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LadyDomina laughs. I know a lot of submissive women who domme professionally.

Falina says: sounds nice

Lavicka asks: really?

LadyDomina says: Really.

Spivey nods

Lavicka says: now that just sounds strange to me

LadyDomina says: I know a lot of lesbian women who domme men professionally.

Lavicka says: well, that i can see... but subs domming?

xaveria says: it's possible

LadyDomina says: Actually, if you think about it, it makes very good sense.

LadyDomina asks: Who would know better what a submissive responds to?

xaveria nods - irl i am certainly not submissive

Lavicka says: well, ive heard that dom/mes usually should start as a sub to learn limits and how to's and such...

Lavicka says: ok.. i guess its not such a stretch :)

Falina says: I don't agree with that

LadyDomina says: I know some very good dommes who never were submissives, and then there are some who are just awful who started as submissives. I think it depends on the person.

Lavicka nods, 'of course'

Spivey nods

Domaris nods

LadyDomina says: I started as a submissive for three years in a TPE and I'm NOT submissive and I hated it.

Lavicka grins

LadyDomina grins I did learn a lot, but I'm not sure if it was the right stuff.

LadyDomina says: Now, getting back to our topic...

Lavicka grins

Falina listens

Lavicka asks: they have a way of getting away from you, dont they? :)

LadyDomina says: Prodommes have to get people in the mood quickly and often don't know them well.

LadyDomina says: Prodommes need to project the illusion of domination to someone who has only a limited time to submit and who is NOT in a relationship with them.

LadyDomina says: So... we have to learn very quick tricks for making people feel submissive.

LadyDomina says: And that's what I'm going to pass on to you.

Lavicka grins and takes notes

LadyDomina says: First, appearance.

LadyDomina says: I'm very serious about that.

LadyDomina says: Appearance has been conditioned into people by society. Even our BDSM culture

Lavicka nods