Sexual Innuendo: “You’re good at that…” By Kevin Bates There are many men out there who are really "good" or "nice" guys. Unfortunately, being seen only as a ‘good guy’ or a ‘nice guy’ does NOTHING to build attraction. These guys have difficulty getting out of “nice guy mode.” They’re TOO nice. They’re TOO concerned with not rocking the boat. They’re TOO concerned with keeping everything on the date going smoothly. They shy away from actually expressing their interests as men. They think they avoid doing this just to be nice, but subconsciously the payoff is they dodge the possibility of rejection. The problem is that the women who go out with them quickly lose interest, because these guys were never “man enough” to let the women know very clearly that they are interested romantically/physically in them. If you are a guy who has a hard time “crossing the line” and expressing your attraction to women, sexual innuendos used wisely may be a great tool for you. Sexual innuendos let her know you are a sexual being. They let her know you’re NOT interested in just being her friend. Even if right now you never use sexual innuendos, simply by looking for them you’ll start to notice opportunities to use them all the time. For those of you who DON’T know what a sexual innuendo is, it’s a remark that implies a sexual double-meaning in the words used. For example, she says, “Sorry I’m late.” So you reply, “No problem, it just means you’ll be punished,” with a slight grin, (the double-meaning or innuendo: you’re going to “punish” her with sex). Or if YOU say, “Sorry I’m late,” and she playfully says, “You’re gonna be punished,” then you say, “Oh really? Exactly what kind of punishment did you have in mind?” Say it with a smile and serious EYE CONTACT. The more you hold the eye contact, the more powerful the sexual message in idea of being punished. And sending a powerful, direct and yet indirect message is a good thing. You WANT to send a sexual message. The confidence you show by having no shame about your sexual overtones does wonders in building attraction. Here are some more great sexual innuendos that you can start using immediately... Click here to download Any Woman, Anywhere and the bonus ebooklets Article taken from Any Women Anywhere, Used with permission
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