First Friend . . . Best Friend

Before the People arrived on earth, Gluskabe, the one who helps the Creator, asked all the animals what they would do when they came. Some wanted to hunt and kill them, others were afraid; some said they would go their own way and not bother them, and others hoped to live off their gardens and crops. Finally, only one animal remained. It looked a bit like Wolf, but different. It was Dog.

"What will you do when they arrive?" Gluskabe asked.

Dog laughed, "I want to live with them. I want to sleep by their fires and share their food. I want to take care of their children. I will help them when they go hunting. If there is danger, I will warn them and I will risk my own life to save them. I will be their greatest friend."
That is what happened back then . . . that is how it is today.
--from Dog People. Native Dog Stories

 

DOG has been a central figure in creation myths of many cultures - sometimes as man's ancestor, sometimes as his creator. According to at least one Native American myth man was created as a companion for Dog. The dog's central place in human society is universally recognized. And rightly so. Our oldest friend, hardest working comrade, most loyal partner - the dog is practically our alter ego. We'd hardly be human without him.

Who knows what inspired that first wild dog to approach our prehistoric ancestors some 25,000 years ago - hunger, curiosity, the need for companionship? In Man Meets Dog, Konrad Lorenz proposes a scenario of primitive man and wild jackals cautiously negotiating a mutually beneficial alliance. Humans may have encouraged a pack of jackals bargaining their superior tracking and hunting skills for a place at the table.

Whoever made the first proposal, the "marriage" of our two species was probably one of the best ideas our prehistoric ancestors ever had. Over the centuries our bond has not only endured, it's deepened. Dogs keep us in touch with ourselves and with nature. We seem to have been made for each other.

After all these centuries, though, it's clear who got the better deal from that fateful alliance. Maybe the best part of our bargain was dog's companionship. The mere presence of a dog has therapeutic value; the phenomenon is so widely recognized and accepted in health care fields it's got a name - "the calming canine effect."

Psychosocial and physical therapists often find canine counselors to be more effective than their human colleagues. Ann Burrick, executive director of Therapy Dogs Inc., has heard of people who haven't spoken for months "who suddenly start talking when they are visited by a dog." One elderly woman hadn't uttered a word to anyone since the day she was transferred into a nursing home. After months many staff members assumed she had lost her capacity for speech as she sat along in her room. That is, until a therapy dog stopped by for a visit. As the dog pushed his head under her hand, the woman began to stroke him and suddenly began to talk about the dog she remembered from her childhood.

Alan Bloom, founder of Helping Hounds, reported in a Tufts University School of Veterinary medicine newsletter that one Alzheimer's patient had been too combative for her caretakers to handle. But when he placed a Helping Hound near her, she spent 15 minutes calmly brushing him, and remained placid for 5 or 6 hours after the visit.

But most of us just appreciate the everyday moments of friendship dogs bring to our lives. In our relationships in society and at work, we can rarely just be ourselves or speak our minds without reservations. But our dogs can show us what is like to live flat out, always in the moment. In Unleashed: Poems by Writers' Dogs, editors Amy Hempel and Jim Shepard have caught some literary hounds in the act of being canine in the rhymes of Birch:


You gonna eat that?
You gonna eat that?
You gonna eat that?
I'll eat that

and in country dog, Molly's, soulful howl:


Well
If that
don't beat all.
Don't they smell
SQUIRREL!
SQUIRREL! SQUIRREL!

As author and dog lover Michael Rosen writes, human-canine companionship is the one lasting "frequently equitable" relationship people "have managed to accomplish . . . in the five hundred millennia we've traipsed around worrying the rest of creation . . . . Dog people are folk who want their lives to be a little doggier - more physical contact, consistency, innocence, wildness, routine, unselfconsciousness, and even humility. Observing a dog is an exercise in appreciating the gifts of the nonhuman."

One friendship in 500 millennia may not be much of a record, but what a friendship it's been!


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