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Domaris says: Start off by working single fingers into her. You'll be able to feel how relaxed she is and how ready she is to accept more gingers.

Domaris exclaims: As she's ready, slip more in, one by one. And remember to take your time with it! It's not a race!

Domaris says: Your thumb will be the last digit to go in, after all four fingers.

Domaris says: Taking your time also lets her enjoy what you're doing to her - which is sort of the point.

Domaris says: Always work to her comfort level. If she's not ready for more, or wants you to stop or pause, then listen to what she's asking.

Domaris exclaims: If you feel her muscles suddenly tighten, stop moving your hand and check in with her. Make sure she wants you to keep going. But don't just yank right out of her, either!

Domaris says: As you progress, you want to make your hand look like a duck bill. Think shadow puppets.

Domaris says: Your four fingers will be together, curved a little bit, with your thumb finally resting in the palm of your hand, in between the fingers.

Domaris says: The bridge of your hand (at your knuckles) will be the largest part to enter and it's also often the part that will take the longest to get inside.

Domaris says: If what you're doing isn't working, try a different way.

Domaris says: Things like rotating your hand gently (clockwise or counterclockwise), or changing the angle of entry (different body positions for her might work better too).

Domaris says: If the bridge of your hand feels like it won't quite slip inside, you can also try opening and closing your fingers, as if you were trying to make a hand puppet talk.

Domaris exclaims: Gently, of course!

Domaris says: This can help to stretch her just that little bit more and help your hand to slide the rest of the way in.

Domaris says: Once you're all the way inside, you may find that your fingers may curl under to form a loose fist shape naturally.

Domaris says: Take the time and explore her cunt, now that you're so deeply inside of it. Find out what feels good for her.

Domaris says: Some women might like just the feeling of fullness, and would rather that you don't try to move your hand too much.

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Domaris says: If she wants, you can try different types of (gentle) motion and see how she responds.

Domaris says: Don't move hard, fast, or roughly unless she asks or says this is OK.

Domaris says: Keep adding lube during this whole process, particularly if you lose that slippery ease of motion that you had at the beginning. Remember, you can't have too much lube.

Domaris exclaims: Listen to her. What how she responds. And enjoy it!

Domaris says: Some women may have fabulous orgasms from being fisted.

Domaris says: The fister should realize that there can be a lot of pressure on the hand and wrist if the fistee does orgasm (or even if she doesn't).

Domaris says: If you have wrist problems (such as carpal tunnel), being the fister might not be the best choice for you.

Domaris says: Again, don't yank your hand out suddenly if the pressure is difficult for you. If you can, try moving your hand gently. If you can't... well, you may just have to wait it out.

Domaris says: Be aware that pulling out too fast when she's not ready carries the risk of tearing the tissues.

Domaris says: When you're ready to take your hand out, be slow about it.

Domaris says: Chances are there will have been a bit of a vacuum produced around your hand.

Domaris says: Using your other hand, slide one finger in along your palm and break the seal.