FIND/OPEN PHASE Highlights: 1. Preparing yourself 2. Dealing with the fear of rejection 3. Warming up 4. Finding "Targets" 5. Opening 6. Opening Groupsets 7. Bitch Shield Destroyers 8. Boyfriend Destroyers 9. Objection Destroyers 10. Specific Circumstances Openers 11. Wingman Strategies 12. Phase-Shifting to ATTRACT "Pick-up is the art of conveying who you are in the shortest time possible." and "Pickup is VERBAL FOREPLAY" --Tyler Durden, Cliff’s List You hear guys complaining all the time that it’s hard to meet women. But are they even TRYING? Usually when guys say "It’s so hard to meet women" what they mean is that it’s hard to have a woman just fall in their lap, the way people meet in the movies. They expect the girl of their dreams to be hired at the office and partnered up with them on their next sales project. They expect to hang out with the same circle of friends they’ve had for years and suddenly one of their friends will have this great new available female friend to introduce them to. The truth is that your dream girl is out there, waiting to meet a guy like you. BUT TO MEET HER, YOU’RE GOING TO HAVE TO LEAVE THE HOUSE! You have to take the initiative and get out there, and MAKE MOVES. The odds of your dream girl being a door-to-door saleswoman who knocks on your door to sell you the latest vacuum cleaner are slim to none. You’ll have to stick your neck out, risk rejection, and build new bonds with people. You are going to have to be SOCIAL. To even have a chance at finding her, you’re going to have to FIND a woman, and you’re going to have to OPEN an interaction with her.
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