The Mindset for the Compliment

By Kevin Bates
Any Woman Anywhere

Your initial mindset or motivation for giving the compliment is to simply to give a sincere compliment, rather than trying to get a date with this woman.

Read that line again.

“But I DO want a date with this woman” you say.

I know, I know. But when you first approach you need to put that intention on the back burner and SINCERELY come from the place of simply wanting to give the compliment and make this woman smile. I don’t mean acting like it. I mean sincerely having that attitude.

Why?

Because it makes it easier for you to approach.

Wouldn’t you agree there is LESS FEAR in giving an attractive woman a sincere compliment, rather than asking her for a date? Yes, probably you have fear of both actions, but I’d bet you have LESS fear in giving the compliment. True?

And if you’re a guy who feels some shame about asking for a date, wouldn’t you say there’s LESS SHAME in simply giving a sincere compliment, rather than asking for her number?

Another great thing about having this mindset is that it allows you to have a win even if the woman is taken, which many will be. Because you’ll find that most women, even if they’re taken, really appreciate a sincere compliment. Lots of woman don’t receive very many of them. Some will even remark, “That really made my day. Thanks so much…”

So even if you don’t get a number,you can feel great because you’ve just put a big fat smile on an attractive woman’s face. You’re a stud. You’ve just done what 80% of guys don’t have the balls to do (connect meaningfully with an attractive woman)..

I also believe that by coming from a sincere place, where your compliment isn’t just some line, you make a more powerful impact on the woman and are more likely to walk away with her number or date. I call this having Pure Intention.

Repeat after me:

“She’s probably taken…

And she’ll like the compliment anyway.”

The more nervous you are, the more you focus on just giving a compliment to make her day rather than trying to get anything in return...

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