Sex Positions

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Oral Sex Positions for Women

Oral Sex Positions for Men

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Man on Top Positions

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Sex Positions:

Both Lying Down Positions 

Rear Entry

 

Missionary Position

There is no sexual position with more renown, other than Doggy Style and 69.  This right here is the meat and potatoes of the common couples sexual relationship.  Even though this is the position many couples start with due to its intimacy, it is actually a very clumsy position for vaginal stimulation.  The penis does not hit the woman's sensitive spots well, and the depth of penetration is not maximal.  However, variations on this position can overcome its weaknesses. Placing a pillow underneath the woman's bum, holding the woman's legs up, or the woman wrapping her legs around the man all improve the penetration angle and depth.  By allowing yourself to be creative and open minded you will allow your selves to get maximum stimulation out of this position.

Sideways Entry Position

This is a good position for first thing in the morning.  Now to get into this position the man would slide one leg between her, and one leg over her legs. It is then the duty of whomever to properly position the penis. It is easier to let the women do the positioning.  Two variables in this position are for the woman to keep her legs together and the man wrap his legs around hers'. The second variable is for the woman to wrap her legs around his. Many couples find this a very relaxing and intimate love making position. Being on your side is not very conducive to rapid thrusting so if that is what you want, try a different position.

Spooning Position

Spooning is a highly enjoyed form of sexual intercourse. It is both relaxing and intimate.  All of the woman's sensitive spots are within reach for a man's roaming hands.  Couples tend to rate this position very highly, even though the depth of penetration is not very good.  For differing depths of penetration the woman should try pushing out her buttocks.  Variables in this position are typically done with either partner's legs wrapped around the others. Wrapping legs allows for deeper and more vigorous penetration.

This position maximizes the amount of contact you and your love share.

There are many variations to this position as well.  With your partner behind in the spooning position the women raises her leg to change the level of penetration and pleasure for both.

Anal Sex

Anal sex in my book is still considered taboo as well as in many societies. And it is usually labeled a gay practice and widely associated with sexually transmitted diseases. However, anal eroticism is probably the oldest manifestation of human sexuality and a very misunderstood sexual practice.  I had to do some research on this topic as I am not familiar with any of these practices so I hope that I can at least give you an insight as to what this is.

Since I am not the expert here is what you should know.  There are a few things to consider before engaging in anal sex with your partner. Both partners have to consent to the experience and it must be done in a smooth and delicate manner.  And please use proper protection they say that it is required.

So in general most men are willing to try intercourse from behind (in her behind, relax), but they will usually have to convince their female partners into trying it. Getting your partner to try it will take some convincing because initially, the experience may be repelling as well as painful.

So how do you do it? It is recommended to build up to anal sex by trying anal stimulation prior to full penetration.  For most people, the anal area is an important erogenous zone as it is believed that stimulation of that area can be very pleasurable.  However, the rectum is also very delicate and must be approached with gentleness and ease.

The easiest way to stimulate the anus is by merely rubbing your partner there during intercourse or in combination while performing oral sex.  Slowly massage the area with your cleansed and nail-trimmed fingers and see how your partner reacts.  If she seems comfortable with the idea, then explore a little further go a little deeper.  Try testing the waters to she how much she will enjoy.

May I suggest that before you start experimenting, make sure your fingers are well lubricated.  Use ample saliva or special lubricants. Little by little, as you go along, slowly slide your whole finger in.  Make sure you do not force it, and read her body language to ensure that she is comfortable every step of the way.

Once these first steps have been followed and both partners are ready for anal sex, heavily lubricate your penis and insert it slowly. Remember that the first times might be difficult and that you might only be able to penetrate partially. However, once both partners become comfortable and relaxed, penetration will become both easier and deeper. Please note that at no time should the movement be forced because it can lead to serious injuries.

Relaxation will be the key to enjoying this act together more. Now continuing on.

Insert the head of your penis, and slowly and rhythmically slide it in and out. While she's relaxed, you can begin to thrust a little deeper with the same slow and gentle rhythm, as your partner's comfort level rises. When finishing up, do not withdraw quickly because it can result in pain.

Protecting yourself during anal sex is very important. There are big misconceptions that anal sex causes AIDS and other STDs.  As a matter of fact, if neither partner is infected with any infection or disease, there is no risk of getting infected.  However, if one of the partners is infected with some sexually transmitted ailment, the likelihood of contracting it increases much more via anal sex. That's because rectal tissues are more easily torn and viruses penetrate faster than from vaginal tissues. 

It is also not hygienic for a penis or a finger to enter the vagina after withdrawal from the rectum. Thereby, it is recommended to wash both your hands and genitals before entering the vagina.

And last but not least, if you are not completely sure about your partner's sexual history, or even if you are, condoms are compulsory in every sexual situation

Both Reclining in Opposite Directions

For this position you and your partner will be facing each other.  The man butt will be on the bed and the women will be on top.  It will look like you are both sitting in a reclined position.  the woman will have most of the control for this one as she will be on top.  She can use the strength from her legs and arms to perform a  grinding motion.  She will also control the intensity by how far she lets you enter her. This position can be very climatic for a women when done right.

 

Oral Sex Positions for Women "pleasing your man"  Back to top

Edge Of the Bed

Now this position can be used for either the man or the woman.  The Trick to this position is to be comfortable. 

What I would recommend is that you place a pillow under your knees while you kneel on the floor beside the edge of the bed.  You then get your partner to slide to the edge of the bed so that you will have complete and easy access to him to be able to give him great oral sex.  This is a great position for him because he gets to see what you are doing to him.  You in turn will feel sexy and this emotional connection that you will be sharing only makes you grow as a couple.

"69"

Well ...Ladies and Gentleman this is it,  this position is considered one of the best oral intercourse positions.  It's easy to do and everything is fully accessible.  Either partner can be on top. Finding out for yourself, which you prefer is half the fun. One thing to try if you're on top is to pull your partner's legs back, under your armpits. This way he/she will be more exposed and easier to stimulate in all areas.

She is on Her Knees

For this position the man will be standing  or sitting and the woman will be on her knees so that she is at the perfect height to give oral sex.  This position does not have to be limited to the bedroom as well.  You can be creative and take this to a number of places.  Some examples are in the shower, on the couch etc.

 

Oral Sex Positions for Men "pleasing your woman"  Back to top

Jenna's Ecstasy

For women who like to be in control or want to try something new, this is a great oral sex position.
 
The man lies down so his head is over or next to the edge of the bed (couch, love seat, bed, etc.).  The woman now straddles his face and can easily rest her bum upon his chest.  By varying the way you are sitting on your partner you can control the amount of stimulation and access.  It is now the man's job to know how to perform proper pleasure techniques and take his woman to orgasm

Edge Of the Bed

Now this position can be used for either the man or the woman.  The Trick to this position is to be comfortable. 

This position is set up just a little bit different for a man giving oral sex.  For this I would recommend the women place a pillow under her buttocks and raise her knees and relax and enjoy the ride.  For the man I would suggest that you make yourself comfortable get your partner to slide to the edge of the bed and then just dive in baby.  Have Fun!

Fine Dining

Fine Dining indeed, tried, tested, and true. This would have to be one of my favorite  positions.
The woman lays on her back, spreads her legs, and the man enjoys his work.  This position offers excellent access to the entire vaginal area and if you prop the woman's pelvis up slightly with a hand or on a pillow you can access her anus quite readily as well.  The only reason couples try other positions is to vary patterns and explore the possibilities. If you can master Fine Dining then you will be sure enjoy desert.

"69"

Well ...Ladies and Gentleman this is it,  this position is considered one of the best oral intercourse positions.  It's easy to do and everything is fully accessible.  Either partner can be on top. Finding out for yourself, which you prefer is half the fun. One thing to try if you're on top is to pull your partner's legs back, under your armpits. This way he/she will be more exposed and easier to stimulate in all areas.

 

Man on Top Positions    Back to top

Doggie Style

Let's face it we all know what this position is.  I do have to admit this is one of my favorite positions.  This position involves the women on all fours like a dog "hence the name" and the man enters her from behind.

There is also a few variations to this position as well.  This position can be done is a standing position, kneeling position as well as the women lying flat, as well as lying the women over the edge of the bed and have the  man kneeling on the floor and entering from behind.  With these slight variations it changes the angle of entry. I do have to say that this position is most favorable to perform in the shower.

Her Legs in the Air

This position allows the man to be in control on top.  Now the women would be lying on her back with her legs up lying on the mans chest. Now to put a twist on this position the woman would would have to straighten her legs straight in the air.

Rear Entry

This position is similar to "Doggie Style" except that you are lying down instead of kneeling. 

This position is absolutely fantastic for female and male stimulation.  The angle of insertion allows for a maximum amount of penetration and can target the woman's G-Spot.  Also, while the man is mounted on the woman she can masturbate.  One thing to make sure that you do is to make sure that the woman's buttocks should be pushed up in the air, like a small hump.  If you are finding it hard to gain entry into the vagina, try placing a pillow under the woman's pelvis.  By using the pillow you are getting maximum pleasure out of the position

Missionary Position

There is no sexual position with more renown, other than Doggy Style and 69.  This right here is the meat and potatoes of the common couples sexual relationship.  Even though this is the position many couples start with due to its intimacy, it is actually a very clumsy position for vaginal stimulation.  The penis does not hit the woman's sensitive spots well, and the depth of penetration is not maximal.  However, variations on this position can overcome its weaknesses. Placing a pillow underneath the woman's bum, holding the woman's legs up, or the woman wrapping her legs around the man all improve the penetration angle and depth.  By allowing yourself to be creative and open minded you will allow your selves to get maximum stimulation out of this position.
 

Woman on Top Positions    Back to top

Ridem Cowgirl

She is on top and in control.  With her on top she has the control to position herself to achieve the best pleasure for her.  This is a great position for her to have an orgasm.  She can bump and grind to which ever way pleasures her the most.

There are also variations to this position as well.  For this instead of her facing you she turns and reclines face forward this is an A very sexual spooning method.

Another variation: She is lying on top of him, their heads are in opposite directions. He is face up. She is face down.

Reverse Ridem Cowgirl

This is the same to Ridem cowgirl only the woman is riding her partner and she is facing away from her partner.  It is said that males prefer this position when their women has a great butt!

Butterfly Position

The man is on his back with both legs extended, and the female squats on top of him face to face. The she advances towards his penis  while with her hands braced on his for balance and direction

On Top and Reclined

For this position the man will lye on his back and the woman will sit on her partners lap with her back facing him.  The female  would squat on top of him to have entry and then slight recline to change the angle and intensity.  With good balance and a little help from your partner, you will be able to masturbate while in this position as well. 

Lying Opposite and Face Down

For this position she is lying on top of your partner,  and your heads are in opposite directions.  He is face up. She is face down.  For added support and comfort the man can bed his knees in an upward position and the woman can support the upper part of her body on his legs.  This will add to the intensity of the position for the female as she will be able to control the angle thus having an awesome orgasm.

 

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