It has been a few says since I have done a blog.  I just want to say that time is so short now a days; the more time you think that you have, the more you seem to find to do. 

Married life for me is wonderful.  I enjoy the conversations, the bonding and the LOVE.  I can honestly say that I love my husband, more than I thought that it would be possible to love anyone.  When you really love someone, you love them even when you don't like them.  You understand that life will bring some difficult situations to your door and there will be times when you will feel like you just want to BREAK OUT... of life, of holding patterns, and of the mundane.  The most important thing is communication.  Not yelling, not screaming, not in a disrespectful way, but in a manner that allows everyone involved to the get their point across, and if you choose to disagree, agree that you don't agree and move on.  It is possible for more than one person to be right and it is possible for everyone to be wrong.  But in the end, "love covers a multitude of sins(short comings)".  The bottom line is that you do what is best for the relationship.  This is not always what either person wants, in the beginning, but when you care enough to build a person up, especially when they are at their lowest, it will make you relationship stronger than ever before. 

For all of my people that are in relationships, this is the thought for the week: 

"Love the one that you are with.  That means care for them, let what is important to them be important to you.  Let their cares fall across your shoulders, let their thoughts flutter through your mind.  Love them, love all of who they are, even if you don't love what they are.  Respect them, and let their love brighten your life."