Do As Much As You Can To Improve

First, I looked at myself. I asked “If I were the type of woman that
I would like to attract (I like super hot, very intelligent women), what
would make me want to be with a man?”
So I started reading, listening to tapes, going to seminars… you
name it. And I started to work on my ‘presentation’ of myself.
I now think that it’s important to get EVERY POSSIBLE thing going
for you that you can.
Here's my take: If you have messed up teeth, that doesn’t prevent
you from dressing well (for instance), so don’t let it.
Get a cool hair style (It's OK to ask a stylist what's cool and get
help on this one).
Buy nice clothes (don’t tell me that you don’t have the $$$. Get on
eBay, go to the Nordstrom Rack and look at the clearance items. I did
it to begin with). If you will do just a few key things, they won’t
necessarily HELP you attract women, but they’ll get rid of things that
are PREVENTING you from attracting women now that you DON'T
EVEN REALIZE.
Make no mistake about, if you’re interested in ATTRACTIVE
women, you’d better realize right now that these things make a
difference. You don’t have to work out ten times a week, but get your
body in at least OK shape. You don’t have to have perfect teeth, but
make sure that they’re clean and that your breath is great.
My personal view: If you're overweight, poorly groomed, etc. these
are all things that are within your control. You should get them
handled for YOURSELF. If you don't, then I'm going to assume that
you don't have very much self respect, in which case almost NOTHING
I tell you can help.
Women notice details that most men don't. They notice if your belt
and shoes match. They notice what kinds of foods you like to eat. They
notice all the details, then make assumptions about every other area
of your life based on these details.
So learn what nice shoes are, and how to keep them nice. Figure
out how colors and clothing go together and what is cool. It’s worth it.

I wasn’t ‘cool’ when I started, now I’ve learned how to be. Huge
difference. (Am I saying that you can’t attract women if you wear
Nike’s and have messed up hair? No. But remember the old saying: "A
blind pig can find an occasional truffle…")
Of course, don't overdo it.
I've tried the whole dressing well bit in the past, to the point of
looking like I'm trying too hard. Now I dress more 'casual nice.' I wear
a lot of Calvin Klein T-Shirts with black jeans and nice black shoes, etc.
This look, with a nice leather coat, works well in almost any situation.
This is a look that you can put together for a couple or few hundred
bucks (for several sets).
Here’s my mindset: Keep improving all the time, even if it’s the
SMALLEST DETAIL.
I noticed recently that at least once every time I go out, a girl will
ask me for a light. I always just said “I don’t smoke” or “No” and left it
at that. Couple weeks ago I said “Ah-Ha” and I went to the lighter
store SPECIFICALLY to find the coolest lighter that anyone has
invented. I bought this torch lighter that make a huge flame. It looks
like a welding flame. So what do you think happened the first time I
went out with it? Right… got asked for a light… and got a 'wow'
reaction from her, which started a conversation.
A list of random things to improve: