Simplicity Brings Success
By Brian Caniglia
Author of
The DateSTACKER Program
Oftentimes the deciding factor between success and failure is caused by something so simple, so easy that you overlook that critical difference that would have brought you victory.
It's like that time you spent an hour and a half looking for your car keys--you overturned every couch cushion and checked every dusty nook and cranny in your house only to find that they were the pocket of the jeans you wore yesterday!
If you had just checked the most likely location first you would have found them, instead, you unknowingly made things more complicated than they needed to be.
So it is with many things in life... particularly with women.
After hearing so much increasingly in depth and complex advice on getting women you may start to ignore the simple; glossing over it as "heard-that-before-information" or, worse, searching for that elusive phantom secret that will make everything click; magically transforming you into the stud you know you should be.
This is bad because the simple stuff usually makes the BIGGEST difference while the more complex and, admittedly, interesting stuff is more for fine tuning--it makes LESS of a difference to your "game."
In other words, you being successful at dating and attracting women has less to do with deep psychological analysis and understanding the evolution of the female mind (or any other such speculation and theory spouting) and MORE to do with all that "simple stuff" that you were so quick to skim over and ignore in the past.
Here are some simple solutions for success with women:
>>> SIMPLE SOLUTION # 1: Change your routine...
I can't tell you how many women I have met by simply doing something differently than I normally would.
Do you usually take the bus? Try walking. Like to eat at that one small Italian deli down the street for lunch? Try the one across town instead. Do you normally workout at night? Try going to the gym in the morning. Do you usually hang out with your two best friends on Saturday night and go play pool? Go out with different people to a different place. Do you generally stay in on Friday nights? Good heavens man… GO OUT!
A simple change in routine will put you in different situations where you will run into different women. You've heard it before (and I hate to be the one that says it again) but "If you always do the same thing you will always get the same results."
>>> SIMPLE SOLUTION # 2:Get a mantra...
I'm sure you've noticed that just hearing a short, powerful quote has motivated you to think about or do something that you normally wouldn't. For some people hearing one simple yet powerful sentence has provoked them to completely change their lives. At the very least, it can put things back into perspective for you.
Find a quote that sticks with you and really strikes your core and make it your mantra. Repeat it to yourself at critical moments when you feel your courage and motivation waning… like when you see a hot girl you know you should talk to but can't seem to muster the nerve!
Repeat it many times a day and make it your mantra. Here's mine:
