"LOVE"
....love moves in mysterious way
If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.
How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.
Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.
They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away. Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.
Love always has been and always will be a mystery.
Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.
When we fail in our relationships, we ask ourselves what went wrong.
There are times when nothing was wrong. Sometimes love just naturally fades away and this happens to people who are simply not meant for each other. I know it is difficult to comprehend why relationships suddenly take unexpected turns. But, it always happens. People we treasure are taken away from us for a reason. Sometimes we have to stop asking why and just accept our fate. If there is certainty in that end, then we should stop being bitter and just be thankful that for once, we have loved and shared our life.
Sometimes we are holding on to someone whom we think is still there but has really been long gone, or was just looking for a decent way out of your relationship. You know how men can get away with words. There is nothing wrong in loving someone. You may be able to bear the pain when love begins to hurt. And when it hurts, you may still be able to give even more. You maybe even able to love until it hurts no more. But what good does it bring you when the person you love shows no respect for what you feel and makes lame excuses for his inability to love you back. Love isn't love until you give away. But love will only have life when it is shared by two people who believe in its meaning, by people who share one goal, one commitment, and by people who are selflessly loyal to each other.
God's ways aren't always easy and painless. Some are meant to open our eyes to what we do not see. Some are meant to make us realize what we stubbornly refuse to understand. But all of them will always be meant to make us stronger and better persons. We just have to trust Him on that. you may find your way to the farthest planet and still remember the one you love.
Distance has little to do with forgetting. This healing should begin in your heart. Acceptance is the first step to recovery.
Once you have learned to understand that this is where it ends then it is the only time when you will learn how to move on with life without having to stop every time you are reminded of the bitterness of the past.
Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.
Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.
Why do things have to be so hard?
Why does there have to be so much pain in life?
Why does the heart have to feel so much?
These are questions that there is no good answer for,
Questions that will always be asked, never answered.
Love and life bring both sorrow and joy.
You can't have one without the other.
If life were fair, and things didn't hurt,
Then the joy would be diminished.
To diminish joy would be a shame, as the feelings
Of love would not be as intense.
Life offers no guarantees, no promises.
Life just offers feelings, some good, some bad.
To feel is as sign of life, a sign you are alive.
That isn't always a good feeling, but it is one that must be felt
In order to survive on this world.
Pain, sorrow, anger, hurt, joy, happiness, love, and all other
Emotions are all a part of who we are,
Of what we do, of what we believe in.
Without these emotions, we would be like rocks,
sitting on the ground for no seen purpose.
So again,
Why do things have to be so hard? Why does there have to be so much pain in life?
Why does the heart have to feel so much?
Because we are alive.
My wish for you is someone whose love is honest, strong, mature, never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
If one day you feel like crying...Call me. >I don't promise that I will make you laugh, but I can cry with you. > > > If one day you want to run away-- > Don't be afraid to call me. > I don't promise to ask you to stop...but I can run with you. > > > If one day you don't want to listen to anyone...Call me. > I promise to be there for you. > And I promise to be very quiet > > > But if one day you call... > And there is no answer... > Come fast to see me. > Perhaps I need you.
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