If you didn't guess from the header thing up there, I don't agree with the concept of marriage. I think it is extremely stupid, contradictory to itself, the option for the close-minded and the insecure, and just a dumb idea overall. I can't even put it into words how and why its so stupid, but i'll try anyway. If you need a piece of paper to tell you that you love somebody, you don't love them all that much and you sure as hell don't love them completely, totally, and truely. And how insecure about your supposed love do you have to be to need the law (not to mention religion) to force you to stay with your partner and yer partner to stay with you. If you were really truely fully totally and completely in love with whoever, you and them should be free to go off and be with anyone else you want (with no consequences, legal or otherwise), have all that freedom and still CHOOSE to be with the one you (supposedly) love. Freedom is a good thing, and marriage takes away some freedom, and if you really love someone, wouldn't you want them to have everything that is good? I guess what i'm basicly trying to say is if you really love someone, you shouldn't need marriage to "confirm" it. Marriage is bullshit. And just in case you are married and you think i am doubting and/or questioning your love for your spouse, Yes, I absolutely am....

For the record i have nothing against two people spending their lives with each other and no one else. I'm not one of those people who wants or needs variety. I could be perfectly content with "the same cereal every morning" and don't need or want the "variety pack" (as they say). In this day and age the "variety pack" option is way too risky what with aids and std's floating all over the place.