Natural Selection

An interesting question if it is predestined what place a person will be based on appearence in the BDSM community..

The only thing a girl has to say in response to this is "Never judge a book by its cover"...one may never know what sexual preference a person may be just by their appearence. Although stereotypicaly speaking...some may fall into categories based on their attidudes and presentations of themselves, there are always those which fall away from the "norms".

Genetically speaking, men are far more superior then females...o0(knows this may bring up feminist debates on this..this is talking genetics here)...men are naturally larger, stronger, and different then females..its a fact... There role naturally both in the animal kingdom, and historically speaking have been one of a Dominant role. However is that the only role for the male sex? Of course not there are always exceptions to the rules...hense..male submissives. To give an example of this...she has an image to put in ones mind...a 6'4 male submissive..bowing down before a 4'9 dominant female. Easily the man can over power that female..however by choice..he has yeilded and given himself over to the Dominatrix. That may seem like a funny or strange scenario..but it is one that happens everyday. One would never think that a 6'4 man can ever be submissive..just look at a man that tall...he can crush the smaller population by stepping on them..lol.

As for roles of Dominant and submissive..the biggest problem is with this..that no matter what..one can NEVER be 100% dominant..and one can never be 100% submissive..there are always times when roles will switch based on situations which come about.

A slave.o0(will use female in this scenario)..can easily take charge at her job in managerial positions, becomes the dominant in home situation teaching and raising her children, stands up for her rights if others wrong her in society..in the male point of view..think of it this way..by day the male can be a CEO for a major company...by night kneeled before a Mistress a collared sub/slave ..... no matter what a sub/slave will always be dominant in aspects of his or her life.

As for the Dominant..in society there are rules, regulations and laws which govern our lives..they submit themselves to these rules..a Dominant at work can have a boss who is above them.

In all these situations..one may never know by the appearience or attidudes each person has..so a question is..where does the BDSM role come in within each persons life..is it genetic or enviromental. In her opinion it is a combination of both..but more so enviromental... Because the one factor being are they introduced to the realm of BDSM. In other words..this is using herself as an example..if she was never introduced into this realm, understanding her sexuality, and truly knowing that there are others who share similar interests feelings, and desires within...she probably would never even dream about doing what she does now.

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