Part of being a challenge is bringing out women’s natural competitive instinct. Women want what other women have! Married men will tell you that they get more attention from women than when they were single. They’re a CHALLENGE!

If you have a hickey, claw-marks on your back, get caught with lipstick on your collar, etc., say to the woman who noticed "Well, the ladies are marking their territory". Don't be all embarrassed and apologetic for it. You don't have to be exclusive with a woman to whom you have no commitment.

Create competition in the eyes of girlfriends by telling them when meeting their friends "I think your friend has a crush on me".

In your small talk, discretely drop hints that you have women in your life, possibly as more than friends. "My friend is supposed to come over tonight. *SHE* wants to watch a movie or something. But if she can't make it, I'll probably be going downtown."

If the conversation gets on dating and relationships (Which it will, because you will LEAD it there), throw in: "When I'm talking to girls and they ask me if I have a girlfriend, they seem really shocked when I say that I'm single." She’ll pick up on the subcommunication: She KNOWS that when a girl asks a guy if he has a GF, that’s an Indicator of Interest. She understands that these girls are attracted to you. This creates implied SOCIAL PROOF.

When asked if you see other women, never answer directly. Deflect with humor and say something like "No, other MEN" or "THOUSANDS. In fact while you were just in the bathroom I banged one of them." If she just won't leave you alone about it: "Well, yes I do go out with a lot of girls because I'm picky". Wait for her to talk. She'll most likely say: "How can you be picky if you go out with a lot of girls? It doesn't make sense." This is where you'll win her over by saying: "When I find the girl who can keep me interested then I'll stay with her. I need to go out with different girls to give myself a chance of finding her. Otherwise I'd have to just stay at home and I'll never meet my dream girl will I?" By ending this with "will I?" you put her in a position where it is her turn to answer and any reasonable, thinking woman will agree with what you're saying.

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