Keypal

My kepal partner is Arthur Ko. This is my room which i lived in San Diego. i took this one last winter. The second guy to the left is Arthur. They look very serious in this picture right? actually they did that to make me laugh. Miss you guys~~

He is one of my favorite friends who is from the states.
When i was in SD, he helped me a lot in many ways. He was my conversation teacher, and the freind who takes care of me a lot. whenever i have some problem or hard time to go through by myself, he was willing to be my listener. My friend is studying in UCSD, in San Diego. Since i got back to Korea, we have contacted each other.
Actually, I tried to find keypal from keypals club, ESL Cafe Web Guide, The ESL Cafe Discussion Area, and Yahoo Groups. But i found out that kepals club and The ESL Cafe Discussion Area have pretty complicated process to make freinds. Yahoo Groups was pretty good compared to others. People in that site seems friendly but it didn't really work out with me.
There are so various types of cards in Yahoo Greetings that i use that one often. Though the cards are simple, but they are pretty and even free. =)


These are the letters that he sent it to me and my brief response.

Dec 9, 2003
My mail

hi.. arthur~

Is everything going well around you?
I¡¯ve got your mail well. great pleasure to get your mail. and read it..
they just remind me of you a lot..hehe. =)
As i expected you are doing well in china, and you seem like you have done some very precious experience over there. and learn from it.
Kowadyas,.. feel like i want to write to you.. and.. say something to my good friend, of course.. you.. by the way, don't you have any plan to visit me?
by the way..
I'm developing one internet home page called "perfumelovers" for my English class. but. i need someone to give me advise.. so.. can u be my Keypal who give his opinion about my website??????????

Arthur's respond:

what a wonderful surprise to hear from my old friend from Korea.. =)
i feel like time passes by so quickly, especially when i think about the summer when you first came to ucsd.. but i can;'t go on it... try to send me the site again so i can try.
of course i will help you and tell you where you should improve..
im really happy to hear from you .. are you doing good as usual, and doing good in school? i know you are..
and of you course you know I¡¯m doing really well too.. china has been so awesome so far...
I¡¯m afraid i cant make a trip to Korea to go visit you! i have to go back and start ucsd! wish i could, but i actually met some really good Korean friends here so ill be planning a trip to Korea sometime soon, i promise...
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December 5, 2003
Arthur's mail

real change of perspective comes at the arrival of this month of december..
time all of a sudden flew by like an arrow.. at the start of september, what used to be a hopeful and eager mindset to conquer the world before me and do as many "experience-ful" things as one possibly could.. has suddenly been altered now..
i took a look at my diary .. my very first entry when i moved into my dorm.. wrote about different goals to accomplish.. such as eating different types of chinese dishes..
my feeling during that time was that there was so much before me to set my foot upon.. like my MAIN goal would be to do as many WAY COOL things as possible and attach all these grand stories under my belt to bring back to america.. i thought .. "just to be able to say i did this... just to be able to say i saw that.. "
i've actually done many things.. went to the shaolin temple.. rode a 15 hour train ride to get there. ive been having some good experiences.. but now, the closer it gets to departure time, the more apparent it becomes.. that my priority mission now isnt to go out there and conquer the country anymore..and im sure this is what i was writing about before.. about " the piece that was missing to my experience here" but instead.. my final mission here is to leave my mark

My Respond

Oct. 15, 2003
My Mail i'm double majoring.. and just start to study big surprising field.. can you guess??? haha. i'm studying about fashion marketing..
big surprise.. huh~
I've deiced what i want to do and want to be in my future. Want to be famous and promising fashion Merchandiser or fashion PR executive..
Deciding and firming my decision make me feel so good.. . and.. i feel like i should tell you about this as far as i think this is going be BIG BIG milestone of my life. because.. you're the one who i can share my thougths and everthing.with..
pretty miss you arthur~~ hope you 're safe and doing great.. there..
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Arthur's respond wow your e mail made me happy inside like your life is coming together..
you seem to have your goals and dreams pretty set.. It feels really great when your heart decides something and you want to follow through with it..
I think every human being needs this in their life so I¡¯m truly happy for you!
As for me, I¡¯m not even sure yet about my future.. just concentrating on my awesome experience I¡¯m having here in china right now.. but hey keep updating me and ill talk to you later ok!!!
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2002/10/26
Arthur's Mail

its friday night and im extremely tired but i decided to come out with some friends..
and a giant internet cafe with high tech seats... and then theres a bowling alley with more than 20..
theres something weird going on inside my body right now.. something about going back to the roots.. i dont even quite understand it yet..
but these days, ive REALLY stopped littering.. ahem, i mean i am the UCSD environmental coalition treasurer and all.. but i always litter as if the world is my trash can.. nowadays, i dont want to pollute the atmosphere.. and theres this deep burning passion within me to go back to the Hei Lung Jiang province.. my true roots, as if its my life's mission.
anyway, i think i already said all this stuff before.. but this passion is growing stronger within me each day..
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My respond:

Yo!!
cheer up!!! soon you will get a life here! at Korea...
School is almost over and soon you will be transfering to Univ Mich!
so be happy! our friends are waiting for you there!!!
especially Steve!


01 Sep 2003
My Mail

it's been a while that we haven't e-mailed each other.. huh~
How have you been?
one surprise thing~~ i have been seeing one guy who is really really nice and handsome. .. i'm in love with him now..
(pretty shy.. to say this.. i don't know why though. )
i think.. now. i'm having real specail feeling in my mind for him. and happy.
. i want to hear more about your china life.. and your korean roommate. ~~

Arthur's Respond

love?????????????
i want to see him! i want to meet him!!! hahaha
is he handsome smart charming dashing sexy like me? is he strong?
well I¡¯m excited for you man! Hopefully he is a lot like me so you will be happy
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