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THE HITLER
DIARIES
VOLUME ONE: IT BEGINS In which we witness our heroine's
conception, birth, and growth, and we accompany her on her early adventures
across the globe, encountering such diverting figures as Jesus Christ and
The Sex Dwarf. Also, a long, long essay about gender roles in The Terminator
parts 1 & 2, & Ursula becomes a radio star.
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8/20/96
Oh my God. I finally did it. Tonight I finally told K that I've always wanted to be a girl. I still can't believe it. It was one of the scariest things I've ever done... after all, K's the first person I've ever told! I just blubbered the whole thing out, in about 20 seconds flat. Me & K have been through a lot of wacky shit in the four years we've been together, but I still had no idea how she'd react. Would she be OK about my feelings, or would she be upset that I wasn't quite the person she'd thought? Well, it turned out that I worried for nothing, she was great about the whole thing. In fact, she threw me for a loop by announcing that she has conflicts about her gender, too! I've always dreamt of being a petite, busty, hot little chick, while K kind of resents being a petite, busty, hot little chick. Part of her would rather be a tall boy with a real spooky look, like me! It's like through some cosmic fuck-up, we've ended up living in each other's bodies. It's funny, because for the longest time I've called K my "little man," usually as an endearment, but also, I confess, sometimes as a put-down. She can be very girly sometimes, but she also has a very strong, aggressive side. She's not the type to wear a lot of lace & ruffles, and I don't know too many other girls who get really excited about Star Wars & Tomb Raider & stuff like that. I guess I always sensed the boy within her, but I never realized how strong it really was. K insists that she had NO clue about my gender confusion, which I find hard to believe! I mean, I'm not exactly dead butch, and K's read some of the comics I used to draw about hermaphrodites & stuff. I'm closer to K than I've ever been to anybody in my life. How could she NOT have suspected? I'm not really sure what to do next. Am I supposed to get a sex change, or become a transvestite or something? Um... I don't think so. I'd make the ugliest woman there ever was. There's no surgery in the world that could make me look the way I want to, I'm just too fucking tall and gawky and ugly. There's no point in dreaming about being a woman... but these stupid feelings just won't go away. Argh. God damn every god damned thing to hell. 1/30/97
I always thought there was no point in my trying to be a girl because I was way too tall & butch-lookin', but now I'm starting to wonder. Maybe I'll never be able to fool anybody into believing that I'm really a woman, but at least I could work with what I've got and be as girly & beautiful as possible. I've tried dressing up in girl clothes once or twice and I always looked ghastly, but I was just throwing myself together, and I had no clue what I was doing. I bet if I really tried, if I read some beauty magazines for advice and had K help me out, I could look OK. I think K could make a really cute guy, too. Men are up against a lot when they try to pass as women, but almost any girl, no matter how femme-looking she is, can look like a man without too much work. All it really takes is like a baggy suit and some fake stubble. Anna Niccole Smith could pass as a guy, if she strapped those giant boobs down and really worked at it. If I am going to do this, I think I have to lose some weight, first. I've noticed that really tall women often look better when they're super-scrawny, it gives them that willowy runway model look. I'd rather be a short, chubby, curvy girl, but shortness is beyond me, and my extra pounds aren't curves, they're fat. I really let myself pork up last year, and I'll need to lose maybe sixty or seventy pounds. No more ice cream for a while! 4/5/97
I've been reading all these beauty magazines at Borders, trying to learn all I can about makeup & other girly-type things. It has been educational, but it's also been pretty depressing. The models in these magazines are all so fucking "perfect", with their smooth vanilla skin and their button noses and their impossibly slim waists and their beautiful tits tits tits on every damn page. I could pump my ass full of hormones or have six plastic surgeries a year until I'm forty, but nothing short of a brain transplant will ever make me look like one of those damned supermodel chicks. Now I understand why real girls are always bitching about America's nutty beauty standards; you look at the girls in beauty magazines and you just feel like a beast, like you should lock yourself away and never show your hideous face in public again. It's so crazy, because in real life I'm not even that attracted to most "perfect" girls! I like exotic women, women with hips and interesting noses and cute, soft little convex bellies. I know that girls don't have to look like Kate "fishface" Moss to be pretty, but when I read these beauty mags I get brainwashed, and I think I have to look like that or there's no point in existing at all. It's so fucking fucked. The fault lies not in ourselves, but in our stars. 4/20/97
6/18/97
8/12/97
Over the last few weeks I've gone out by myself once or twice, dressed in regular boy clothes, to check out some of the drag clubs around town. K is really scared about going, and I want our first experience out to be a good one, so these are fact-minding missions to make sure we'd like these clubs. I went up to LA to see this place called the Yukon Mining Company, a restaurant that I heard a lot of transvestites go to, but I was too scared to get out of my car. I was sitting there trying to screw up my courage when a cop car drove up & this cop got out & walked over & asked me what I was doing. A lot of transvestite hookers work in the area, so I guess this cop thought I was some shmoe out looking for a date! I stammered something about being lost, and I was sure he was gonna arrest me, but he didn't. He just told me to get moving. He didn't have to tell me twice, believe me! 9/22/97
Next month is Halloween, and we've decided to make our public drag debut then. It's a cliche, I know, but at least we know there will be lots of people walking around in crazy costumes, so we won't have to worry so much about being gawked at. 10/15/97
A few people asked me my name, and I didn't
know what to say. I guess I need a drag name, but I'd feel silly calling
myself Helena Handbasket or something, and I don't think I'd be comfortable
with some straight girl name either. "Hello, I'm Jennifer." No no, that'd
never do. Hmm...
10/31/97
12/5/97
1/10/98
2/17/98
2/20/98
2/26/98
3/10/98
The other night me & K went to Dragstrip 66. I wore this big purple formal dress that K got me for valentines. It had all these great crinolines that rustled against my thighs and made sounds like autumn leaves when I walked. It was so pretty, I felt like a debutante! We ran into the Music for Nimrods gang again, and they were so nice, but I'm afraid I wasn't much fun to be around. I was in a big pout over some troubles at work, and I couldn't really think of anything to say that wasn't gripey. Sometimes I'm a big party girl, but sometimes I'm just a big dorky boy in a dress. Sigh. Dashelle was just getting over a nasty bout of samonella, and I didn't hear HER cryin'! I gotta toughen up. 3/18/98
Here's the basic conflict. I liked the first Terminator movie fine, but I thought the second one was a big, noisy abomination that was only redeemed by a really neat villain. The first film was scary and sad and romantic and kind of punk rock, while the second one was very, very Guns & Roses; it dripped with "attitude". And that Edward Furlong character needed a beating real bad, with all that bullshit slang ("awesome!") and that HAIR. I actually busted out laughing when they lowered Arnold into the molten goo at the end and it was supposed to be all sad. I wasn't trying to be snotty - I genuinely adore good trashy movies - but I just couldn't help myself, Arnold getting melted was the funniest thing I ever saw. I must have been driving everybody around me in the theater nuts. They were all trying to grieve over the heroic death of this big Austrian android, and I kept giggling like a maniac at the sad, sad music and Arnold's terribly somber expression as he was lowered into the molten goo. And when he gave that last little thumbs up at the end, I just about pissed myself. Anyhow, I don't think K liked the movie all that much more than I did, but where we absolutely cannot see eye to eye is the Linda Hamilton character. K felt that Linda made the transition from a whiny, helpless femme in the first picture to a take-charge kinda gal in the second one. I liked Linda just fine in the first flick, she seemed like a nice, normal person. Yeah, she whined a bit, but who wouldn't if they got thrust into the middle of a big scary mess like that? Don't tell me you wouldn't whine if there was a killer cyborg on your ass! Besides, Linda was the one who ultimately smushed the cyborg under that big smusher machine. "You're terminated, fucker!" Remember that? It wasn't the tough-guy commando boyfriend. He bought it like a chump, and left all the dirty work to Linda... and Linda took care of business! Anyhow, at the end of the first movie, after Linda's been through all that shit with the cyborg, & her lover's been killed & everything, she seemed tougher, but also sadder & more mature. As she drove off into that bad matte painting of a stormy Mexican horizon, with her doggy by her side and that shotgun under the seat, we could only think, "Hey, there may be some tough times ahead, but this dame's gonna be OK". Well, flash forward to the beginning of the second movie, when Linda's suddenly been transformed into this callous, militaristic, and oh-so-'90s he-babe. I don't mind a girl with muscles, and I definitely don't mind a dominant female, but Linda was a macho jock asshole, qualities which I do not find endearing in any gender. Between movies she'd gone from being a strong, believable character to becoming a female version of all the things I hate about men. She was John Wayne with breasts, five times as butch as her commando boyfriend was in the first movie! This wasn't the kind of girl who'd drive around with a shotgun and a doggy. This was the kind of "grrrl" who shoots and kills and eats doggies, because in a world gone mad, THAT's what you do to SURVIVE. What the hell happened to her between movies? Marketing happened. "Hey, the boys down in research say bitchy muscle gals are THE big thing. Even Madonna's looking pretty ripped these days. Think we can get Hamilton to pump some iron?" Everything about Linda's character in "T2" was so calculated and fake, just like the whole movie was calculated and fake. It's absurd for me & K to have knock-down,
drag-out fights over bad sci-fi movies, but obviously there are larger
issue we're tussling with, here. K feels so oppressed by conventional femininity
that Linda's transformation is something to be celebrated; Linda's gone
from victim to bad-ass! To me, Linda's transformation is tragic; she's
devolved from complex modern woman to violent, unthinking ape-woman.
On the other hand, as girls get butcher, it does seem like boys are getting increasingly fey, & lord knows drag has never been so popular! When you see a big old repressed right-wing dork like Rudy Guilliani running around in drag, you know something really wacky is happening culturally. I also think it's signifigant that FIGURE SKATING, the girliest sport ever, is now the single most popular spectator sport, bigger than football or basketball or anything. I mean, what's that about, hey? Men are quite literally losing their virlity; sperm counts are dropping worldwide. I've heard that there's some pollutant in the atmosphere that mimics the effects of estrogen, and it's even making some men grow breasts (Where is this stuff? I want some!) Increasingly, it seems like boys identify with tough females - Lara Croft, Buffy, etc. - more than they identify with dudes like Stallone or Bruce Willis. Hmm. Maybe eventually we'll reach a point
when the traditional gender roles will completely reverse, and girls will
be the bosses & boys will be the secretaries and raise all the babies!
Well, as long as I'm the one who gets to wear the miniskirt, I can't really
complain.
I suppose some growing pains are both inevitable and neccesary while we all work our way through this gender crap & figure out what the hell we really want to be. In a way it sucks to be part of humanity's awkward adolescence... but hey, at least we didn't have to be around for humanity's infancy. (ADDENDUM: K has asked me to add that she feels Linda's personality change between the two Terminator pictures makes sense because of all the hardship - ten years of knocking around with a bunch of psycho boyfriends, getting locked up in institutions, etc. - that the character endured between thhe films. I would counter by saying that none of that stuff sounds as bad as what Linda endured in the first film - losing every single person she cared about, watching dozens of people die horribly around her, getting the tar beaten out of her by a killer cyborg, etc. - yet at the end of the first movie she somehow emerges with her sanity and sense of decency intact. With that, I hope & pray we can at last drop this whole fucking issue & never, ever speak of it again. Please, baby?) 3/21/98
3/27/98
Easter Sunday/98
4/11/98
5/1/98
Dan said I could maybe be on his Music for Nimrods radio show sometime, and now I gotta think up something cool to do. I don't wanna just sit there like a dummy. Too bad it's not a TV show, because then I could go on and show my freak feet! My index and middle toes on each foot are fused together like siamese twins - there's one big fat toe body, with two toe heads growing out of it. One of these days I gotta post a picture of my toes on here. Christ, a tranny with freak feet - maybe I can get a gig with the Jim Rose circus, no? 5/3/98
After we were done with the convention today we went home and played Tomb Raider 2 and watched The X-Files and a Deep Space 9. Jesus, I feel so geeky. Oh well, next weekend we're gonna go to a big drag thing, so then maybe we'll be kinda hip again. Actually, I kinda prefer to think of myself as a FREAK, not a geek. Some magazine had this thing a while ago, about are you a Freak, a Geek, or a Nerd? A Nerd is somebody smart but socially hopeless, like Bill Gates. A genius who smells bad. A Geek is somebody into geeky stuff who can blend in well with mainstream society... Jerry Seinfeld for instance, with his Superman obsession and everything. By this standard K is a TOTAL geek - she's this flaming geek beneath her yuppie Barbie exterior. Then there's the Freaks, people who are edgy and artsy, but into geeky stuff... Trent Reznor, Tori Amos, Andy Warhol. By this standard I'm defintely a freak, not a geek or a nerd. Geek boys don't wear dresses in public or club-hop or dye their hair weird colors or drop acid. Actually, my worrying so much about this is pretty nerdy/geeky/dorky/whatever. God, it's been too long since I got prettied up, I think I'm getting peculiar. I'm gonna go put on some lipstick right now! 5/10/98
6/13/98
Well, I've been up to an UNPRECEDENTED amount of drag activity these days! For starters, last Sunday me & K went to Coven 13. We thought it was gonna be a fairly drag-friendly environment, but we turned out to be the only dragsters there! We got some dirty looks, but since every boy in the place was wearing black lipstick we didn't know what they were getting so uppity about. Then tonight we went to the Fetish Ball, this huge event in a scary part of LA. It was so wonderful, four floors of sexy folks in skintight rubber! There was SO MUCH FLESH all around, and everybody was wearing wild costumes. Yeah, baby. The place was lousy with cops, though. They even frisked us. I didn't care for them big piggy mitts on my tits! At exactly 2 AM, the cops turned the lights on real bright and chased everybody out. Blame CA's lovely liquor law. CA blows. This year's theme was Gods & Devils & stuff like that, & we tried to come up with good devil costumes, but finally we decided to just go kinda gothic-y again. This time I wore a super-slutty black bustier with a big black crinkly skirt & my opera gloves. I was a redhead, and I looked JUST like Tori Amos. No, really! Well, Tori Amos crossed with Klinger from M*A*S*H. K was a goth boy, but with blonde hair and black lipstick & a tall black funeral hat. Mmmm. 6/16/98
We also saw a disco Jesus. Really, there was a guy who was dressed exactly like Jesus, with the robes and the beard and everything, and he was out there on the dance floor shakin' his booty with all of the rubber people. There was also this fashion show that was kinda cool but kinda silly too. There were two hot babes in Catholic schoolgirl outfits who did a striptease, then a bondage nun came out and lifted up their skirts & spanked them. You'd think the whole thing would be super-sexy, but me & K agreed that it actually seemed kinda like a badly acted school play. It was more cute than hot, although some of the outfits were pretty fun. There were these two identical twin girls who twirled flags around and did some really badly synchronized dance stuff that went on for a looong time, but I think one of them was really a boy, so that's neat. After months of being netpals, I finally talked to Ms. M on the phone last night! That was so neat, I'm totally in love with Ms. M now. I keep pressuring her to move outta New York & come out to LA and be my little sister, but stuff that cool never happens to me. Weep, weep. We talked for so long, I'm scared of the phone bill! We talked for so long that I got whoozy from not eating. Unfortuantely I did most of the talking. K always says I talk too much or not at all. 8/1/98
Dragstrip was fun, but it was way too hot & crowded. We could hardly fit on the dance floor, and while we were dancing people kept stepping on my feet & giving me karate chops in the ribs. I think the '80s thing brought out all the retro goons, so maybe next month it won't be quite so bad. Poor K, I think she's been feeling guilty about giving me grief about my lingerie, 'cause now she keeps trying to convince me to wear a bikini to the next Dragstrip! It's a beach blanket theme this time, which sounds so yucky to me. Ursula's no beach bunny! I keep saying I'm gonna wear a black Morticia dress with a veil... THAT's what I'd wear to a beach party! Oh, I think I'm gonna go to this year's comicon in San Diego in drag to try & sell my latest book to a publisher. I might wimp out, but I really wanna do it. It will NOT be a drag-friendly enviornment, but I don't care! It'll be a blast to give all them repressed little comix geeks hard-ons & scare ‘em outta their wits. 8/9/98
Oh, Dashelle molested me again! She reached under the table & put her hand on my thigh while we were talking & said to K, "I'm stroking Ursula's thigh, is that a problem?" She said it in a very cool and professional manner. I was so freaked that I just sat there meekly letting Dashelle stroke my thigh, until K announced that my thigh was HERS. It made me feel like some piece of property being passed back & forth. YEAH! I also discussed buggery ettiquite with K's nice gay friend. I was asking all these silly questions, like, "when you meet somebody, how do you know if they're a buggerer or a bugger-ee? What if you like somebody, but it turns out you're both bugger-ees? Do you take turns getting buggered, or do you just end up bumping butts or something?" I was being a very silly girl, but he seemed entertained by my inquiries rather than offended. He's so nice, but he told me about some queens who were really bitchy to him, & it got me thinking about all the weird hostility that exists between the gay guys and the dragsters. I guess the straight trannies are tired of having people assume they're gay, and vice versa, but can you imagine a goofier conflict than this? Lately it seems like Dragstrip is getting less & less draggy & more gay. It wouldn't bother me so much, but many of the gay guys really do seem to HATE the queens. I've heard horror stories of girls having their wigs pulled off & stuff. If anybody tried that shit on me, no foolin', I'd kick his ass so hard his grandkids would walk funny. Of course I abhor violence, but some things are just beyond the pale. Oh, one last thing about the Fetish Ball... I saw a report about it on Strange Universe the other night, this dopey show on UPN, and since they weren't allowed to take cameras inside they filmed the people in crazy costumes out on the sidewalk. At the end of the report the scary oreo host guy looked at the camera and said, "Imagine what goes on INSIDE!" It made me so happy, 'cause unlike those poor little people who are too scared to do anything but watch this stuff on TV, I don't HAVE to imagine it! Yeah!
A sleeping-bag full of giggling young lovelies from the always-wonderful MUSIC FOR NIMRODS radio show. L-R: That charming English lass Misty Blue, a foxy little hellcat who goes by the name of Revvy, the delectable Victoria (or maybe Veronica! Sorry, I'm not sure), Ms. Hitler herself, looking just skanky as can be, and Empira, the slumber party-girl extrordinaire. This was the first slumber party I'd been to in ages, and thankfully I got through the whole evening without falling asleep and having somebody hide my panties in the freezer or sticking my hand in a bucket of warm water to make me pee! 8/22/98
I was really scared & quiet when I first got on the air tonight, but later on I was an absolute BLABBERMOUTH! I talked about when I was arrested for stealing lingerie years ago, I talked about this transvestite Bugs Bunny cartoon that obsessed me when I was a kid. I showed my freak feet to everybody, but they weren't as shocked as I woulda liked, they all acted like it was no big deal. I was hoping somebody was gonna faint. The real news is that me & K are officially making the big move tomorrow! We've booked the truck & everything. This is our first place together, after going out for SIX YEARS! It's about time, huh? I'm dreading the moving, but I can't wait to be in our new place. I can't wait to know my little man is sleeping in the next room while I'm up puttering around in the wee small hours of the morning. Speaking of which, I better hit the sack if I hope to be able to lift couches & stuff tomorrow. Zzzz. |
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