Helpful Hints for String Parents

I thought that you might find it helpful to have a few tips on helping your child succeed as a stringed instrument player:

1)      Know what day your child has lessons, and check to make sure that they have all their

materials on those days (instrument, music, etc).   Avoid those panicked morning calls from the school office!

2)      Encourage your child to practice at least five days a week.  Beginners should set a goal of 15 minutes a day and work gradually up to at least 30 minutes (or more).  It is actually better to practice a little bit each day than to do one big “cram” session the night before a lesson!  Each student should have a sheet on which to record their daily practice time: review and sign them each week before lessons.

3)      A great way to show support is to ask your child what new songs or techniques they have learned, and ask them to play for you often.  Ask them to explain what or how they are doing certain things – you’ll be surprised how much they know, and it helps them to strengthen their own understanding. 

4)      Please try to be positive and patient!  Remember that learning any musical instrument is a major undertaking and requires developing techniques that have little or no basis in existing motor skills.  Remember, too, that there is a reason for the sequencing that the teachers use when teaching, and that the pace of lessons is designed to give each child a good foundation.  Even comments made jokingly about early squeaks or “plinking” can have a major impact on a child’s motivation and self-image, and can lower their drive to succeed.    Your child will be astounding you with his/her progress sooner than you think. 

5)      Please make every effort to see that your student attends all All-City Orchestra rehearsals.  Advanced students meet on Tuesday mornings at Kinsner Elementary, and Beginners will begin practices at the beginning of November (a more detailed letter will follow) on Thursdays.  This is a crucial part of the stringed instrument experience – and it’s fun!

6)      Concerts are mandatory!  It is natural for your child to be nervous.  Simply encourage them to be prepared and attend whenever possible to show your support.  

7)      Do not try to repair an instrument yourself if something should happen.  I am able to make small adjustments (broken string, a fallen bridge, etc) myself, but any major work should be done by your music store. 

8)      Feel free to contact me for any reason – questions, comments, concerns, anything!  Since I am constantly on the move, your best bet is to contact me via e-mail.