Age: 59
Education: MA in Sociology
Physical Information~
Gender: Female/Butch Race: Caucasian I am 5'11", 240#, short hair, good looking for an old guy! My eyes are very blue. I am a casual dresser... T-shirts and Levi's and sandals or athletic shoes. My best features are internal: soul and spirit, compassion and caring. I'm a non-smoker and I don't drink.
I have grown children and young grandchildren, and enjoy them very much. I am a retired Sociology instructor.
Originally from LA, I moved to Las Vegas in 1990. I am open minded and non-judgemental. I like to go to buffets and play penny slots one coin at a time once in a great while. I love to stay home to watch tv and cuddle.
My 3 kids, their spouses, and 10 grandkids all live here. I like to live close enough to visit frequently but far enough away to not be "on call" 24/7 for cab service and babysitting. I want a little loving attention for me now.
Sexual stuff doesn't shock me because I had an undergraduate special major in human sexuality. Some people think I'm coarse when I don't blush at dirty jokes. I do, however, blush at truly intimate times.
I may tell you that I don't get jealous. That's just because my massive ego won't let me believe that anyone who had ME would want anybody else! But if I am betrayed in other ways I freeze. That person just cuts off anything that could have been because I withdraw and detatch from them so they can't hurt me again.
I am at the stage in life when my work is done, my kids are raised, and it's time for me! I would love to "fly down into the easy chair" (Dylan) with someone and grow old with her.
She likes talking over cappucino, reading one another's poetry, sharing stories, walking hand in hand until we part then talking on the telephone all night long because we can't wait to see each other again. Personally, my mate is happy, is secure emotionally and financially, likes kids and dogs/cats, has her own interests and will let me enjoy mine, will be close but not clingy or possessive, and trust me as I will trust her to keep whatever committment we may make. She is playful and romantic, young at heart but mature in spirit. I have very strong opinions and hope that she does too; that if we disagree we won't fight, merely acknowledge each other's feelings.
My perception of an ideal relationship might be: egalitarian, trusting, close but open, knowing and accepting one another's families, not having to speak to know what each other is thinking, playful at times, romantic at times, hard working at times, and always loving.
Beaudyk is my way of spelling...Bodig
and one last word...
The Wiccan Rede