DS2

In contacting me, you obviously have a desire to explore your submissive side as a cross dresser. You may or may not have some preconceived notions of what that might entail. You probably have some fantasies that you would like to play out. I am very flexible and more than willing to work with you, but I can’t make them happen if you don’t tell me what they are. I truly love crossdressed men. I have a pretty good idea of how you want to feel do to the fact that I am a crossdresser also.

The Ground Rules
Safe words
I am a strict advocate of safe words. These are words that are specifically set up to have certain meanings in a session.

This is very important to understand the use of these words! Quite often, struggling or resistance maybe part of the play and ‘Don’t’ or ‘Stop’ is expected and ignored.

Mutual respect
Getting together and playing is supposed to be fun. Respect of the wants, desires, limits, needs, etc. is the responsibility of both parties.

Safe Sex
Any type of anal sex will require condoms. I am HIV negative and plan to stay that way.

The Submissive’s role
As the submissive, you are surrendering yourself to me. I have behaviors, dress and attitudes that are required.

Behavior
You are the bottom, be submissive! I expect for you to respond to directions quickly and willingly. Anything less than that will be dealt with harshly. Your happiness is derived from doing my bidding.

Dress

Preparation
Before we meet for any type of play, you will be expected to look as much like a woman as possible. For most men, it is quite an undertaking, albeit a ‘labor of love’. Your legs must be shaved well, no stubble. If you have excessive body hair, get rid of it. I want to be with a woman, not Chewbacca! Pubic hair will be cropped close. Don’t try to shave it. It will turn into a razor bump mess.

Makeup
You are expected to wear makeup. I prefer heavy makeup applied tastefully. Foundation, powder, false eyelashes, well-groomed eyebrows, eyeshadow, exotic eyeliner and lipstick are a must. Eyeshadow color is open, but I tend to prefer frosts. If you are unskilled at makeup, you had better practice. I am forgiving the first couple of sessions, but expect improvement quickly.

Clothing
I have some basics that are a must. If you don’t have these items at this time, it will certainly not stop a session, but put them on your shopping list.

Other items to keep in mind: Choose a feminine perfume that you like. Brut or Hai Karate just doesn’t do it for me! You will find that I am not difficult to please if I see that your effort to look your best. You will probably want to take a large amount of time to get prepared. This will give you the opportunity to step into your femme persona and submissive mindset. You have permission to wear other items; skirts, blouses, lingerie but keep in mind that I must have access to your cock at all times

Play Sessions
I have a basic “shell” that I like to work from. This has been the result of a considerable amount of trial and error. I have found that it is a very nice structure, and usually so do my girls.

Scene Negotiation
Though either phone or email, we will discuss a scene for the play period. What this includes is discussing the overall ‘theme’ of what we are going to do. Some may not really have anything in particular for the first time, but usually after we work together, experimentation and exploration come into play.

General Structure
At the beginning of any play period, there is a routine that will be followed before we start.

Formal Submission
When we first meet for a play session, we will exchange pleasantries and then you will get on your knees in front of me and offer yourself for my pleasure. As a token of your willingness to give yourself, you will offer a collar for me to put on you as a symbol of our relationship. The collar is a plain black dog collar that will fit loosely around your neck.

Inspection
After submitting, you will stand and be inspected. I will look you over and critique your work. You will probably be nervous, which is to be expected and desired on my part.

The Play Period
The rest of our play together will consist of what was negotiated.
In any scene, you will expect the following:

If you smoke, (which is prefered) you will need to choose a brand that are all white and 100’s, 120’s are better. Practice looking feminine. Looking like ‘Rocco the Truck Driver’ will definitely incur my ire.

This may sound very regimented; it is. I created this for a number of reasons, one being to eliminate undesirable surprise elements. I have worked through this format with a number of T-girls and a large percentage of them for a considerable amount of time. A number of you are first timers and have a vague fantasy of what you want and this will enable us to explore. I am very open minded, very kinky and open to almost everything except fecal play. If working together is something that we both want to continue, our play will most likely expand into role play, including others in our sessions, going to clubs of special friends of mine, etc. Before that happens, we have a considerable amount of work to do together. I have a reputation for training very well disciplined slaves. After we have worked together, you will be expected to submit to bondage and light pain, such as spankings, anal stretching e.g. fisting, large dildos, etc. You need to let me know what you can handle. If you are experienced with anal sex, that’s even better. Be aware that I fuck hard and deep and you will probably end up very sore.