How Men Usually Find Women

I've read several books on mating and courtship behavior among
different species of animals (Including humans!). The funny thing is
that humans do just about the same things as most other animals,
with slight variations.
Here are the main ways male animals (humans included) find
females:

· Staking out a small territory among other males where females
come specifically to select between males who are displaying for
them (called Lekking in the animal kingdom).

· Staking out a larger territory where other males aren't allowed
and showing that they can provide for a female because they
control a large territory.

· Visiting places where females gather or are likely to be and
displaying for them.

· Choosing a spot where they are very visible and displaying in
hopes that a passing female will show interest.
Some human equivalents of these are:

· Hanging out at a gym or on the beach with other guys to show
off for women.

· Buying a big house and inviting women over to see how
successful and rich you are, and that you can provide for them.

· Becoming famous or popular, thus placing yourself in the path
of many women.

The point is, there's nothing new under the sun. If you want to
meet women, you have to:

1) Decide what kind of woman you want.

2) Find out what is attractive to her and be it.

3) Go where these women are likely to be (or set up a situation
where they come to you).

4) Approach them and engage (or, if you can figure out how to get
them to approach you, do that.)

It's all the same game. Most men that are failures with women
aren't willing to do what it takes to be successful. That's the bottom
line. I'm going to give you the secret ingredients that attract women
and invite you to combine some of them with your personality in order
to attract the kind of women that you're interested in. The question is
"Are you willing to do the work that it will take to be successful?"

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