collars

COLLARS

What they are...Why they are worn..What they mean.

What is a collar?

    Any close fitting band around the throat. Most are made of leather or metal. Most have rings embedded in them. Some are made for show, and are more ordinattly designed. Those are not ment for bondage. Since the wearing of a "Traditional collar" can interupt with work or other "real life" dities, some submissives wear chokers. They can be pearls, ribbons, a cameo, or some other close fitting necklace. Some have been known to wear anklets or tattoo's. This all depends on what is right for the submissive and Dom.

Why wear a collar?

   The wearing of a collar has many reasons: To show the status of a submissive. To show ownership. To remind a sub of her status.To signify the commitment between a sub and Dom. The wearing of a collar, no matter in what form, should ALWAYS be taken seriously, and should be worn with pride.
   While you are wearing that collar, your behaviour reflects upon your Dom,as well as yourself. The collar will somehow show who your dom is. This can be as simple as his first initial or his personal symbol.( For my Master it's a leopard or tiger print.) While collared you are usually untouchable,unless your Dom gives express permission otherwise. So while you are collared no other Dom will approach you,but go to your Dom,otherwise the Dom could be infractioned.

These are only some examples of collars I wear.I have more but wear these most.You will see on the right one is black leather with studs and a D ring. this can be used a leash like the leopard one.. The other is made of leather,but has a leopard print fur,also woth a D ring.This is my Master's signature collar. It's a bit more dressy.Now the one on the left.(smile) Yes its a choke chain collar with a padlock.The padlock symbolizes, that I am not avaliable.This is easily worn under my top and not seen. I wear it when it's not appropriate for me to wear a collar. The bottom right is for scenes. Lots of riings to hook things.
For most a collar is the same as a wedding ring, is to vaniila couples. I consider my collar, more important than the wedding ring I will one day wear. A collar around a sub's neck is an outward symbol of ownership and committment,and just like the wedding ring, signifies that said person is taken.
A collar binds two heats,two souls together, in a much deeper level of love and committment, than a wedding ring ever can. The wedding ring is placed on a finger,a peice of paper signed to "legally"bind. the two parties to each other. A collar isn't merley placed around a neck.It's placed around a heart, for a more spiritual binding. A collar symbolizes not only ownership, committment,love and devotion,it also embodies qualities of honor, respect,and trust.
When a submissive accepts a collar form a Dom, she pledges to focus her entire being on her Master, making his pleasures her joys. he becomes her all, peace, pleasure, comfort,and her strength. By accepting a collar, she promises to honor him with every word, action, and deed. By offering a collar, the Master agrees to cherish, protect,nurture, and cars for the sub in all ways. To appreciate, and never "ABUSE" the gift given.
There are ceremonies for the giving and receiving of collars, just like a vanilla wedding, but I won't go into details.
So as you see I am just as "Married" to my Master as a wife is to her husband.And this binding isn't as easy to break as a common divorce is to a marriage. We take this committment very seriously, and work to nurtuer and keep it that way.

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