not say anything wrong, firstly I wish to apologize due to my sons insolence but why did you call him a bastard. His being an illigitimate can only be the fault of my wife. The Prophet of Islam said, "Your son being a bastard is not your wife's fault but fault of your own and you aone are responsible." He said, "oh Porphet of Allah how is this so?" Prophet of Islam said," Th night your sons was conceived your earning was unlawful (haram), with the unlawful earning food was obtained and the food made the blood that passed into the child conceived that night. Thus the child born became insolent to the Prophet, hence the Prophet called the chold a bastar. If in society you forget to contemplate about lawful and unlawful food then rather your child becming pious and virtuous, your child most probably become Salman Rushdi. Therefore, it is necessary to remain far from forbidden food.

SEXUAL INTERCOURSE (MEETING)

Act of sexual intercourse or copulation, this is the beginning of the child, this the foundation, the first stage and it the beginning. Therefore, it is very important that the foundation is turf, straight strong and pure. If the child's beginning is wrong it will oave devilish sinful thought and the inner sensual wishes will overpower the person always, and later in life the child would be troublesome on this earth, they will give adults hell and will be the source of extinguishing the society. Therefore, it is necessary to know the laws and acts of love making and all these can be learnt from many religious books ( Tawsih-e- Masael) Book of Islamic issues.

The child is not under ny compulsion to act as the parents, but if the parents are pious and virtuous, then it is most possible that the parents ar abad then it's a possibility that the child would lean towards badness. Allah has given everyone the descretion ot choose what their wish to do. The parents being good or bad does not only persuade the child. The good people are also given the descretion to do good and bad by Allah.

If the care is correct then the parents character will be transmitted into the children, whether parents have illnesses that too is transmitted into the children and if we hve bad characters, then how can good character be transmitted into the child. Naturally those good habits will be transmitted into the children example, ladies most often backbite and are jealous and they often have the habit to show themselves to others thus these habits will pass into the children. Obviously a girl is not born doing purdah (hijab) she harms...

SECOND STAGE

At the time of love making think only of Allah.

Most parents feel very worried about such matters. Islam also shows the answer to such queries so that the parents bad habits do not get transmitted into child. The mother wishes that her daughter is obedient and always in Purdah. The father wishes that his child is the lover of Imam Husain. Now come we shall learn from the history of the family of the prophet of Islam (pbuh). In the presence of Hazrat Ali a husband and wife came, both were very fair coloured (white) and their child, born was very dark (near to black). The father insisted and said, "thisis not my child, my colour is fair and my daughter is fair too. But this child's colour is black, definitely has mother is in the wrong (slept with someone else) " Hazrat Ali said neither have you done anything wrong and nor is your wife to be blame. This child is yours, conceived by your sperm meeting her egg." Now this man was surprised and asked," Oh Lord how can that be, the parents are white and a child born is black?" Hazrat Ali (A.S.) replied, "the reason for this happening is when your were conceiving this child you were not busy thinking of Allah and you wife's thoughts were towards a picture of a black person in your room, thus this child is of that result.

Now you can see that if one does nt think of Allah at the time of copulation, such tramatical thing effect the conception of the child. This man's wife was naturally taking the bodily lust of the intercourse, and accepting his sperms but her thoughts were upon the picture of the black person (negro). If the ladies wish their daughters characters and look like Hazrat Fatima Zehra or Haz Zainab and follow them wish their sons to be like Hazrat Abbas, Harat Ali Akbar or Hazrat Qasim etc. then it necessary that the thoughts are in the worship of Allah because conception is possible.

THIRD STAGE- Preagnancy and Training

The time during pregnancy is very delicate and important. This si the only stage in the life of the child, where the woman alone is responsible for the training. What status does a pregnant woman have near to the Prophet of Islam (pbuh). The Prophet has said, "the status of a pregnant woman is as great as a Muslim fighter in the warfront (holy war Jihad) against the Kafir. The woman shall only get the reward if she abides with the laws like a soldier does. In some traditions it is said that the reward is as great as one night at the front line, at the border in a holy war. Is equal to 1000 rakat prayer (namaz) some traditions say that it is equal to numerous years of worship.

Now if a soldier in the front line or the border fighting with the enemies, for ever a minute if he does not pay attention in the war, it is possible that the enemies may succeed ýÿÿÿ‚the woman is really killing the soul of the unborn child. She is bringing up the unborn child in the obedience of the devil and against the obedience of Allah and giving the lemon of rebelliousness. During pregnancy the woman backbites or speaks bad about people, truly and honestly she is spilling the blood of her own child and for anyone who does not backbiting either pregnancy or not, to them it is like them eating their own dead brother meat. Now can such a woman get reward of being at Jihad or reward of being a warrior of Islam for the sake of Allah? Now during pregnancy a woman should avoid listening to music or stare at any Na Mahram men and do not do any types of sins etc. Because during pregnancy the simpliest type of sin and bad habit could prove to be poisnous for the child. Due to such conditions the child would either take a place in Hell or become a soldier of the 12th Imam. Imam Mahdi instead of becoming the soldier of Shaitan. The best act during pregnancy is that the woman should be busy in the worship of Allah and be very attentive. Acts and thoughts big or small or bad effect the unborn child in the womb. Every act of the mother would be a rsult photographed into the unborn child, thus the result would be heavenly or hellish. Each of her action could make the child Husaini or Yazidi. Therefore, it is necessary that a pregnant woman refrains from doing any sins big or small.

BAD EFFECT OF UNLAWFUL FOOD DURING PREGNANCY

Allahma Majlisi use to take his son to the Masjid. The child sometimes played and sometimes bowed down in prostration (Sajda). A believer had come into the Masjid with a water sack full of water, he put it on the side and did his prayers. The child's mind deviated to naughtiness and he pierced a pole in the water sack, the sack deflated and the whole water was wasted. After prayers Allahma Majlisi heard what his son had done, he was very much ashamed and saddened and thought and said, "I did not do anything forbidden and I took great attention about Mustahaq (desirable), obligatory and forbidden thing during conception and after so why did my son do such a cruelty. Definitely the fault is from the mother's side. so he rushed home and told his wife, "our son did such a cruel act, he burst the water sack of a poor worker and the water poured out. How could he do such a thing. Definitely the fault is from your side. The mother thought thoroughly and then said, "you, it is my fault during pregnancy , I went to a neighbour's house, there were shining red pomegranate hanging on the tree. Without the permission of the owner, I pierced a hole in the pomegranate and sucked the juice. I tasted it and I did not tell the owner.

You see now that even forbidden food when it reaches the stomach and changes to blood then it effect the unborn child. Forbidden food has such effect that it closes the door guidance and Islamic teaching has no effect effect on them.

When Imam Husain (A.S.) entered Karbala, you gave a very great speech and advice, but your advice did not effect any of the lovers of Yazid. Then you took a deep breath then said, "oh soldiers of Yazeed my advice does not effect anyone of you due to you eating forbidden and lawful foot. Now if the mother during pregnancy, she does any sins, she is giving her child poison killing its soul and doing any bad deeds this effect the ynborn child greatly. It is a command for men that during pregnancy they should not fight with their wives and make worried. If the the wife becomes mentally worried then the child born would possibly be born mentally worried. One wh gives life to one soul, guides it definitely the training of children is very difficult. Especially to follow the traditions of the Holy Prophet as much as possible to stay on the path which is thinner than the hair and sharper than the blade of the sword. Naturally, it is difficutl to make the child pious. If you give the society a pious and virtous child then you have done a very good job, so much that you have guided the whole mankind. We have to make our children Husaini and make them follow the rules of Husaini. Why did Imam Husain fight with Yazeed? Did Imam Husain have a personal grudge against Yazeed? No, the aim of Ima Husain was for the reform of the nation of his grandfather.

Until Mohammad Mustafa was alive the true message of Islam was given and reformation had taken place. Husain (A.S.) sacrifice his son Ali Akbar so that the youth will listen to the message of Islam and so that the existence of reform of the nation of Islam remains. Forwarded Ali Akbar (A.S.) chest so that Youth will listen and be ready to give their services to Islam. Imam Husain sacrificed such young brothers like Hazrat Abbas for the reform of the nation, he gave his brother's hands, those hands that protected little Sakina and protected the purdah of Bibi Zainab. They were sacrificed for our nation reforms and so that the youth would give their services to Islam with their hands, not to use their hands to watch dirty films on the VCR. Imam Husain sacrificed Zainab purdah, so that the reform of the nation remains. Ladies come to majlises without purdah and make fun of Bibi Zaiban's purdah. Verily this is not the effect of Bibi Fatima Zehra's (A.S.) training. See in Karbala the true model of Fatima Zehra's training. See in Karbala the model of Imam Ali's training. See the model of Imam Husain training, see the model of Zainab Binte Ali's (A.S.) trainig. Oun... and Mohammad gave their blood for their maternal uncle (Mamoo) and she their final drops of blood for Islam.

May Allah give us the all the divine help to train our children in the best possible Islamic way, so that our children become lovers of Husaini and be able to protect the mourning of Husain (A.S.)

THIRD MAJLIS

Surah Miada verse 32:

"Whoever slays a soul unless it be for manslaughter or msichief in the land it as thogh he has slew the call makind whoever kepps it alive, it is as though he has kept alive the all mankind."

Imam Jafar Sadiq has said in the Tafsir of this verse , "Here giving life, man guides the dad hearted person to the right path, shows them the path of Allah and Islam." Therefore, one who is guided is truly alive and one who is not guided, they are truly dead. If you show a dead hearted person Allah's path and he accepts guidance then its reward is great, it is as great as if you have made the whole mankind ( nation) heavenly, due to your hard work and thoughts you made a youth lover of Allah and worshipping and the girl become veiled ( wearing Hijab) so the reward of this in the court of Allah is exceptionally great that you guided the whole makind. Rather due to our ignorance and stupidity if a person turns away from the path of Allah and guidance, does not come to majlises and does not mourn for the martyrdom of Husain and stays doing sins, the girl does not do purdah and the boy gets the bad habtis of watching dirty filling films so this sin is so much as though we have misguided the whole amkind from the path of Allah. KILLED IT.

GUIDANCE IS LIFE

Guidance is life, only guidance is the name for life. If any nation does not have the light of guidance , thus that nation is indeed dead , they can not cross the stage of progress. The Kafir people always wish to take away the real jewel of our life guidance - so from the Muslims people's body take the heart out (guidance). Today there are one billion Muslims, even if the population increases to ten billion and their strenth increases ten times even then it has no effect on the Kafirs. The strenght of Muslims does not have any effect or danger on Isreal , Baitul Muqqaddas (Guds) the first Qibla (face towards the house of Allah) has remained in the hands of Israel, our youths keep dying, children keep becoming orphans, female keep becoming widows and keep being disgraced. If the Muslims get the light of guidance and faith, then naturally the Muslims will wake up and when the Muslims wake up then they will be forced and able to break all chains of slavery and this is evidently the death of the Kafir. Therefore, the arrogant, colonial power of the unbelievers wish to finish the centre of guidance, so that the light of guidance does not spread.

THE CENTRE OF GUIDANCE IS THE PERSONALITY OF THE MOST GRACIOUS PROPHET (pbuh).

Who is the centre of guidance? Yes the centre of guidance is the most gracious Prophet of Islam, Mohammad Mustafa (pbuh). The personality of the Hazrat Mohammad is explained in Sura Anbia (the Prophet's verse) 107:

"And we have not sent you but as a mercy to the world."

The magnificent Prophet blessing is guidance and he save the people who fall in hell, he pick them up and delivers them in heaven. Now see further what the Quran says in Surah Jumah (Friday) verse 27:

"He , it is who raised among the illiterates an Apostle from among themselves, who recites to them His communications and purifies them and teaches them the Book of Wisdom."

This society has many ways of guidance. Firstly the Prophet will recite the words of Allah, tell them about righteousness, then with the righteous things clean the soul. So when the soul is cleansed the teach them about the book and its philosophy (wisdom).

Now Allah said in Surah Furqa (The Citerion) Verse 1:

"Blessed is He Who sent down the Furqan upon His servant that he may be a warner to the nation."

The Web of the Consirator against the Spiritual guide (Mohammad Mustafa (pbuh)) of the nation.

Now the Holy Quran has said that the whole worlds spiritual guide, equipped with arms is the holy Prophet. One who informs the worldwide, to let you know of the future dnagers and makes you alert and amkes you afraid of the punishment of the hereafter, it is our Holy Prophet. The holy Prophet is the centre of guidance. He is the origin and light from where the whole world recieves all bounties , from here the whole world receives all guidance. Therefore, the Kafir world tries their best to finish this centre, try to put out the light of guidance and try to keep the people quiet. so that the light of guidance does not spread and so the people become misguided.

Now in al heavenly traditions or any of the words of the religious scholars there is Rasoole ( The Holy Prophet) and the family of the Holy Prophet, Thus the foundation of all is the Prophet. See how the Kafirs lighted the cannons arounds the whole Muslim world and caused war around the personality of the Holy Prophet.

The foundation of guidance is the Holy Prophet of Islam and the character of Islam. For this reason the doctrine of apostleship (Ahel Bait) is very strong and superior. Now the Kafir world tried to destroy the name, status and doctrine of the Holy Prophet which is held by the Muslims and hence make the status of the Holy Prophet like an ordinary person, and the saying and traditions of the Holy Prophet to which great emphasises are expressed. Therefore once the status is cut, then the importance of the saying will itself disintegrate. They tried their best to destroy the centre of he light. Therefore, all the world Christians and Jews united against the Prophet of Islam (pbuh). The Jewish mean conspiracy is evidently likes the days light, very visible, and you can see how these Jews and Christians countries are united and encouraged the insolent cursed Rushdi to write against the Holy Prophet. The whole of Europe and America, why did they encourage the cursed Salman rushdi so much? Because in this book he was impudent against the dignities of the Holy Prophet, and the Governemtn of Birtain is protecting him, spending millions of pounds ( most probably tax-paper money) only because Imam Khomeini had gien a ruling that it is obligatory to kill Salman Rushdi. In his book he writes against the friend of of Allah Subhanahu Ta'ala Hazrat Abrahim. The Christian belief in Haz Abrahim but due to their hatred of the Prophet of Islam the Jews and Christians have become mad and blind. The Kafir world and Salman Rushdi have said bad things about our Prophet, sweared at our Prophet. So should we fogive this cursed man? Now tell us you come to this Majlis-e- Husain so late at night (12: a.m.) Is it the time that has brought you here or is it that there is a place in your heart for Imam Husain. Definitely the love of Imam Husain and also the love of the Holy Prophet. The Muslims are willing to give their life wealth and ready to sacrifice everything. Therefore, it is the wish of the enemies that the name of the Holy Prophet, Hazrat Mohammad does not come on the tongue of the Muslims. Therefore, such porpaganda was done, taking the oath with the name of Hazrat Mohammad is paganism" only the oath of Allah should be taken. A person however sinful he may be, he definitely taken the oath of Hazrat Mohammad. Therefore, they wish to wipe out the name of the Prophet of Allah from the tongues and heart. The name of Ali Murtaza may not remain . Naturally one will only take the oath of one who is great and convince. Therefore, they wish to cut the greatness of Ahle- Bait (Apostleship) they say, " to take the oath in the name of Hazrat Mohammad is Paganism. But until the Quran remains the name of the Holy Prophet, cannot be wiped out, of this world. Now even if thousands of Jews try to wipe the name of the Holy Prophet from the hearts of people and wipe the remembrance , but until there is the Holy Quran no one can cut personality and dignity of the Holy Prophet. Against the false belief and propaganda the Holy Quran with full attack has said in Surah in Balad (The City) Verse 1-2:

"Nay! I swear by this city

And you shall be made free from

obligations in this city."

This is the dignity of Mohammad Allah is taking the oath of the city which the Prophet lives in, and so if the Kafir people propagate that taking the oath of the prophet is paganism. But the Quran has taken its stand that it is not paganism and not against the straight path of Isla, but what the kafir says is the road of Shaitan - devil.

Allah has not just taken the oath of the prophet but of the icty which the prophet breathe in and in such waty Allah has put a stamp on the dinity of the Prophet. If a lifeless thing is attributed with living things then taht lifeless thing will be referred to as a living thing thus due to this it will be worthy of honour. Therefore due to the dignity of the Prophet and his greatness, an oath was taken of the lifeless city , in which the Prophet lived. We should try to keep ourselves and our family save from the enemies poisonous propaganda and save us from the coming new era where excesive propaganda about Oath will be spread. So we should bring up our children in a Islamic way so that they do not become the prey of the poisonour propaganda. Now if a person is sinful and he brings up the child in a Islamic way and this child becomes good and pious then that child could become the reason for the salvation of the parents. If the child is trained properly, he could bring his parents out ofthe hole of punishment of hell.

THE REAL LOSS

If peopld od not train their children properly in a true Islamic way and follow the time themselves andmake their children follow the time, thus the children will be misguided and this would be the Rent Loss- Allah has said in the Holy Quran in surah Asr (time) verse 1-2:

" I swear by Time

Most surely man is in Loss."

Allah has taken this oath to wake us negligent people up because we are negligent about our conduct, our bad deeds about our hereafter and we are unware of our position in Hell.

Imam Khomeini has given an explanation of the Surah Asr with meaning- " Imam-e- Zaman" means Allah takes the oath of his Imam (apostle) of the time representative and its authority and says man is definitely at loss. Now thelost Allah is taking about we think is the world loss, if wealth is stolen, to us is felt as a loss. If our hands are during body building this is felt as a loss, we lose our eyes this is felt as a loss. Allah knows our mentality and how dependent we are in this world and how much we love the world we live in. Therefore, Allah is taking this oath so as to warn us of the dangers; oh men you are at loss, why are you negligent? On all four sides is fire, Allah say oh men thik that loss is in the decrease of wealth. If our house burns you thik this is a sloos, her, Allah is taking the oath only so that we may wake up from negligence. At the other stage Allah has explained what true los is - Real Loss- loss is punishment, being distanced from not receiving salvation from Hazrat Mohammad and his family is Loss. Almighty Allah has said in the Quran in Surah Shuran (The Counsel) verse 45:

"Surely the losers are they

who have lost themselves and

their followrs on the resurrection

Day."

Respectable day, now you have seen what Allah classifies as loss, and what man classifies as loss. When anyones wealth is stolen, he thinks this is loss. Yes this is loss but this is only to the extent of this world, this loss has no relation to the loss of hereafter. This loss is totally different nature, if you fail to pray your morning prayers on time if you listen to songs, do not care for purdah and do not even wear it. These are naturally the demands of time you are following step by step, but loss in reality is definitely great. Their circle around would have spread, by the Day of Judgement, this would cause your heavenly loss, this would cause your peace and comfort loss in heaven. This loss would lead you to Hell. This loss is always a loss in according to Imam Ali in Dua Kumail:

"Those who live in hell their punishment will not be reduced and due to the punishment neither the Earth stands still nor the sky stand."

The real loss explained by the Quran is that man does not train himself nor his family, does not make them saintly and does not save himself or his family from the punishment of hel. Turn their faces away from obedience of Allah and from the benefit giver. He himself would follow Shaitan (devil) whose noose will be but in his neck as well as his households, he invites his family to follow Shaitan too. We should try to train our family, household and children in the proper Islamic priciples, so that we can keep our family children and household always away from the punishment of the hereafter.

"The sanitly Sentence of the Prophet of Islam (pbuh)

Uptil now many books have being written on training of children by doctors and speechs have been given on the laws. So many precautionary measures have been mentioned. Whatever the specialist psycologist have said are on one side and the saintly sentice of our prophet is one one side. The prophet of Islam says, now if you take attention to this sentence you will reach the Goden law of training children. By this one sentecne all the laws of training of children are rejected. The prophet of Islam says from the first year to the seventh year the child is your boss, king etc. from seven years to 14th year the child is your slave and from 14th year to 21st year the child is your minister to so take advice from him."

According to the saying of the Prophet the child from 1st to 7th year is your chief best, why is he your chief? Because everyone helps the chief, look after his comfort, wash his clothes clean, give his food, care for his heart and cold, one makes sure that he is happy and comfortable. So a child is like a chief , we care for all his comforts physically you should think of his spiritual food also you should train his soul also. The way your think of his body you should thik of his soul in the same way. His oul's food is love and affection. If you smile at the child the child will smile back at you. The child is longing for love. If he does not recieve love, then the consequence could prove to be extremely dangerous for the parents. If you do not ove your child this could be dangerous like a ulcer.... or caner. From the 1st year to the 7th year could be extremly delicate time.

From the 1st year to the 7th year the child is your boss and chief and you are his servant and helper. From the 7th year to the 14th year the child your slave and your the chief and boss. Now if you do not take help from your helper then he would become lazy. Therefore, make him work hard, so that his work is good take the advantage of his abilities, os that later it would help him in life.

14th year to 21st year, he is your minister and advisor, therefore, as for advice from him. From the 1st to 7th year the child is your chief who needs your help, who needs your love, therefore, try not to dishonour him because insult and disgrace for a child is extremely dangerous. The Prophet of Islam has said, "Respect your children, if they learn good morals and ethics and you wish that they ask forgiveness for your sins."

Parents do not have the right to beat their children and insult their children because the children are sinless (Masoom), they have not yet committed thousands of sins. The child is more superior than us but it these sort of things that make him anti Allah.

A place of respect for the child.

Imam Masoomeen (sinless apostle) has said, "whoever is infront of you, if he is older in age, then he has done more good then you and if he is younger than you in age then he has done less sins then you." Respect your children because their sins are less . Respect and honour your children, they are sinless, they have done no sins but actually they are good . Allah has ordered us to repsect an ordinary person, but children are good . In the tradition it has been said, "I have hidden my particular (good) people without the ordinary people, therefore, respect all and do not think anyone inferior, because possibly he may be my particular person.

I have no right to dishonour any ordinary Muslim person then how can I dishonour a child who has is sinless and has not committed any sins? Oh men you have not been given the right to dishonour any person. Hazrat Isa (Jesus) was asked, "What is the most hard and difficult thing?" Haztat Isa replied, "anger and wrath of Allah". Then the person asked," how can we be save from the anger and wrath of Allah?"

He replied, "Those who are weaker than you do not show your anger on them, hence Allah will not be show his anger on you."

whoever is a benefactor, youth, older person weak person, widow, child, worker, younger brothers and sisters, students or unrelated person, to all we should be merciful and and do not show our agner and let it pass, open the doors of forgivenss, thus Allah too will not show his anger on you. Parents too do not have the right to dishonour their child, then teacher to does not have the right to hit the student. Therefore, precautionary measures are necessary. If the child is disrespected and he does not receive love, he will be an oppressor and became a person with beastly character. Mamoom Rashid was a son of a servant lady and Amin was the son of a princess Mamoon Rashid from childhood did not recieve love and attention, he was disrespected by his own mother and also his stepmother princess Zubeida, when Mamoom Rashid grew up he had greed for kingship, hence he killed princess Zubeida's son Amin and he hung his brothers head in the counrt and announced to the people of the city that they should come and dishonour the head, spit on the face, slap the face and hit it with shoes, then the body would be buried. The session continued for many unaccountable days, everyday people would come and do as Mamoon announced. One day a man came andhit him with his shoe and then said curse be on your father and your brothers too, means curse be on Mamoon, so when Mamoon heard this he announced that the session must close and the head was taken down. Mamoon did not receive any love, only disrespect and dishonour in his childhood, his character become beastly and oppressive. It is necessary to give love to children. In the hadis (tradition) it is said, "father should kiss his child on the face is worship." According to another tradition, to take the child in your arms, becomes a form of reward." to bring gifts for the child is reward. The Quran itself says in Surah Maun (The Daily Necessary) verse 1-2:

"Have you considered him who calls the Judgement a lie? That is the one who treats orphans with harshness."

The second quality that has been explained that he is harsh on the orphan, because he does not have a father. Thus one who does not respect orphans, he does not have a faith, who gives orphans respect, who does not have a father, nor a mother, to say loving things. Holy Quran says that man has no faith who does not love and respect orphans. Where a child does not receive love and affection, then this could be the reason for the destruction of the soceity and it is a saying from the religious scholars that "one illness, such as plague can cause man loss, but a misguided person is worse then a plague and can cause greater loss. It may give society an oppressive dictator."

Therefore, the Holy Quran has said aloud men women and society, who lie about faith, who is harsh on an orphan, who does not love an orphan. See how much reward you get for living an orphan. In traditions- when a person passes his hand over the hair of an orphan with love and affection, the number of hair that come under the hand, he gets that number of rewards. If you do not treat your child with love it is possible to make your child YAZEEDI. But you should not give exteme love to your child that he is rude and insolent and that he disrespects people. Therefore, these people who did not train their child and those people who were harsh on their child both lead their child toward the road of misguidance. If you do not take attention or you are harsh, in, in both extremes are bad and thus lead to misguidance, towards destruction and ruining. The Holy Quran tell you how to stay in the middle concernign training of children. The Holy Quran tell us how to guide the child in the right way.

HOLY QURAN'S METHOD IS ADVICE.

Now we shall see how the method of the Quran is advice. The Holy Quran is showing you the way of guiding children. Harat Luqman was advising his son, he said in Surah Luqman ver 13:

"And when Luqman said to his son, while he admonished him; oh my son! do not associate aught with Allah; Most sincerely polytheism is a grievous iniquity."

For a father it is necessary that he advies his son and daughter. Thell them of the enefit of the good things and make them aware of the bad things and its loss. Father can only advise a child if he himself is good. These children are not like you and me, that you can stand with a stick above their heads and make sure that they do the good things. We say , "oh stupid, oh foolish doneky." But Islam does not give us the order to dishonour or disrespect the child but actuall it tells us to talk to the children loving. If you call your child stupid, donkey, foolish etc, these words effect the childs fresh mind, therefore, do not use bad, vulgar or inappropriate words in front of the children. when the child does anything wrong, explain to him with love and affection, otherwise he may become subborn { a cose foriend of Imam Khomeini, Ayatollah Sheikh Mohammad Shahriati came to Karachi about fourty or fifty years ago and there he establishe a Najaf type of Madresa, at that time ulema were against him, he in his life time taught lesson alone till the end of his life. He continued alone to teach the lessons he died in Karachi, he used to say, "Doing sins in temporary but do not make sins a foundation, thus remove it from the root."} Don't be forceful with the child make him understand with love, do not be forceful with the child, because it may have bad effect, and the Holy Quran has said, "Oh son speaking lovingly with your children. Do't make anyone a partner of Allah. Don't commit idolatory on your discretion. Paganism is a sin, meaningto think of sone one at the same level as Allah, to associate someone else in place of Allah. Example you get up in the middle of the night od ablution (Wudhu) for Namaz-e- Shab (prayer of the night), status flies high up in the skies and the angels are below your feet. If you relate anyone else with Allah, then you will fall from such a height into the pit of Hell. Holy Quran not only tells you not do bad things , but also tells you that even contact with Namahram (those who you can marry), see bad films, go around everywhere without Hijab, for everything Quran gives proves. Hazrat Luqman was telling his son not to do idolatory and its harms and he gave proves, why your should not do idolatory and its harms in Surah Luqman verse 13, which you read before. Definitely doing idolatory is a big injustice not only injustice but a loss rather a great loss. It is not the loss of the world rather it is the loss of your hereafter, and the loss of the hereafter is for always, this loss we do not understand as yet, that's why I gave the example of prayers, that man in prayers reaches the highest place in sky , he is in the heavens, but only is he does idolatory then he shall fall in the pit of Hell. Now if he unfortunately did idolatory then what, you really will go and fall in Hell, do you really know the feeling of burning yourselves and the heat of Hell? To choose idolatory you will feel the heat of Hell and that will be felt in the world to come after death; on the Day of Judgement. The Holy Quran has expressed a formula, it has given an advice on training. One golden rule and that is when you roder anyone t do a good job one should tell them the benefits of doing the job. When you advice anyone not to d the bad things, then again you should tell them the harm of doing the job, give proves with your advices.

When you order some one to pray, do not just order , do not just be foreceful but you should with proves tell them the benefits of praying. In Surah Moaminun (The Believers) verse 1-2:

"Successful indeed are the believers , who are humble in their prayers."

What prove have you given that if you pray then you shall attain fear of Allah and the benefits of fear of Allah is that you attain it andthat shall save your from the punishment of Allah.

Now the Holy Quran has given a second prove and its benefits in Surah Ankabut ( The Spider) verse 45:

"Surely prayers keeps (one) away from indecency and evil."

Now the Holy Quran also give the proves ofthe harms of not praying in Surah Muddahsir (The clothed one) in verse 41 - 42 and 43:

"About the guilty what has brought you into hell? They shall say, we were not of those who prayed"

Now Quran has given proves, that oh men, if you do not pray, and turn your faces away from Allah's great obedience, the person would become hellish, for just few minutes of obedience of Allah, you turn your faces from prayers, such disobedience would be the reason for burning in Hell for thousands fo years. Therefore, instead of arrogance be modest and worship allah. Wherever in the Quran advice is given there is also a prove for its benefits and its harms. Definitely polytheism is a great injustice. Allah who has given you this body and these limbs, these are given in trust to you, therefore, do not be disobedient with Allah is gift. Don't backbite with your tongues, which Allah has given you. The Holy Prophet has said, " On the Day of Judgement men not only will you be sent to hell because of your tonuge and its sins but also other things." Allah has given the strength to listen, so don't use the rules against Allah has given you, therefore, use the limbs to help other in the way of Allah. All our limbs are a trust to us from Allah and whatever we do wtong with them they will give answers to all our wtong doing on the Day of Judgement. When child do bad things explain to them with proves do not shout or scream. We fasely promise with children things to avoid giving explantion. Example you are doing some work, then child (comes and requests you to take him out, the child persists. By the child persisting it cause disturbance in your work, there to evade the situation you tell the child, okay tomorrow we will go and ot the bazaar and buy you some toys. Now we lied to the child, so that he may go and leave us alone, the child understands the reality , if you do not accomplish the promise, the childs heart would be broken disrespect of the child and this will be a big lie to which the child himself will lean towards. Therefore, we should not make false promises to our children, it will be a bad impression.

RESPECT YOUR CHILDREN

LOVE YOUR CHIDREN

Do not much against the child do not be dishonest and do not disrespect and dishonour the child, it is often the reason for may of his difficulties and problems. Being harsh on the child in his childhod is the reason for his mental illnesses and could be the prey of psychological illnesses.

Today there are more psychological illnesses in the whole of Europe and America compared to other countries. Almost eighty percent of the people are prey of mental pressure. There, there is no Islam and spiritual concept and adultery in common even. Every five mature girls who are mothers to be, take lessons in scholl about it from other girls. Now the illigitimate child opens the door of difficulties and problems. Often these children are put inot welfare home care, therefore, these children do not even know who their parents are and their are deprived of the love and affection a parents, hence when they grow up they become the reason of the destruction of the society.

A Newspaper in Germany wirtes- "In Germany to attain mental peace in one ngiht thousands of Tablest are sold to give people peace and put them to sleep, thousands of Rupees are also spend on this."

You see the rate of suicide in America is high compared to the other countries, there is money. Dollars and wealth. Noone is in any difficulties wealth wise. Half the wealth of the world is in America, because America robbed from everywhere (riches) of our Muslimss poor and oppressed countreis wealth, but with all this wealth there is no peace of mind there. due to this foundation people turn their faces away from Islam and Islamic teaching. So that the children are not correctly trained. The father earns, the son earn and os does the mother also earn, all go out to earn, they put their smaller children into care of body minders from morning to evening, where the child longs for the love of his mother. I with my own eyes have seen the teacher of suhc care, she was a Muslim, she had about 25 children and whenever any child criend she would slap the child, after all it was not her child to whom she would give full love and attention, all she wanted waas the money at the end of the day. Whenever the child would cry or cause problems she would curse the child and then slap the child a couple of times, thus the child would be scared.

According to the Europeon Newspapers, "in the baby carey schools the ladies who run the care for the children it put children to sleep some give alchol to the children, so the child goes to sleep and the ladies can do their own work peacfuly for a coupe of hours." The most funny thing is that in some places where parents want to save on the expenditure of baby care, they keep a trained monkey in the house who looks after the children when the parents have gone to work. Now time has come where man is being brought up by animals. The older brother does not have time from his friends, the older sister has left, who goes out with other boys too, then she too does not have times. This is the training of the parents. Now what can we do and say? Development in man or degrading. The chidl who is brought up by animals, gives alelchol in child care school, creutly of the ladies etc. These children's saviour is only Allah alone.

Oh Allah, when we ourselves, our ladies and our children go to Majlis' how much reform we attain. It is one in hundred thousands that a child who does not get love becomes brilliant, clever etc. but does not mean that tyou go home and stop giving love to your child, it is only one million chance. Such case for example like Newton scientist harshness dishonour and disrepect in childhood made him work hard. History of Newton , he did not get any love at all, he used to go to schold barefooted so all the kids used to make fun of him, because of the fun and humiliation he decided to work hard and thus became a famour scientist.

The second part of the tradition of the holy Prophet - Your children from the age of 7 year to 14 years they are your slaves servants etc. Therefore, make use of them and make them work, so that no rust cmes on their abilities. he should not become lazy make him work hard and let him know what hard work is.

The third sentence of the Holy Prophet, - Your child from 14 years to 21 years is your advisor , minister etc. Therefore, take advice from him. If we follow these major Golden rules, teaching of the Holy quran and the Ahle Bait (Family of the Holy Prophet) then definitely our house would become Heaven and the bad things in society would vanish, and the enemies would eventually loose.

The enemies have always tried to oppress orphans, so that they can easily misguide them. Allah says in the Holy Quran that, "Those who have no faith, those who lie about religion and the laws of Allah, those who are harsh on orphans and disrespect orphans" These are enemies of Ahle Bait. Their aim is to always oppress and misguide the people; and make the people faithless and unbelievers, but we should give thousands of salutions to the great mothers who train their children according to the Quran, Islamic laws and Commands of the Ahle Bait. Now see ahead Muslim bin Aqeel's darling precious sons, Allah is great, such splendid Islamic training. Yes they are followers of Hazrat Ali. Thus they had characters like Hazrat Ali. Therefore, their training was given like Hazrat Ali. If you are followers of Hazrat Ali train your children like the children of Muslim bin Aqeel, train your children like Hazrat Abbas Hazrat Ali Akbar Hazrat Qasim (A.S.) etc.

The orphans of Hazrat Muslim were being oppressed injustly by unfaithful hypocritical Muslims. What characters and behaviour, the kafir society showed the orphans? Allah says that those who are harsh and unfair with orphans are unbelievers Kafirs. Yes it is the law of the world and customary that when a child is an orphan you should love them, with affection, pass your hands over the head, why because he has no mother or father, one tries to give love and affection to the orphan so that with his heart becomes joyful. One calls the orphands and speaks to them with loving words. But look at the orphans of Husaini, what type of behaviour was expressed, did they use love and affection with Sakina, the orphans of Muslim bin Aqeel. How oppressed they all were. But see their training given till the last moment, they requested time for prays. This is training even then these cruel and evil people did not have mercy and martyred both the innocent orphans and their wound the heart of Bibi Fatima Zehra and made the Holy Prophet cry.

May Allah give us all the divine help to train our children in the best Islamic way, so that our children become lovers of Husaini and be able to protect the mourning of Husain (A.S.)

4TH MAJLIS

(In the name of Allah)

Surah Maidah verse 32:

"Whoever slays a soul, unless it is for manslaughter or for mischief in the land, it is as though he has slew the whole mankind (men) whoever keeps it alive it is as though he has kept alive the all the mankind (men)."

This is the law of the Quran and the light of the Quran, Quran is the truth, it has come from the righteous Faith,... righteous people, and it invites the righteous. In the Quran it has been commanded , by the rughteous Allah.

(1) "Who kills one soul misguides one person from Allah's path "straight path" distances the person from mourning of Imam. Husain and he starts too commit sins. So how great is such a sin? The sin is extremely great.

(2) It is as thogh he has killed the whole makind. If you misguide one person from the path of Allah, it is as much as if you have misguided the whole mankind. So You have killed the whole nation (mankind). so in the presence of the Quran you are murderer of the whole mankind, thus guilty".

(3) One who gives life to one soul, giving means that you have guided a misguided (dead soul) person and made him a worshipper of Allah, pious and obedient. Now it rewarded is extremely great".

(4) "The reward is as though you have saved the whole mankind. Guiding the all of the men and making them Allah worshippers and the reard would be all in your head."

To kill some one and removing him from the path of allahis a great sin and to guide someone to the right path is a great reward. Quran is the truth and it describes realities. If one does not have thelight of guidance then one should think oneself dead, because such a person is still in the grips of the devil. he is the personer of unspiritual wishes. In darkness of sins, he is unable to see anything. Thus he is dead. How can he be brought to life? When he is able to grip the light of Allah and guidance powerfully and revolt against the devil's path, and become the enemies of the unspiritual wishes and from the darkness of sins come into the obedient light of Allah.

Guidance is life and guidance is light. Thereofe, showever enters this light and saves himself from the life of disgrace, then theat person has truly attained life and is definitely alive. He in th e presence of the nation of Allah is alive. Within anyone a revolution occurs, whoever takes oneself out of the life of dishonour and disgrace, he is truely and really alive in society. Whoever follows the Islamic laws, a revolution has been born within him.

In the Quran in Surah Rad (The Thunder)

verse II it says:

"Surely Allah does not change the condition of the people until they change their own condition."

The society is dead, where the concept sin is not recongized and do not care of the obedience of Allah . In the modern life, sin is accepted as rules and regulations.

What is Mischief?

We explained in our previous Majlis that the Kafir people always trying their best to take away our aim of life. The real Jewel of life is "guidance" take away , or put out the light of Allah off, os that by this they can rule over us and make us do whatever they wish, control us.

You heard the ayat previously, hwere we mentioned that if you kill anyone without a reason or cause mischief on the land, this sin is equal to destroying the whole mankind, either killing or mischief, mongering both the sins are equal, both are enemies of mankind. The enemies cause mischief and make us their slaves, with their devilish, immoral, shamelss and inhumanitarian acts conquer us with their culture deeply and thus make us their slaves mentally. In the Arabic language, mischief has vast menaing. If any one causes mischief between the husband and wife, then the sin is equal to killing. If anyone tries to cause brother to fight brother then this too is mischief. If anyone makes plan to make to faimilies to fight, thus these pleans will also be classified in the circles of mischief mongering.

Stirring trouble and mischief is ason. But this is a bigger sin then killing.

To cause fend and dislikes between two faimlies to invite problems, this is greater sin than killing. After killing the soul the body is dead, hence the door fro doing deeds is closed, now the person can not do good nor bad acts. But mischief is such a problem that it incites bacbitingh, hostility and enemies, because of this such deeds are for ever with you, even when you die, Man due to such acts cause complte destruction fo rhimself and for the society he lives in.

THE SINS OF BACKBITING

What is backbiting and howmuch is the punishment mawla Ali used to say, "Oh Nuhfil, Save yourself from backbiting undoubtedly this is the food of dogs of hell. Then he said oh Nuhfil those who claim that it was lawful. While they were backbiting, they are eating meat of the poeple.

The Prophet of Islam (pbuh) has said "Backbiting is extremely bad sin that on the day of Judgement the people who did backbiting will appear in all types of faces and it tongue will be made so long that people of the day of Judgment will be able to walk on it. Backbiting is when we say something bad behind someones and it hurts them. Example: If we call someone black, midget, etc. and if we we talk about a person in usch a way when he is not present in the party that when he comes he is disrespected and insulted. Now even after hearing such things and you still do backbiting, this is because of our ignorance. We are preparing punishment for ourselves and collecting things for our own destruction. We can not stand the slightest insult in this world, think a while that there will be a crowd of people ofthe beginning and the end, all friends families, people of neighbourhood and all Imams and Prophets will have gathered and in front of them our real face will be obvious will be brought with a dog's faces etc. All will be aquainted with our reality. Why is backbiting an extremely dreadful sin? Because it creates mischief nd trouble. The Prophet of Islam has said: "People on the day of Judgement will not only be put in Hell because of their tongues agression but also other mischieves. All the hardships , dreadful thing, trials and mischieves are all tools made by the devil. This tonuge creates alot of mischieves, therefore, you should be extremely precautious. Even Allah hs mentioned in the Holy Quan about the tongue in Surah Hojorat Ayat 12 (Chambers):

"Does one of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? but you abhor it, and be careful of (your duty to) Allah, surely Allah is oft refurning (to mercy) Merciful"

Why is hypocrisy censure, because man keeps something in the heart and outside is some thing else. With hypocrisy mischief is introduced in the society. In the Quran it has been said in Suah Al Baqarah (the cow) in Ayat 9:

"they desire to deceive Allah and those who believe, and they deceive only themselves and they donot perceive."

Those who create mischief in society are preparing fire for thmselves and are deceiving onelse.

The destruction of Belief , is the destruction of society.

Without Purdah, without modesty and ethics, bribary is becoming common now. This all coems under the circle of mischief. In the presence of the Holy Quran, the society which has made unmodesty and without purdah a common act, this is evil. Where bribary and interest is common, where bad things are not thought as bad, and bad things are looked at with great interest. These are all classified as mischieves. But one main mischief is where discord is spread within the followers of the faith. This is the most dangerous of all mischief is where discord is spread within the followers of the faith. This is the most dangerous of all mischieves (If you change the direction of the track of the train, the train will continue but it will not get to its actual destination) thus if you cause a discord within the followers of a faith, hence the whole society will be spoiled and ruined. If in any society badness is common eg. alcholism, gabling, adultery bribary etc. but if the belief is correct and strong, thence all these badness can be eradicated. But if with these badness the society belief is weak than it is impossible for the badness to be eradicated from the soceity. If you spoil any societie's faith then the society is seen as living but actually it has become dead. Evidently if the society is conuing work and showing signs of life, but in the presence of the Holy Quran and "Truth and Reality" such society is related as "Dead".

The Kafir world is attacking us Muslims from all four directions and with the attack they have deprav ed us of our belief and caused evil in our society and our institutions. Pakistan cme into ti existence because of Islamic Ideology but the ideology have changed, but the system has not changed, then system is still of those English Pakistan. It came into existence on th platform of Islam but here instead of Islam the system's of the English and jews. they aim is to cause evil in the socity and within the followers of the faith, Muslims. Their life's biggest aim is to destroy and ruin the Muslims. Therefore, they give practical images of their comtemptible aims to the Muslims Ideology. Thus we are deprived of thoughts and believes. Now see the whole society is filled with sins. Now here justices is sold. The rich get justices and their right, while the rights, of the poor is taken away and from here another badness is born. They have not only caused discord, but they have introduced other badness to come into existence by themselves. The Jewish world does not have to guide us again and again, their representatives are present to misguide us. Now the other so called badness which are coming into existence by itself. The poor person does not get its rights, so he use unlawful means so he will oppress someone elsas right to get its right. He will steal others rights. Whilst the rich uses its strength in an unlawful manner. The Muslim's mind (thoughts) have become a slave and its body is free. But their thoughts, ideas and understanding are all slaves of the jews and Christians. Now that the world propaganda is under effect and accept all the propaganda. Therefore, what did the propaganda of Salman Rushdi (curse be upon him. Lanat) do? After the revolution of Iran and its success, America and other kafir world had to strongly encounter defeat and they were insulted and disgraced in front of the whole world. Then they provoked Saddam to attack Iran. So that the force of the revolution publicity would be eviated and occupied in the war. But do to Imam Khomeini's wise leadership and statemanship, suppressed the aims of whole Kafir world into the dust and the peace of Iran itself become a noose of their necks. When this rick became useless , then they used other means. The Jews have many way and trick. Therefore, Salman Rushdi mischief of set loose. So that the common and ingnorant person becomes misguided. On this particular trick the Islamic Republic of Iran took a strong stand. The aims of the enemies was to take away one's light of guidance, thoughts and belifs and destroy the personality of the centre of guidance the Prophet of Islamic communities are untiy about. Now if all the feuds finish and all unite then eventually all the hostilities will be destroyed, and the flower will begin to bloom, due to the love and affection of the Holy Propet. If anyones heart is empty of the love of the Holy Prophet, thus such a heart can not be illuminated. And in his breath the sound of Oh Prophet, Oh Prophet can not be heard, in his thoughts the air of Madina can not be felt, suhc a person cannot be classified as Muslim. Now by the book of Salman Rushdi which misguided our ideas and theories.

Now they are attracking the personality of our Holy Prophet of Islam and lis are been told about Imam Ali Al-Murtaza (A.S.) and the family of the Prophet, Ahle Bait.