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Speech Patterns
Men Women
They speak in a louder voice They speak in a softer voice
They use loudness to emphasize points They use pitch and inflection to emphasize points
They sound more monotonous in speech. They use approximately 3 tones when talking They sound more emotional in speech. They use approximately 5 tones when talking
They interrupt others more and allow fewer interruptions They interrupt others less and allow more interruptions
They disclose less personal information about themselves They disclose more personal information about themselves
They make direct accusations (i.e., "You don't call") They make more indirect accusations. They use "why", which sounds like nagging (i.e., "Why don't you ever call?")
They make more direct statements and "beat around the bush" less often They make more indirect statements
They use less intensifiers They use more intensifiers such as "few", "so", "really", "much", "quite"
They make more declarative statements (i.e., "It's a nice day.") They make more tentative statements and use "tag endings" or upward inflections which make statements sound like questions (i.e., "It's a nice day, isn't it?")
They use more interjections when changing topics (i.e., "Hey!", "Oh", "Listen!") They use more conjunctions when changing topics (i.e., "and", "but", "however")
They ask fewer questions to stimulate conversation They ask more questions to stimulate conversations
They rarely discuss their personal life in business They tend to establish more business relationships through discussing their personal life


Excerpted from the book
He Says, She Says: Closing the Communication Gap Between the Sexes
by Dr. Lillian Glass. Putnam, 1992.


Body Language Facial Expression Behaviour

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