Date: Monday
From: Mom
Subject: Hello---
To: Me

Honey,

I think you made your point clear. The guy does sound confused, overly apologetic etc,...

Now, make sure you get all your things back from him and you give all his things back to him, ie- refrigerator (he can bring it back and leave it with us if you don't have room!-- I left a mini dryer on good faith with one guy and he claimed later that I gave it too him and sold it and refused to give me the $$ This was about 4 months after the breakup!!) The Chair- and whatever else. Make a sqeaky clean break and like he said if (paraphrased) "something pops into his mind later he'll have to beg you to come back."

He IS wanting to keep you on a string whether he realizes it or not. It does sound like he is doing the same thing his Dad did-- just my opinion. So, you need to make the finally break- cut the string. ****You keep your self respect that way.***** This is very important!!! Have the "I don't care; their are lots of great men out there just waiting" attitude.

Can't wait to see you! Oh, Kelly says "Dogma" was horrible and will explain why when she sees you. She wants to stay here while you are here so Joey maybe sharing your bed :> I can also find another place for him to sleep- we'll see.

When we come see you can we stay in your dorm room? Bring sleeping bags etc...??? Or do I need to find another place? I don't know if I want to ask the Scotts again. Maybe a motel but I'd rather spend the $ on Christmas stuff.

Love you!

Mom

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