From: Charles & Bev TruxtonDate: Sat, 20 Oct 2001 07:58:31 +0100 Subject: Shermeen's update #3 Paulman, please send. THANKS! ------------------------------- Ina Kwana?! (directly translated: 'how did you sleep'=good morning greeting) First things first: THANK YOU ALL for your faithful prayers. I have to say this again and again because prayer IS the battle, it's powerful and I'm convinced. This week especially, I've been just struck by how grateful I am for you labouring warriors, thanks TEAM!! I'm writing at 11:48pm, Friday night after we sent the MKs (missionary kids) off, back to their (relaxed, I hope) parents after our Friday night 'open house'. I think we fed them abit too much sugar tonight though...oops!! We shared from John 15:1-4. v.4 "Remain in me and I will remain in you." As I reflect on this week, that verse does stand out as the central theme for me. I'm reminded acutely how dependent I am in Christ, on Him, His character, His redeemption, atonement and I am enjoying the circumstance and time to 'soak before/in God'. This morning, I witnessed my first real 'death' and I'm still trying to process through and come to terms with it. Although I've had a couple of babies pass away in the last few weeks, even ones I saw admitted, I never witnessed their actual deaths. Today, however, I walked into the Paediatrics ICU and saw 8 year old Joseph naked, unresponsive and surviving on the tired efforts of the Paeds staff ambu bagging him. There are no respirators here, in fact, the most hi-tech thing at Evangel seems to be an ultrasound machine. His pulse was still here, but faint, I had a hard time getting a good 'thump' from his carotid, but could hear it with the stethoscope, he already felt cold to the touch. 45 mins later, Dr. Kogo 'certified' him when his heart stopped, pupils fixed and dilated. Young Joseph died of cerebral malaria. Before he died his family had already dug a plot and notified their family and friends of his approaching death, they were ready to come and get his corpse when I was in the ICU, even before he was really 'dead'. Sometimes I just don't know how to understand nor comprehend the brevity of life here, the 'acceptance' of death. I can't reconcile the stark constrasts between medical care at home and here, not because the doctors aren't extremely well trained here, in fact, the doctors here are amazing, they are very well trained. But at times I feel like we are in a completely different paradigm. With so few doctors to care for so very many patients and so little money to buy current equipment, what else can health care workers do? No CAT scans, no crash cart, no blood bank, no fancy lab tests, no physio equipment, no guarantee of 'real'/pure medication (patients are prescribed medication and their families buy them from pharmacies in the hospital or city)... After morning rounds with Paeds and then tagging along the surgical team, I had enough by 10am today (Fri) and headed home. I wanted to just run home and cry. Cry for who/what?? I didn't even know Joseph, I was in the bush of Africa when he was admitted, but I ached for a child, a family who lost their son to something so preventable as me taking my anti-malaria drug yet this malaria endemic kills sooo many here. So many people here suffer from easily preventable causes. I feel helpless. We came back safely on Thurs afternoon after our overnight trip to 'Zandi' and 'Gandi', two remote villages in the bush. This trip has been the most incredible experience to date, it has opened up my eyes and heart in a way that I can't quite articulate, it was truly quite life changing. We went in 2 vehicles: a Toyota van and a Land Rover. I will never criticize Toyota vans again. I owe my bum and a viable trip into the bush to that Toyota, never underestimate the power of prayer and a Japanese car!! ;0) One nurse, 4 pre-meds, a couple of pastors, evangelists and a village boy became the 'hospital' for the day as we listened, treated, dispensed health care and medication & gospel to the very many people who packed the very crowded, dusty, hot room. I wrote this in my journal: "Picture bush, dirt, a small clearing for a road, streams, rocks, mud, sand, whiplash, concussions, rodeo...I realised 2 things: 1. I do really enjoy medicine; 2. I felt such a burden to get my medical training so that I could be of help, some help to them. It stuck me that they, so, so so, many of them needed medical attention for the most basic of necessities..paracetemol, multi-vits, worm medication, antibiotics...." You see, the 'road' in was anything that didn't have trees or bush in the way. MOst of the time, it was somewhat 'cleared', more like a really challenging mountain bike trail with lots of rocks in it. The ride was plain 'bumpy', it was Playland times 10!! It put me to sleep though, and I hit my head on the side window many a time (concussion #5-6-7), but it was one of the most incredible and FUN trips I've ever taken. When we got to the village, it was market day and many people from the surrounding towns were there. I felt like I was in one of those World Vision videos. Between taking blood pressures (BPs) and learning how to diagnose and dispense drugs and being stared at and smiling, my heart and mind was busy trying to 'take it all in'. WOW. What a priveledge to be a small part of caring and being a practical witness in Jesus' name. See, a couple of years ago, a boy named Moses came to Jos as an 'orphan'. His mother died during childbirth, his father practically disowned him. He was taken in by one of the missions here and taught how to read and write Hausa/English and taught a trade. He came to Christ, went back to his village and shared Christ and now there is a church started there. Moses and Daniel (the pastor of this village church and the person who shared Christ with Moses) brought us to their village, Gandi, where we spent the night. We worshipped with the ~25 new believers that night at church, slept in mud huts at night and fellowshipped at morning devotions (5am!!) the next day with Moses' family. There is so much more to this story but I can't let myself start because it will take many pages. I will have to show you the pictures and let you listen to the taped (I brought my audio recorder) church singing/service for you to understand what it was like to travel to, as Daniel said, the 'most remote parts of Africa', live and fellowship with 'family' in the village, and behold the beauty, tranquility of the African night sky with the bright stars, away from cars, city, anything, really. Praise God indeed for this awesome experience, for the hospitality of Zandi and Gandi, of Moses' family (his father and him have since reconciled), and for the bond of unity as children of our Father in heaven. I am also personally thankful to God for safety and for helping me survive that trip as I was scared, let me tell you!! I'm finding I can get scared and fearful of many things here, ha!, not the crazy adventureous nutcase you and I thought I was afterall!!! Africa has a way of showing you just how 'hardy' you are...more often than not, it's when you allow yourself to dream up all these scary possibilities that you fear. When you're actually there, you realise that either your fears were augmented or that "too bad", you're here now and you'll just have to go and eat, drink, and sleep in faith!! :0) Prayer Items: 1) Please pray for our Sat 'Kids Club', an hour long weekly ministry that Helena and I have taken on that the Medical Director, Dr. Ushie had started. The local Nigerian kids that live on the hospital compound come out to that (and then visit us everyday there after....). Pray that we'd be used to meet them at their needs and be a loving witness and teacher to them. 2)Pray for this coming Wed/Thurs/Fri as Helena, Dr. Kogo and I lead Praise and Worship for chapel time at 7pm at Evangel. Pray that the planning and the actual times will be God honouring and glorifying. 3) Also please pray for Helena and I as we lead Praise and Worship every Wed (chapel) for the students at HillCrest School (MKs and expat and upper-class Nigerians attend this school). We are also 'helping'/mentoring/encouraging their senior high Praise Band as they learn to lead PW. 4) Personal prayer requests: -pray that sun church times will be timees of personal 'watering' and 'refreshing'. This is abit difficult as we will be going to different churches each week -that as the inital 'excitment' starts tto wear off, that I will find my 'niche' here in Jos, whether that be in the hospital, at Hillcrest, at other ministry sites etc... -that my times with God will continue too be the most satisfying, necessary 'soaking' times -that we will not fall sick with the manny bugs and viruses that float around here -that I will not fall into the trap of bbeing too busy with 'ministry' for all the wrong reasons nor all the right reasons -that I will not compare myself to otherrs nor to the image of a 'super-missionary', but rather be secure and confident in God alone, His pace for me, and the desire to want to please Him alone -that God will somehow use me, despite mmyself: selfish, deceitful, tiresome...; my lack of medical training, helplessness; language barrier....that God will change me...that God will use this broken vessel to share the truly GOOD NEWS of Jesus Christ. Thank you for your endearing sacrifice of prayer and support. If you've made it this far into the email, you truly are amazing!!! love, Shermeen