Did you ever wonder why guys do the crazy things they do?’ about their weird tendencies? or just wish you could understand them period?. Well I do. There are so many things they say and do that puzzle like the way they play girls who choose not to talk to them when they try to kick it to them or why they try and act so thugged out, the list goes on. So I did a little examining, questioning and some research.
Guys always feel they have something to prove, either to girls or there friends. When I asked a friend why guys play girls who don’t pay them attention when they try to kick game he said,” because he feels that some girls feel they are better than us or their very conceited and they deserve it “. I think it all has to do with ego, when girls don’t’ respond to them they feel played and react harshly. Guys have to understand that girls don’t appreciate when guys approach them in certain ways and some times we’re just not interested, I don’t think that’s any reason to be called names and disrespected that just shows that the guy is immature and ignorant. Another thing that I wanted to know was why they bother girls who the secretly like. My friend said, “ to hide our true feelings and let the girl know we exist. This makes no sense, if you spend all the time your around this girl bothering you she’s just going to begin to dislike you or think you immature. This is no way to let a girl know you like her.
To me guys put up a lot of fronts. They constantly lie about their sexual experiences and some try hard to come across thugged out. What’s up with that? I found that guys lie about their sexual experiences so people can be impressed with them and think they are a “player” and/or a “pimp”. This doesn’t make you look flyy to girls, this makes you look like a male whore or if we know you’re lying, pathetic. The reason they try to come across thugged out is so people don’t think they are cowards and afraid of anything. When you try sooo hard to come across as something you’re not it just make people think you’re fake and unoriginal. This really doesn’t make girls more attracted to you when you have to put up fronts and cover up you’re true personality. Girls are attracted to guys who are honest to them and themselves.
It puzzles me why guys have to have jokes on everyone {especially other guys} that walk past them. In response I got “ so we can make ourselves look more appealing compared to others, It’s like massaging their own ego. To make them feel better about themselves they have to put down other peoples expense, and guys think were insecure. That’s a cruel way to make yourself feel good, doing it at others expense. It just makes you look insecure and rude.
So to all the curious girls out there I hope this helps you understand the male species a little because I know it helped me. I don’t quite agree with what guys do and say but now at least I know the reasons behind their actions. I hope they realize they are just as complicated as us females. If both genders take a little time out to try and understand each other we would all get along a little better.