| MySubmission vs Your Submission |
| On this page we will explore my submission vs. your submission. A comparison of sorts. I hope to show you just how much alike our lives really are......kitty |
| Submission is not just "giving into" a person becuase they have pleaded with you to. It's freely giving of yourself, of trusting that "ONE" person so completely, that you are willing to give all you are and who you are without reservation. Submission is a deeper commitment than you or most are used to. Submitting to to them willingly in order to find yourself, and who you are. Submitting is one way of pleasing, that will bring pleasure to yourself. You may be submitting right now to many different people in many different ways. 1) To a Dom/Domme or Master/Mistress. 2) To your husband or wife 3) to a child 4) to a friend 5) to your boss There are many kinds of submission.You may be submitting, by just giving in to another person, in order to keep peace. You may be submitting to please a Master, or your husband. You may be submitting because that's what's inside of you, and not just to please them or make them happy, but because it pleases you to do so, and makes you happy to serve. I submit to my Master, because I not only want to, but also because I have chosen to. I haven't been forced to, I asked to be allowed this, the privledge of submitting to him. His acceptance, has made me a healthier and more complete and happy woman. Things may not always go as smoothly as we wish them to. As from time to time life issues will come up. But all in all my life of submission is great. Lets compare.... My Submission...I clean our home and keep it that way. I cook for my Master, and make sure his meals are served on time. I make sure his clothes are clean and taken care of properly.At times I also get them for him. I run his bath and bathe him,t hree days a week. The other four are up to him. I also pick up after him when needed.(though at times he does try to help, and I have to remind him that he is doing my job, and that he is no longer in his old vanillia relationship)I am here to greet him when he comes home. I keep track of business contacts and numbers,and appointments. Your submission... You clean your home. You cook for your family. You do your laundry. Generally you pick up after your husband and/or children. So in general you do all that I do, only I may take it a bit further, as if I was living the life of a "50's" housewife. And just as most women and wives did then, I put "ALL" his needs first and foremost. A Day In My Life This is a normal day in my life. I get up in the morning, I greet him, "Good Morning Sir" and head to the kitchen to make coffee. Once coffee is done I serve it to him.We sit and watch the morning news together. Then we go online together to say good morning to our online friends.Then after about an hour I leave him to our friends, to cook his breakfast.I serve him his, then I serve myself. When finished, I then clean up the dishes and kitchen, then head to the bedroom to make our bed. I then clean any small messes that may have occured over night then run the vacuum.Once I am finished I head to my bath, if hasn't need of my services at this time.If he isn't working this day, he watches television or works on the computer, and I work on mine, until it's time for dinner. I prepare dinner, then clean up after. Then we either watch television, or chat online, till bedtime. Some days are different, as maybe he is working that day, or we go shopping, or to a Dr's appointment, or maybe we have a family commitment that day. BUT even then I am submitting and serving him in my actions of what I may do or say. And no one is the wiser. (smile). BUT ALWAYS my efforts are appreciated, and not taken for granted. I am thanked when I do something to please, either in words or in actions......ARE YOU? There are many other ways of submission than what's in the D/S's lifestyle. In a VANILLA lifestyle women and men both submit to different people in many different ways. For example: You submitt to your spouse or partner. You may give them what they want for many reasons. This is submission. You may give into them, even when you don't want to, so you can give them the pleasure of happiness or to keep peace. You may submitt to your boss, and most likely do, even though you want to or not, in order to get that raise or promotion, or even to keep your job. Friends...Now who hasn't given into a friend in order to keep peace or not to hurt their feelings? You may at times agree to do do something with them, that you don't really want to do, in order to get what you want one day in the future.This is submission, and submitting to give one pleasure, in order to get pleasure for yourself, even if at a later date and time. Submitting to a child...(smile) Now I know we have all done this at one time or another, for I am guilty of this myself, That giving in order to keep peace and stop a temper tantrum. This isn't positive submission, but it is submission none the less, as in a way to gain some kind of pleasure, even if just a quiet child. BDSM or D/S's Submission & Sex The giving of one's self to another for their pleasure,in order to receive pleasure for yourself. Submitting in this lifestyle, comes in so many different ways. By doing the day to day things that come with taking care or your mate/Master, or home as I mentioned earlier, or just being near him,and quietly waiting until he has need of you or your services, and then doing as he requests. Now as you can see submission comes in many forms. In the right setting submission is beautiful, wonderful and a giving way of life. You can choose your submission, as I did mine But you can't choose to be submissive, you just are..........Kitty. |
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