My name is Mildred Hondorf. I am a
former elementary school music teacher from Des
Moines, Iowa. I've always supplemented my income
by teaching piano lessons-something I've done for
over 30 years. Over the years I found that
children have many levels of musical ability. I've
never had the pleasure of having a prodigy though
I have taught some talented students.
However I've also had my share of what I call
"musically challenged" pupils. One such student was
Robby. Robby was 11 years old when his mother (a
single Mom) dropped him off for his first piano
lesson. I prefer that students (especially boys!)
begin at an earlier age, which I explained to
Robby.
But Robby said that it had always been his
mother's dream to hear him play the piano. So I
took him as a student. Well, Robby began with his
piano lessons and from the beginning I thought it
was a hopeless endeavor.
As much as Robby tried, he lacked the sense of
tone and basic rhythm needed to excel. But he
dutifully reviewed his scales and some elementary
pieces that I require all my students to learn.
Over the months he tried and tried while I
listened and cringed and tried to encourage him.
At the end of each weekly lesson he'd always say,
"My mom's going to hear me play someday." But it
seemed hopeless. He just did not have any inborn
ability. I only knew his mother from a distance as
she dropped Robby off or waited in her aged car
to pick him up. She always waved and smiled but
never stopped in.
Then one day Robby stopped coming to our
lessons.
I thought about calling him but assumed because
of his lack of ability, that he had decided to
pursue something else. I also was glad that he
stopped coming. He was a bad advertisement for
my teaching!
Several weeks later I mailed to the student's
homes a flyer on the upcoming recital. To my
surprise Robby (who received a flyer) asked me if
he could be in the recital. I told him that the
recital was for current pupils and because he had
dropped out he really did not qualify. He said that
his mother had been sick and unable to take him
to piano lessons but he was still practicing. "Miss
Hondorf . . . I've just got to play!" he insisted.
I don't know what led me to allow him to play in
the recital. Maybe it was his persistence or maybe
it was something inside of me saying that it would
be all right. The night for the recital came. The
high school gymnasium was packed with parents,
friends and relatives. I put Robby up last in the
program before I was to come up and thank all
the students and play a finishing piece. I thought
that any damage he would do would come at the
end of the program and I could always salvage his
poor performance through my "curtain closer."
Well, the recital went off without a hitch. The
students had been practicing and it showed. Then
Robby came up on stage. His clothes were wrinkled
and his hair looked like he'd run an eggbeater
through it. "Why didn't he dress up like the other
students?" I thought. "Why didn't his mother at
least make him comb his hair for this special
night?"
Robby pulled out the piano bench and he began. I
was surprised when he announced that he had
chosen Mozart's Concerto #21 in C Major. I was
not prepared for what I heard next. His fingers
were light on the keys, they even danced nimbly
on the ivories. He went from pianissimo to
fortissimo. From allegro to virtuoso. His
suspended chords that Mozart demands were
Magnificent! Never had I heard Mozart played so
well by people his age. After six and a half
minutes he ended in a grand crescendo and
everyone was on their feet in wild applause.
Overcome and in tears I ran up on stage and put
my arms around Robby in joy. "I've never heard
you play like that Robby! How'd you do it? "
Through the microphone Robby explained: "Well
Miss Hondorf . . . remember I told you my Mom
was sick? Well, actually she had cancer and
passed away this morning. And well . . . she was
born deaf so tonight was the first time she ever
heard me play. I wanted to make it special."
There wasn't a dry eye in the house that evening.
As the people from Social Services led Robby
from the stage to be placed into foster care,
noticed that even their eyes were red and puffy
and I thought to myself how much richer my life
had been for taking Robby as my pupil.
No, I've never had a prodigy but that night I
became a prodigy. . . of Robby's. He was the
teacher and I was the pupil For it is he that
taught me the meaning of perseverance and love
and believing in yourself and maybe even taking a
chance in someone and you don't know why.