WHAT DOES RELATIONSHIP MEAN?
Relationship has different meaning, it can be friendship, family or lovers. Therefore, all relationship is based on respect and trust. So, it's important to respect and trust your relationship whether its family, friend or partner. As we are Somalis we only give valuable attention on our family and friends. We seem to be forgetting the respect and the trust of our lovers.
Your partner is your soul mate therefore, you have to respect and trust partner and protect his/her feeling. Human feeling is the most important part of life because the feeling comes from the heart. When somebody loves you, you have to remember that you got his/her heart so, you have to make sure that you protect it. You have to learn how to communicate and reveal your feeling to your partner. In order to enjoy your relationship; undertake the following steps: -
Ø Tell your partner how much you care about him/her constantly!
Ø Buy present for your partner occasionally to show your love!
Ø Go out together frequently and do something together!
Ø Respect and trust your partner!
Ø Express your feeling freely
Ø Dress nicely in order impresses your partner!
Ø Kiss and hug your partner constantly!
Ø Be romantic!
Ø Take bath together and let 'stuff' drain out with water!
Ø Pray to Allah constantly and read the Quran!
Ø Educate your partner in a suitable way!
Its always important to remember the fundamental basis of the relationship which is Respect and Trust.
Let's frame the word relationship itself?
Relationship means link or connection established between two people i.e. male and female which can be friends, families or lovers. So, when we are in a relationship; we have responsibility and duties to fulfil. Therefore, if we cannot meet the demanding of the relationships, then we cannot establish the link at all. So, the connection we have with Allah is to meet and follow the five pillars of ISLAM.