We have all seen that woman. You know . . . the one who just radiates sex appeal and allure, the one who has all the men around her doing double takes. Well, all that feminine charm is not necessarily inherent. Many of those ever-so-sexy moves can be learned and, with lots of practice, can become some of your most valuable tools in capturing the attention of the males around you.

Now, before you feminist out there start flaming us, please understand that we are not saying that these actions are required to get, or keep, a man. It's just that in the fine art of flirting, we women are uniquely qualified to dazzle the opposite sex and sometimes it's just good clean fun.

Go ahead, strut your stuff . . . THE WALK

For that ultimately feminine walk, try this . . . stand straight as if a string through the top of your head were pulling you straight up. Walk by placing feet almost directly in front of each other. Then add the hip sway by making a figure eight with your hips from left to right, moving only at the waist. This may take some practice to perfect but it's well worth the effort.

Entering & exiting like a starlet . . . THE VEHICLE SIT

Always sit into the car butt first. Once the gentleman opens the door walk up to the open doorway, pivot smoothly, then gracefully sink back into the sit with legs together. Once seated, keeping legs together and toes pointed, turn your body and swivel legs up over sill and into the car. Reverse the process when exiting. This manuever works best in sports cars and trucks due to the change in levels but looks good in any vehicle. Also, it's most effect in a dress and high heels. When wearing a dress, remember to give it a gentle upward pull just prior to the sit and swivel.

Make 'em sparkle like diamonds . . . THE SHIMMERING EYES

While listening to your partner, look directly into his eyes. Keep your eyes open past the impulse to blink. This will make your tear ducts begin to water. You can blink now. You should have a slight sheen which will make your eyes appear to sparkle, especially in low or candle light.

If you've got 'em, flaunt 'em . . . THE LEG CROSS

Sit with feet together directly in front of you. Move your knees 10 degrees off center while keeping your feet and torso is the same place and cross one leg over the other. This should make the foot which remains on the floor lean to the inside edge. Next, align the legs parallel and lay the top leg along the bottom and gently point the toe. Now, hold this chic pose without fidgeting. Periodically recross your legs in the opposite direction. This motion helps with the circulation in addition to drawing male eyes to your legs.

They're easily trainable . . . THE SPECIAL TOUCH

Use one particular touch (ie. a soft stroke on the back of the neck) only during intimate moments. Then, when you're feeling frisky, use that same touch and his subconcious should trigger him to focus his attention right where you want it.

This will dazzle 'em . . . THAT BRA THING

Taking off your bra without taking off your shirt. Men always seem baffled yet intrigued by this one. So, if your mom never taught you, this is how it's done. Reach behind you and unhook the bra through your shirt. Reach across your body into sleeve and snag bra strap with your finger. Pull out far enough to slip your arm out. Crossing the body again, reach into the opposite sleeve and, holding it by the strap, pull the bra out of the sleeve.