More On My Way Of Looking At Things

I don't ask women for permission to do things, and I don't look to
them to lead what's going to happen. I used to kind of watch what
they were doing, and take cues on how to act. Now I do and say what
I want, and look for cues from her so I know when to bust her balls.
I spent a long time learning how to get phone numbers from
women, only to realize that this wasn't the same as success. Then, I
learned how to get women to come over to my house, only to realize
that this wasn't the same as success. I finally realized that I have to
lead the way the entire time - just like in ballroom dancing. I have to
know where we're going, and lead the way the entire time.
But my most important realization is that THIS IS MY REALITY,
AND SHE IS A GUEST. Not the other way around. If a woman tries to
play a game with me, put me off, give me an excuse, etc. I've started
laughing out loud at them. At first, they don't know what's going on...
but then I say something like "Cummon... what, are you kidding? Give
me a break."
This tells them that their little ploys aren't going to even get by my
radar - never mind into my reality. I never get upset at them or let
them get to me emotionally (this is key, because if they sense that
they've found a button, they'll use it over and over again). As my
friend Eric once said "YOU'RE IN MY REALITY NOW."
Let me point out that when I'm meeting women, I'm almost NEVER
thinking about a 'long term relationship' with them in the beginning. If
I like them, and later they prove to be someone that really amazes
me, then this will be a possibility.
My guess is that strong, exceptional, interesting men who are in
control of themselves and their realities are as rare for women as
super hot women are rare for men. See where I'm going with this?
Said differently, "Why do so many men settle for average or worse
looking women?"
I think the logic goes both ways. I mean, I know quite a few ass-kicking
men - but this is because I've literally spent years finding and
making friends with them. Most women aren't lucky enough to run
across one. And when they do, they usually mess it up by being a
bitch or uninteresting. So they just settle for whatever the best option
is at the moment. And they often wind up getting comfortable in the
process.

There's another interesting point that I've noticed lately:
Many of the marriages that I know of that have lasted for many
years (10+) have something in common: a woman that subtly controls
the man. I mean, think about the plot of most romance novels:
Woman meets wild man, woman tames man and lives happily ever
after with her new well behaved BOY.
So keep this in mind when you're interacting with women.
***Because I may be coming off a bit harshly here, I want to
mention something. If you could be in the room with me during my
interactions with a new woman that I'm interested in, you'd most likely
be thinking "This guy is funny as hell... but he's really pushing it. I
mean, he's on the borderline of saying something that's just too damn
arrogant. But wow, the woman just seems to get more and more into
him as this goes on... interesting." You would NOT be thinking "Wow,
this guy seems to me like a womanizer who's mean to women."
I say this so that you understand that all of the techniques that I
employ are part of the all-important 'Character' that I discussed
earlier.
By staying cocky and funny, women will laugh their asses off, get
frustrated that you're not playing to them, and finally crack and show
that they like you (this girl actually asked me to meet her). By the
way, she's called me 'pompous,' 'arrogant,' and 47 other names, but
she laughs as she's saying it (the key).
If you're just a plain old run of the mill jerk, then none of this will
work. The 'assholes' who get laid usually have an angle (money, fame,
whatever) that they mix with the assholeness.
Mean, self-centered people with no social attractiveness are usually
out of luck.
So keep in mind the all-important ingredient: Humor.
NOTHING works for me like humor mixed with arrogance.
I also want to mention once again that I'm very flexible, and in
many situations, I will begin to do very sweet and thoughtful things for
a woman - just on my terms.
And when it comes to sex (***big key here***) I always pay
attention and learn what a woman likes. My goal is to be the most
fulfilling lover that she's had. Mix all this up with some special sauce,
and you have the recipe for hot women that love to have sex with you
and love you as a person as well because you're interesting to them.
Remember, women are not linear, logical creatures. If you do
things that make sense, they will do things that don't make any sense
at all.
If you do things that don't make any sense at all, then women will
often do what you want them to do.
It's just that you have to know exactly WHICH things to do that
don't make sense.
Make sense?