Good Manners and Dining Etiquette in Senegal
- A woman should never shake hands with a Muslim man.
- Begin to say goodbye at least fifteen minutes before you expect to leave.
- Never ask how many children one has.
- Never say out loud that anyone is pregnant or is on the verge of dying.
- Their motto is "Tarranga" so be charitable and hospitable.
- Never touch anyone's grigri.
- Never point at anyone.
- Count on spending at least 45 minutes to negotiate the price of anything you want to buy.
- Always keep a live plant or livestock in the center of your home compound.
- Never talk while eating around the bowl.
- Only eat with your right hand.
- Only eat the food that is directly in front of you.
- Do not walk on straw mats. Use them to sit on.
- Never smell food before eating it.
- Never say you enjoyed the meal until you are done eating.
- Do not stare at others while eating.
- Lick rice off your fingers before washing them in the communal water bowl.
- Get up as soon as you have finished eating. The last one at the bowl is greedy.
- Greet everyone when you enter a room, even if you have to disrupt someone.
- Always ask about the entire family and even ancestors.
- Never say: "hey" to get someone's attention.
Say instead something like: "suma rakk" (my boy) or "suma xarit" (my friend)
- Avoid saying "no" at all costs. Find another way to express this sentiment.
- Never say how beautiful or cute someone is. You'll jinx him or her.
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Many sincere thank you's to the Baobab Center in Dakar, Senegal, U.S.I.S., and the Fulbright Association.