How To Meet Women

OK, now let's talk about the nuts and bolts of how to meet women.
Guys are constantly trying to find new 'angles' and 'lines' so that it
can 'appear natural' when they talk to a woman. I mean, hell... most
women's fantasy is to meet a guy in a charming place and have this
whole unplanned romantic thing happen right out of a movie (irony:
unplanned and right out of a movie).
I really think that instead of trying to mask a pick up, just make it
damn good. If you can just be in the 'more interesting' category, you'll
get her attention, which is a major step. Then you can lean into the
cocky and funny routine and take it from there.
Don't try to hide the fact that you're picking a woman up - be great
at it, then get into cocky and funny (and reframe as them picking you
up! Ha).

The Initial Approach

This one is simple.
I've tried probably 50 different types of 'lines' and techniques for
meeting women, and I've found that the simple ones work the best.
If I’m in an environment that has a lot of people, and I’m with a
friend, I like to start by asking a woman for her ‘opinion’ on
something. Here’s how it happens… first of all, I keep my eyes open
for current affairs and interesting trivia that involves gender
differences and tension. This makes for amazing conversation openers
with hot intelligent women.
My latest favorite: “Hey, let me ask you a question. My friend and I
were talking about something, and I think we need a female
perspective…” (This is a killer, by the way. It’s taken me a long time to
figure this one out… but it kicks ass). Then I say “I was just looking on
the internet… and do you know that the average woman in America is
5’ 4”, weighs 150 pounds, and wears a size 14?” Ohhhhhhhhhh
DAMMIT
I LOVE THIS ONE!
They usually grab the ball and take off into the conversation with
just that.

Others include “Do you think that men understand what women
really want and need?” and “What do you think of this new trend of
women wanting to pay their own way… and the Charlie’s Angel’s
theme song that sings about this as almost a stuck up thing to do?”
You with me here?
After starting a conversation, get into Mr. Cocky and Funny mode,
and you’ll do some good work.
If I’m alone, and the woman is alone/with friends I usually start
with a compliment opener… depending on the situation.
And I always try to tie it into the situation, so it doesn’t sound
canned. Women that I run into can smell canned openers… I think that
they’re getting popular again or something… because women can
sense them like a dog senses kitties.
I might say “Excuse me… <Pause pause pause for effect> I noticed
you when I walked in, and I had to take a second to find out what you
were like…” or something equally plausible sounding.
What I’ve realized is… if you’re going to approach a woman, what
you say doesn’t much matter as much as HOW you say it (remember
the character thing?).
So keep a serious look on your face (no big cheesy smiles) as this
creates the feeling that you're not overly excited. Then speak with a
slow, mysterious confidence.
I've met many men who have big problems getting past the idea of
walking up to women that they don't know and starting a
conversation. In fact, I had a huge issue with this when I started
learning about how to deal with women. My best advice is to just go
for it, and keep doing it until you finally get over it.
One guy I know went to a mall one day and walked up to every
woman he saw to get over his fear. He said that he was sick for the
first several times, but it eventually went away. And then he did it
again another day, and the fear went away a little faster. Until now, he
can walk up to any woman, anywhere and start talking.
Just remember, the only power any woman has in your life is THAT
WHICH YOU GIVE HER. So don't give away any of your power. Keep
your power for you.
If you are turned away by her, or you get a rude person, just move
on to the next one. Persistence is the price of success.