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THE CJM CIRCULAR: the real ride down memory lane

One day, when i realized that i had over 130 alumni onboard, and less than 50 pictures on site, i decided to send out a huge email. It turned out, Hotmail doesnt support more than 50 addresses, so i thought it best to target the girls from 1980s and before and off went that email, reminding,begging,pleading for pictures.
That email, turned into a mass snowball rolling down a hill, reuniting everyone who hadnt been touch for the past 20, 30, years and the memories started flooding in.
So if anyone really wants a dose of the cjm life as it was in the 50s, 60s, 70, then ths is the real thing. Its the email exchanges going in for the past few months, starting november 2008.
If you would like to go to a particular email post, i suggest this;

click on EDIT on your mainbrowser window (look right on top)---click on"find on this page" ---type one of the names mentioned below(i suggest just the first name)---and click clicking NEXT for it to catch the next few enteries! enjoy!

SALMA REHMAN, Yasmin Karim, Fatima Tyebjee, Aneela Nazir, Rashida, Gail Allman, Leslie MiddleCoat, Catherine Faddis, Munazza Akhtar, Amber Rashid, Arlene Geddes, Nabila Maniya, Geethi Aziz. Nefer Jooma, Meher Karim, Amna Shah, Salma Saranjan, Kishwar Khanzada, Uzma Masood, Nilofer Qayoom, samina 1972,


 

Selma Rehman:
Sonia, many thanks for this. my resolve then for 09 is to finish off a big piece of work here in edinburgh, and settle down to some personal time...and that will include the photo collection. all the co incidences in 08 that led me to finding your site and trying to re engage, did prompt the great need to go back and explore.....it's more than 5 years since i was in pakistan, and got no where near murree....... so, i'm still toying with the thought of some time in 09, making that nostalgic trip... has there ever been any sort of reunion? would that be too much to hope for? open to all, any former pupils? wouldn't have to be murree itself, would it....? maybe a hotel in karachi, or lahore, and anyone with that real need to go back to murree (like me!) could do that for themselves. well, thank you Sonia for all the work you've done already and if anyone is out there and could stand the idea of (some form of reunion) sometime in the future.....we could start an email discussion about it.....???? New year coming, and edinburgh does have this wonderful winter festival.....and the weather is turning..........beautiful clear blue skies, frost and the slightest touch of snow... time for another thermal then!!! a' the best for 09 to you all,

Yasmin Karim (1972):
Selma I think the idea of a reunion is a great one but now that the boarding school no longer exists I wonder if the same nuns if any are there. Sounds like Edinburgh is going to be cold well here in Australia today is the first day of summer and we are looking forward to a nice HOT Christmas and long break of two months. Our schools close for December and January and as I am a teacher I get to enjoy that privilege too!! All the best to those of you in the cold from those of us in the heat!!

Fatima (Tyebjee) Hakeem :
Hi Sonia Thanks for doing this . I am sure that most of the graduating students from my class (1969) are not on this email? But I hope that with your initiative to get the group on the web - we will continue to collect the alumni. I was in Murree and visited the convent in 2001. It was empty except for the chaukidaar and remarkably unchanged. I could have sworn that I found my 7th class desk!! I have some pictures that I would have to digitze and send to you. Have one of Nilofer (Fakir) that is a goodie!! It was delightful to find your website. Thanks again. Happy Holidays. Eid Mubarak to all (in advance)

Aneela Nazir:
I graduated in 1976 and am absolutely delighted to hear from CJM girls! I would love to have some kind of a reunion. I live in New Orleans and do intend on visiting Pakistan this summer. Please keep me posted.

Rashida:
It was great of Sonia to put this together. Eileen we were in Murree at the same time. It sounds so exciting. Getting old does not help! Do you remember Jane Kennedy and Elizabeht Hooker--Jane's dad was awit the US embassy and Elizabeth--We lived on the other end of Murree--we had our villas/lodges pretty close to St. Denny's. Kashmir point it was I think. Jane used to have slumber parties. I remeber drinking cans of root beer at school and the girls thought that we were drinking the real beer. I am getting some reports together and I just checked my e-mail--it was a thrill! Let us exchange information.

Gail Allman : I am so pleased to hear from students of CJM Murree. The problem is I was quite young when I left so I don't remember everyone's names. Of course they were some that I recall till today, especially those who were in the same class as me. A name I definitely remember is Lesley Middlecoat (not in my class but I do remember you), Valerie Horne, Nyla, Caroline (whose mother worked in a boy's school down the road from CJM). I also remember there were four sisters, Angie Davis, Della Davis, and two more (names I forget now). My sister Charmaine was 14 and I was 10 when we left the school. The year we left was 1971. We remember very happy times at the school, and some not so happy (when we were punished for picking apples from the trees), or the time my beret flew out of my hands at the breakfast table and knocked over several glasses of water. Sister Clotilda scolded me and rapped my knuckles hard with the ruler she always seemed to carry with her. Did me no harm though, I just never wore a beret again. I was sad to hear she has passed away. My sister Charmaine keeps in touch with Jean Carlvalo (now Jean Thompson) who lives in Norfolk, England. Both Charmaine and myself live in Bedfordshire, England. I would love to be in touch with anyone and everyone who might remember us. Do pop me an email and jog my memory and if you know of any of the people I have mentioned and those that I haven't, send them my email address. Look after yourselves and God bless.

Lesley Middlecoat(class of 75)
Girls surely we could get something going.............a reunion. There is a beautiful hotel in Murree............and bet we could get around Sister Mercedes to let us have a few hours at school. Though it just makes me cry each time i visit. Do any of you remember my aunt Sister Margaret Mary? she now lives in the UK............she left the convent years ago. stay safe all you J&M Gals,

Selma:
absolutely delighted to see the interest and the flow of communications that's going around. if we can keep the momentum going, i'm sure we can translate it into (some) action sometime next year? in the meantime, it's nice to know that there are so many fps out there....and many more we just don't know about!! i wonder how we can widen the net?

Fatima Hakeem/tyebjee:
Hello Everyone: I don't know any of you "young" people. I graduated 1969 .......But I am thrilled to be communicating with you on our shared experience. Mother Margaret Mary was a favorite of ours. Lesley - please give her my love. She would know me as Fatima Tyebjee. Anyone coming to Houston, please feel free to call me. You will be welcome!-
Aneela Nazir This is great! I graduated in 1976....Aneela Nazir...seems weird writing my maiden name after all these years. Lesley I remember you and Nilofer Qayoom-think you were in my class and Gayle. Yes. Were you the one who liked making designs with thread on her hands. I mean literally with a needle and thread! I thought it was pretty cool! Anyway, if that wasn't you...my apologies! but it somehow stuck in my head. I'm here in New Orleans. I did visit the Convent a few years back. And felt transported to another life, another era. I think it might help if we write down our maiden names (if we still remember them--just kidding!) Someone, anyone write back....what a treat to hear voices from the past...a need to re-connect, to reflect ,to just talk and share and laugh and....keep the ball rolling. Lots of love and best wishes for a great new year.

Catherine Fadis 12-04-08
OMG I am so happy. Please, please send me everyone's email I can't wait. Pictures also. Also telephone numbers. Do you skype? I am catefad. I will do the same. Sonia Farooq is awesome for doing what she did. Well what can I say. I miss Pakistan so much. I have to come and visit at some point. Until things settle down we should have a reunion in London. I can't wait to hear from everyone. Where do I begin: God has been very good to my family. After we left Pakistan we were in Ghana for a minute and my dad was posted to Washington. A year later there was a coup in Ghana so we got political assylum and became refugees. Life became much more difficult. No more aya's and charmed life. I went to the College of William and Mary and got an accounting degree and became a CPA (US equivalent to a Chartered Accountant). I then worked for one of the big accounting firms and got an MBA from Harvard Business School. I have been in the investment business since and am a partner with a small firm here in Boston. I married my college sweetheart after we broke up for 13 years. We just celebrated our 3 year anniversary and are trying like hell to have kids or at least a kid. My dad is back in Ghana and my mom goes back and forth. I will send you a link to ofoto so you can see my wedding pics and other pics (Boston wedding and the Ghana traditional wedding). I am soooo happy. Please, please send me your tel and Zahida's tel pronto. Big hug!!

Yasmin Karim (1972)
WOW is all I can say to see the many many CJM girls replying to these emails. Its so wonderful to read about everyone and how you are all doing. My God I couldn¡¦t believe my eyes when I saw names like Lesley Middlecoat and Jean Carvalho¡K..I really had to delve into the archives of my aging mind. My name is in the emails as Yasmin Bell but its Yasmin Karim to all of you who knew me. We sure are all spread all over the world. I am in Western Australia in a town called Mandurah south of Perth. A wonderful place to be. While all of you are preparing for a cold or white Christmas I am getting ready for a HOT one. It¡¦s the beginning of summer here in Australia and we start our two month vacation in a couple of weeks (the kids and I that is). I am a Literacy specialist these days in a primary school so get great holidays!! I remember the midnight feasts we used to have and get that horrible guy (what was his name) who kept guard outside the parlour, to buy us goodies for the feast. In my senior Cambridge year we had planned a feast and as one of the girls (Samina ?) was walking down the ¡§golden steps¡¨ (remember those they always creaked when you didn¡¦t want them to) Sr Clotilda came along and Samina started to act like she was sleep walking and Clottie lead her right bck to her bed!!! It was so funny. The worst was the next day though when in the middle of studying Shakespeare with Mother Andrew she makes the comment about how she got this smell of coffee the night before and of course none of us wouldknow anything about it!!! We had used one of those electrical elements to heat up water and make coffee!!!! You are so right Lesley everytime I think of those wonderful days or read about them it brings a tear to my eye¡K.wish such time could have been captured in a bottle of something!! Keep writing girls love reading everyone¡¦s stories. (Some of you might remember Mehroon karim now Meher married to a Pakistani, living in dubai but moving to Islamabad soon).12-04-08 this is uzma masood from the 1977 batch with naila bhatti,syma jan,erum latif etc aneela nazir where are you? tahira please do make the effort and join the group-not too difficult to use the net. i remember selma khan ,who was with ayesha jan. and aliya khannum who was also with ayesha jan. well please feel free to contact me if you remember me. Dec 05 08

Lesley Middlecoat :
no no Khanu bara was at the parlor........in our time Yassie...............so good to catch up with you. And Frances the old man who used to take the mail to the post office..........in the 60's and 70's. Gals do you remember the man with the tin trunk...........with the pastries............and the bakery toffees...........? to die for. Nothing has ever tasted quite like it. Also who remembers Makhan....( with an extra thumb) who used to fill our hot water bottles? and our bath water........Gosh the nuns were preparing us for climate change...no water!!!!! Fatty Bara, Lips, Chaudhry ( grumpy) And Jelly Beans Baras have all passed away. only new staff...........but chu chu mally is still there......though very old. LOL, ps. I have added Havovi Pajnigara to this list. Im in touch with her.........after so many years!!!12-05-08

Lesley Middlecoat12-05
Hi Fatima, Would you like her e mail address? I joined in 1968 when Moira McKinley was head girl. I was in class 3. Mother Gertrude was Rev Mother. And I remember your name ........bet if I saw a picture of you I would place you. One always remembers the seniors..........but I can not remember the little ones from my last year at school.

Yasmin Karim:
Gosh Lesley you have a good memory. Boy do I remember all those beras especially Fatty and Lips how we used to try and bribe them to give us more food!! I also remember a gorgeous woman when we were in the senior dormitory who used to be so sweet and hep us with getting that one measley bucket of hot water for our baths¡Kwho was that horrible man who would boil the water and if you begged him he would toast your one slice of bread for you!!! My god the memories are coming flooding back in. We should get some of the nuns on this. Do you guys remember Sister Immaculata from the 70¡¦s. Well she is now Elaine Shelton and living in Melbourne. I am in touch with her. I think she is in touch with Sabreena who we used to call Pussy and Ghazala Nangiana!!! Come on girls who else remembers some stories from those days. I heard that after I left some naughty things started to happen with boys from Lawrence college climbing up drain pipes and the like¡Kofcourse that was after all us good girls left!!! Aneela Nazir Uzma, of course I remember you. I'm here in New Orleans. I'm in touch with Ayesha Jan. She's in Egypt nowadays. I'll forward this e-mail to her. How've you been? And where are you these days?

Fatima Hakeem
Hello everyone! Goodness Sakes!! This like taking a road trip back into time. I was really very scared of Makhan. he made me nervous every time I was near him. Fatty Bearer was kind and I remember him very well. Does anyone have the recipe for the absolutely "to die for" toffee?? It was truly a punishment when toffee was withheld due to some minor infraction we committed - which in retrospect I can't even remember what I must have done. And the pastries seem to be etched in everyones memory. The least favorite meal was some rice and daal combination and still had a stones in the rice and sometimes if you inadvertently chewed on the stone.........yuk! I still have an issue with rice sometimes from that old memory!! I have felt the back of a hairbrush on my legs from Sister Helena (that really stung in the winters!!). Sister Clothide was very kind to me and Mother Margaret Mary was a favorite with everyone. She danced very well and taught us the waltz and fox trot. Remember this was the time when TV was yet to reach Pakistan and the Convent!! Sister Mercedes taught us English with a great deal of discipline! Mrs. Walsh was our music teacher and had the end cottage in the teachers building. She taught me how to crotchet and always had a treat for us. When we practiced piano and some crazy hour in the morning, she would listen from her cottage and tell us at the next lesson that one note was incorrect in the second bar of a particular piece! There was even long distance monitoring going on. OK - I do remember the "midnight feast" - this used to involve smuggling food into the dorms and then going down to the assembly hall in the middle of the night to enjoy the feast of smuggled food with the heart rate up to critical levels in case we got caught. Going down the creaky steps from the dorms with a flashlight and whispering - stumbling over the steps to the stage in the assembly hall.................once we did get caught. Oh well.................Glad to read that the tradition continued after we left. Keep writing - it is a nice feeling of connectedness from a place that had such an impact on all of us.

Mado khan
i have to say I so enjoy reading all your stories. I was only in CJM for 6 months during 1966, just before I left to come to Uk where I live in Sheffield. I felt really isolated as I was 15 then and all the others had been there for a long time so I had problems fitting in. I did however visit again to show the convent to my daughter in 2001. Of course the convent had not changed but Murree had. The school seemed very derelict I have very vivid memories of my 6 months there. I remember a male maths teacher who had an immense dandruf problem. I cant remember the names of the sisters. I remember the sunsets, the playing fields, the dormitories, the tuck shops, the food Does anyone remember me?

Munaza Akhtar (now Shamshad): .Hi everyone, I was at the school from 1976 to 1982, (class of '82).Anyone reading this from that era I would love to hear from you.I live in Miami, Florida. Anyone else in the area?? (other than Fauzia)!

Nabila Maniya
I was at CJM from 1978-1982, Sr. Vienney was the Principal then. I so clearly remember Fatty Berra and Lambu Berra. The Trunk guy with cream rolls & other pastries. No one filled our hot water bottles. We had to make a bee line at the taps next to the class 9 dorms. I still remember washing my face the following morning with water from the hot water bottles the following morning and it distinctly smelled of rubber! The recipe was to boil a can of condensed milk for 4 hours.... and then enjoy! Couldn't tell you how to get it into tiny little cubes though! Oh, the midnight feasts! Hard to imagine there was a time when a couple of crackers and some chocolates would become an adventure! How about reading with a torch under the blanket? How daring was that? Sr. Mercedes would teach us Geography, Character Building and was a counselor and friend to so many of us. Sr. Clotilda (may God bless her) would manage the Infirmary and the dormitories,. Sr. Simon Peter taught us House Craft & Mother Craft. I am forgetting the name of the Sister who used to run the children's dormitories The sounds of Piano practice used to ring out at CJM? They were long gone when we got there. And since the Holidays are upon us...do you all remember making tiny paper lanterns and caroling down to the Teacher's Cottage in the frosty Murree evenings? Hoakie as it may sound, do the long corridors and turrets in the Harry Potter movies send you reminiscing about the stone facades, high ceilings and creaking floors of CJM? Did you ever skip the 2nd to last step in the attic near the children's dormitory because a girl had perished in a fire because she had run back to get her doll? Wow! It's been so long and the memories are flooding back like I was there yesterday!

sonia Farooq :
CHUCHU malee is definitely still there-at least till 92 he was. isnt he the same one who would run after the girls for stealing apples?? we always stole apples from the apple tress infront of the teachers cottage. They were yummy!! The lawrence college stories are true...the boys used to always follow the convent girls whenever we went for our walks to pindi point. One day sister Berchmans had the cops handcuff them and slapped them left right and center infront of all the girls! Once, at night, they snuck into the school, brought Marys statue from the chappel to the middle of the flat and did bhangra around it!!! however, after sister berchmans' slaps, things did slow down. ive heard they had ballroom dancing in Sams on the mall in the 60s and 70s..is that true?

Amber Rashid
Hiya all....i was in school from 1971 to 1977.my name then was Ambereen Rashid...now Gilani is added...its great meeting u all....new old...its all the same.Murree was and always will be an inherant part of my soul.i replay diff videos in my mind...it whizzed by so fast.our sisterhood should grow and prosper coz its not based on any false stuff...the only pull is love and a shared childhood,which only we understand. I got a call from Sister Andrew today...she was concerned coz i live in Peshawar and its nowadays the eye of the storm....there was a bomb yesterday.i hv been in touch with her all these years.she has been like a mother to me.shes now in Toba Tek Singh. Sister Clotilda is no more...neither is the school the way we knew it...but we have to keep them alive in our memories....so get cracking girls and keep in touch.this life is hard... with shared laughter and support we can pull through ... cheers,

Yasmin
Hi Amber I guess you were a little one when I graduated in 1972. I remember Sr Andrew so fondly as she was also like a mother and friend to me too. Please when you speak to her next tell her about these emails going back and forth and how all us murree girls remember so so much. Tell her that Yasmin Karim has never forgotten her even after all these years. By the way where is Toba Tek Singh? (Pardon my ignorance). I worry for you in Peshawar and the danger you may be in¡Kit seems to be scary in almost every part of the world these days. Here in Australia so far we have been blessed and not yet targeted but I can tell you the ¡§white¡¨ people grow more and more suspicious of anyone they consider to look like a ¡§muslim¡¨. Only today I was talking to a girlfriend of mine and told her not to make any judgements just because they have their heads covered or have dark features. Its so sad. We were so protected in Murree and I guess that¡¦s why we all remember the palce so fondly even though those ¡§cuts¡¨ we would get on our knuckles with the ruler were painful.

Aneela Nazir
I was at cjm in 1980 when my dad was a diplomat in Islamabad from Ghana, west Africa. I have so many treasured memories from the rubber smell of the hot water bottle water to sister simon peters disapproving frown when she caught me putting a spoon of hot chocolate powder in my mouth rather than in my cup. I learned finally how to shake my neck for the annual traditional dance show deal and still hear every morning "vake up vake up" from the lady who walked around the dorm in the morning. If you remember me please write. I live in Boston now. My memory of names is fuzzy but I remember zahida rashid, ume umara, sabia, sonia, Beverly and her best friend and so many faces of dear friends whose names escape me. Drop me a line Catherine Fadis Huh! never thought of that..should've washed my face with the water from hot water bottles because that was definetly warmer! Ambreen Rashid I remember you! we met at Ayesha Jan's house a decade ago! How's your cousin Samar doing?

Yasmin (1972) You know girls/ladies its so funny but I think Mother Andrew made her exit from Murree so many many times. Twice in the nine years I was there. And every farewell was a teary and heart wrenching one. I wonder if she ever thinks of all those days. I remember the farewell we gave her Yasmin Bokhari (I think) sang ¡§To Sir with Love¡¨ oh it was so sad everyone in the place howled!! While compiling a book may seem like a daunting task, we could begin our chronicles by posting stories & pictures on the CJM website. Sr. Andrews or Mother Andrew, as she was called when I started, looks so young here. I started in class 7, 1978. She was the outgoing Principal and Sr. Vienney the incoming one. I saw the heart-wrenching good-byes between her and the students, especially the Seniors. I knew I was going to miss out on knowing someone very special. My 5 yrs at CJM were filled with stories of what an amazing & dynamic person she was.

Nabila Afroze (1978-1982):Hi there Captain! Wasn't it awesome to carry the flag on the parades! Do the House Charge & run the school for a month. But with the power came the responsibility. Supervising the study hall, talking to house girls if they got Pink cards (specially the usual suspects), motivating the teams etc. Once I got called to the Kindergarten class because one of the girls had had an "accident", poor girl had peed in her pants. I had to go to get the Ayah to take the embarrassed little kid to the dormitory to get changed. Then get the guy to clean up the mess in the class room, all during my own classes that were going on. But it did teach me leadership. I went onto become the Sports Head for the Students Council at St. Joseph's College, Karachi. Do you have some nuggets to share?

Yasmin Karim (1972)Pink Cards and Blue cards¡K.wow I had forgotten all about them!!! Happy to say I was the recipient of a blue card..once I think. I remember standing in line at assembly in the hall and God forbid if you so much as looked or spoke to another person¡Kboy did we learn self discipline¡Kkids of today don¡¦t know the meaning of that do they.

Lesley Middlecoat:Yassie it must of been Saba Bokhari. she was the singer!!!! Im in touch with Nadia Khalid Waheed................remember the five sisters???? Yasmin Bokhari works for a bank in Dubai......and is presently performing Hajj.

Sunniya ( from Manila) Hi Nabila, this is Sunniya Durrani( now Durrani-Jamal). from the class of '83. I took over from you as Captain of Courtesy. Sister Cornellius used to manage the baby Dormitories. Remember Sister Alice ( her second in Command?), and the Langerie where we girls would sit and take out each others boochiees ( head lice...). I think they used to dust the culprits hair with DDT in those days. Remember the monkies that would descend into the dormitories from ventilators and creat havoc with our jugs and basins, not to mention the cornstarched bedcovers!. My favourite and most funny memory is being totally in awe of the rather LARGE underpants of Sister Cornellius on the clothes line. I used to love playing on the swing ( with metal handles) near the little park down by the driveway ( what was it called?)/ Does anyone remember Miss Uzma our Urdu teacher who used to raise her middle finger when asking someone to stand up and couldn't figure out why we would burst out laughing. Sister Clotilda and a french canadian nun ( I foget her name), were my favourite because they were very kind. Sister Simon peter still gives me the chills ( but I have never forgotton how to make blacmange and I owe my time management skills to Housecraft!). The fauzia in your class was Fauzia Siddique , wasn't she?

selma, edinburgh:Hi folks.... what can I say! Such a great response to my feeble question of ...' what chance a reunion?' S0, should i dust down my passport for 09, or 2010? Even if I don't it has been so great just reading all of this. A book, too? wow, but yes, putting more info up on a site would be a great idea...but what of you Sonia...we surely can't just dump that on you!! I had though of some 'writing', and had already started to edit down all the info floating about (sorry, such a bad habit, after years of green papers, white papers,committee, board papers!!!!!!!) But just for myself you understand. Sad to say though, doesn't appear to be a soul from my own times or years!! Think my years were...61,62, and 63(final year) ...my mother had just passed away here in edinburgh and rather quickly, i found myself, thousands of miles away....I blame that for my slight vagueness about the dates. But,thanks to all of you, names and memories flooding back. it was only many years later (marriage, life in east pakistan, then bangladesh,) that i came back to edinburgh...me, husband my four sons. But in my wonderful time, i remember Mothers..Berchmans, Mercedes and Augusta...think she was French Canadian...but she taught me French. Ofcourse Sister Clothilda.(when did the change take place..i.e from Mother to 'Sister'.) I think the Mother Superior when I got there was called..'..Mother Loyola'. Was there ever a Mother called Maria Goretti? Who took over when Mother Loyola left....would that have been Mother Gertrude? Something tells me i should remember Fatti Bera, and Mrs Walsh? Welsh? the music teacher. Luke warm baths, and yes, someone selling(??) wonderful cakes and pastries from a tin trunk? think so!! and v warm nights and the rubmle of the tin roofs when there were earth tremors. Sad to say though, everyone seems to have been stealing those apples, myself included... severly punished i seem to remember, i.e stripped of head girl status. Going thru my memories again, i think i am still looking for a few names: jennifer bailey (think she ended up outside london, in rickmansworth) sandra?? carroll....australian with irish parentage cynthia diaz..??came from either lahore or karachi?? jean baptie??? came from 'Pindi??? seem to remember some american girl there for a while?? but the name escapes me two sister lived in tak-ti-bhai???...nwfp...sorry, spelling's bound to be wrong!...father scottish, mother english, had lived in the west indes....possibly edna tyczak waheeda, rabia, ismet or izmet, bilqis, gulnar, nagina, zara, talat.... so any help in tracking down some 'oldies' from my time would be greatly appreciated. (I am playing this tape in my head even as I type...I can see us walking out in full uniform on what..??...sunday walks...? snaking thru some trails...whispering forests......stony pathways....steep hillsides....clear blue skies thru the tree tops....) ,

Uzma Masood ( Abbasi ) 1973-1977Excellent idea -Let us all write down the stories we remember and put up the pictures too from yester years.. we should also put up our pictures of when we were in school so that everyone can identify us-as it has really been long and people have forgotten-they just need to hve their memories refreshed.

Gail Allman : Hello Selma and everyone on this fantastic list that has been created. It is so good to go down memory lane and talk about our childhood and school days at CJM. Charmaine (my sister) and I frequently re-call our days there and tell our nephews of our stories from the past. What we got up to, the nuns that were there and the friends we made! They always ask us to tell them more.. So we must have had fun. I understand you, Selma, would have left before Charmaine and myself joined the school, we started in 1969 and left in 1971 when the war between India and Pakistan began. However, you are right in thinking the nuns were called Mother, I remember Mother Goretti as well as Mother Gertrude. They changed their titles to Sister somewhere in this period. Sister Andrews is name I will never forget, she was in our train compartment when I first went up to the school. All of us huddled in one train car like sardines. Does anyone remember anyone from the years 1969 - 1971, ages then 7 - 10? Of course I do remember a lot of seniors, like Lesley Middlecoat (hope you are well), great picture of you that you sent the other day. You look great! Your right, our parents lived in Kuwait, they moved from Karachi, and when we left the school in November 71, in December that year we too left Karachi and went home to Mum and Dad in Kuwait. We now all live in Bedfordshire, England. Someone spoke about the toffee, well Charmaine is a great chef, she has made toffee that I think is very close to the school toffee, but she herself says that it is not the same, and if anyone has the recipe she would like to have a copy please. I know we have a few photographs (black & white) at the school and as soon as I can dig them out, I will post them on Live Spaces (still trying to build on it at the moment). Girls, keep this going, it is so good to be in contact again. Let me know if anyone remembers Valerie Horne (still no mention of her).

Nabila Maniya: remember the 5 sisters! (atleast 2 of them) Ayesha Khalid (A.K.W.) Waheed was in our class, Captain of Endeavour. Sherry Khalid Waheed was a year ahead of us. I hear she's settled in Islamabad. In our times there were no head girls. But I heard all of the older sisters had been head girls. I remember the day we got news that Z.A Bhutto had been hanged. He had been a personal friend of theirs. I remember how shook up Ayesha was. It was so sad. The other sisters I remember were Noor Jehan's (the famous singer) & actor Ijaz's daughters: Hina Ijaz, Shazia and I just forgot the youngest's name. She was a year junior to me.

Munazza shamshad: The youngest was Nazia.I think she is in Lahore.

Nabila Maniya: You know, we Convent girls are sooo similar. We even talk the same, use the same lingo: "Paraphernalia, Confiscate, ninkumpoop".....and so many more. My cousin in Karachi went to CJM, Karachi. So every time I visited, I met a few of her friends from school. When I finished my Senior Cambridge, I started St. Joseph's College in Karachi. I kid you not, I met these 6 girls from the Karachi Convent and by the end of the day, it felt like I had known them for years! We totally clicked! I thought I'd never get over Murree EVER! But we've been inseparable ever since. We even had a reunion in Toronto, this July. We got married within 1-2 years of each other, our kids are the same ages and are totally in touch even though some of us are in karachi, Chicago, Australia... We can talk about Sr. Mercedes, Mother Bergman, Mother Andrew etc. but not of dormitories and meals. I went to the Karachi Convent to visit Sr. Vienney, Sr. Mercedes and others, actually into the Nun's quarters upstairs!! Can you imagine!!, through the "Parlour" (ours is so much more distinguished looking) ;) So while our comraderie is not as strong as the CJM Murree girls, its still there. Anyway, one of the Karachi Convent girls knew Ayesha Khalid Waheed from Cambridge University where they both did their Bachelors, talk about a small world. The girl's name is Sadia Khan (now Sadia Mohammad). She told me Ayesha got married to a german guy, I think. Will try to get her email, if she's still in touch.

Arlene Geddes: Gwen Middlecoat lives in the U.K. Parveen [Khanzada] now Azam Khan lives in Peshawar and her sister Kishwa lives there also. Naseem Durrani also lives in Peshawar. I heared last that Naseem Aslam was teaching Piano at the J&M Lahore. My name is Arlene Geddes, but my maiden name was Cooper. Class of 54.

Yasmin: remember when we had Pinkie Bhutto (Benazir I think) at the convent for a short while and we were all so impressed that she was the daughter of a famous person. There was also a girl who was the granddaughter of President Ayub¡K..Irshat Auranzeb I sort of think..dont remember her name that well but remember the person. She ended up marrying a guy that my sister had been dating in London (it was an arranged marriage) and what a shock we got when we discovered whom he had married!! Sonia I have some great photos of some girls who did the Shakespeare play ¡§Macbeth¡¨ one year (early 70¡¦s) I must send them to you. In a couple of weeks I will be on school vacation so I will send you heaps them¡K¡K Saba you will have a good laugh at them. It is so wonderful to see how spread across the world you all are and gradutates form so many different years. I was feeling like the oldie for a while there but it was great to see emails from even older graduates¡absolutely wonderful..I wonder how far back we can go. From our era does anyone remember Windifred and May (cant remember their surnames. And that crazy girl Mary Lou Pereira¡.oh gosh she sure was forward or us innocent CJM girls!!! Lol Aneela...class of '76 That was May and Winifred Tate. May married a man from Indonesia, I believe and moved to England.

amber gillani: Do u all remember the evening angeles bell?how in the dusk it would gong and we would all be still?evening is a holy time and it was such a lovely feeling...like being in tune with creation...and the islamabad lights blinking sleepily while we gazed forlornly at them..the chill and the dusky amber lights across the horizon added to the lonliness and the nip in the air was the ultimate icing on the cake.did any of u ever hear the flute being played down in the valley?it was almost magical....dunno if that was real of just a fleeting figment of my imagination .and the tree on the flat...abundant...like a generous mother...the leaves would create their own symphony on a lovely breezy day....sad that all that is no more.yet it all lives within us.look at where each is...some(not me)in places way lovlier than murree yet that was somthing special.it was childhood..a magical time...where memory is just played back in music.... happy eid girls...

uzma Masood 1977: It is so true that we CJM girls can meet at any time of our life and start from where we left off - and when we meet a CJM ex student ,we just connect-it is like a family thing .I have had similar experiences,met people got talking clicked with them,later to find out that they were from CJM.Please everyone connect to facebook.Getting Geethi to join too.please add me from Leslie's account or Ayesha Jans.i did send out invitations to all mentioning CJM but no one added me. Ayubs other granddaughters were tania ayub,zeenat ayub ,they were very junior to us. i remember Tasneem Bhutto,i found her to be so reserved and poised and soft spoken.She was Mumtaz Bhuttos daughter. I think our class may have taken part as extras in Macbeth.please do post the pictures.it would be lovely to see them. After Laila left they did not have head girls anymore. Sherry Khalid is married to Chuahary Nisar ,who is in politics these days. Tina was the youngest of Noor Jehan's daughters:

Kathleen Athans nee Manuel: Anyone around from the class of ¡¦80? Pls respond.

Nabila Maniya: Is this Kathy Manuel? Elizabeth & Beverly's older sister? Hey, I was in Elizabeth's (am I even saying her name right) class of 1982. Please can you give me her email address. She will know me as Nabila Afroze. I knew Beverly briefly in Karachi for 2 yrs or so. Her son Danial and my son Akbar used to play together at Bonvista apartments

Nabila: If knowledge is power, then CJM taught us to use all its might. I think if I had not gone to CJM, I would have lead a life of leisure and been very spoiled since I am an only child. The Convent taught me the value of money, how to be happy living a spartan life, have boundaries, be independent at an early age, learn to live with people you don't like ( a skill that serves me so well till this day) and the list goes on.

Lesley Ann Middlecoat CLASS OF 75
Hi Saba & Pussy ( Sabrina Hayat) & all CJM gals, Good to hear from you. where are you based Saba? I'm in Karachi & would love to meet up again. Pussy send me your contact number and I will call when next in Islamabad. I work for HUBCO and look after both HR and Public relations for the company. Been here over 8 years!!!! Lov to Gazala.........& u and your bachas. girls im on Face Book........please joing us...its so easy and a great way to stay in touch. Girls I believe I was blessed to have attended this particular school!!!! being an only child and loosing my father in the 71 war..........gave me all the more reasons for loving it.So no I don't think I missed out on anything worth trading places for!!!!! I did my A leavels at the Karachi Grammar school and loved that too. I really have no regrets!!!! Just spoke to Farzana Dossa...........trying to get her to join us on line. She was in my year 1975 . Lov to you all, Cheers

Catherine Faddis:
I just got hold of Beverly manuel hyatt let me know if anyone wants her email

Selma Rehman:
Hi folks, just re read some of this, from an earlier email and there was the question ive heard they had ballroom dancing in Sams on the mall in the 60s and 70s..is that true? and yes, i was told (in my heady days '60-'62) that there was dancing in sams.....but never got to go there when there was any action. i was taken into the said den of vice ....and told...'there's dancing here on some occassions,'. I'm still not too sure what was an 'occassion'....a tea dance? but at the weekend in the convent, there was music played loudly via ??? the library, and we'd all dance about under that huge tree which is no longer there........who needed sams? (and I have already shared my memory of mother berhmans dancing down the upstairs corridor the night she learnt she was going home to ireland for her first visit in a long, long time.....so yeah.....sams, spams....) there was a flea ridden cinema that i visited...legally ......when on days out with family..... very daringly i saw The Nun's Story (forbidden love) and had to come back and give everyone a full description of what happened .......if anyone has seen the film, then you will know it's more a case of what didn't happen. i also remember a visit to a hairdreser with instruments of torture in full view..perm rollers and driers.................. had mother berchmans allowed it, i would have worn a hat or beret for the next 3 months following my visit to that hairdresser. she did not allow it, and i did not wear my beret 24 hours a day. i also suspect dear sister clothilda made sneak visits at night to ensure that i wasn;t wearing my beret in bed. in those days, there was also the issue of censorship of the books in the library, and ofcourse, magazines coming into the convent. on one occassion whilst out for a day or long weekend or whatever, i read the times or newsweek, (not allowed inside the convent in my time) and sae an article about vast numbers babies being born without limbs; distorted limbs...physical disability. I got back to the convent, told all and sundry and was roundly derided as 'liar-liar-pants on fire'. i could not remember, spell or pronounce the name of the drug concerned.... thalidomide ???????????? but eventually the sad story did become more widely known. and book censorship...pages ripped out in neville shute's ...on the beach......again if anyone has read it, and i did asap after leaving murree, i think there is just one ref in it that would have required 'censorship'. so..........another few memories!!!!!!!!!

Nabila Maniya;
I remember going to Sam's for coffee. Once day I was there with my uncle and went to use the toilet. There was door on the side that was partially open. I went in and saw the ballroom with dusty tables and an old, scratched, wooden dance floor. I could imagine that room in its full glory with a shiny dark wood dance floor and tables with fine linen, pretty delicate women with coiffed hair in saris and jewelry dancing against a back drop of this tiny little hamlet with flickering lights.

Yasmin Karim (1972):
Talking about censorship Selma¡K.I wonder if anyone from the late sixties early seventies remembers when we went through the craze of reading James Hadley Chase books and The Saint books¡Kthey were passed from girl to girl but never ever were any of us seen reading them¡Kwhy you aks?...because we only read them under the covers by torchlight¡KI still get excited reading a book by torchlight!!!!

Yasmin:
Hi Pussy!!!!!!!! Its been so so long¡Kand I miss you so so much. I had tears in my eyes when I saw your message¡K.how we are all spread across the world and yet never forget our cjm sisters. Mehroon goes often to Islamabad as her husband lives there (don¡¦t ask!) and she hopes to move there fairly soon too. You and Ghazali on a farm together my god I cant believe you two are still together¡K¡KI¡¦m going to beat you in sending Sonia some Macbeth photos!!!! Peggy Mcgill: I have just read an email from Selma Rahman. She thought that she might be the oldest CJM graduate on line. I think that I might have replaced her as I am still on line. I graduated in 1937 having spent nearly 10 years at school there. When I first started there ther was no electricity or running water. We used large kerosine lamps in the classrooms and smaller ones elsewhere. The water had to be carried from the few taps that were situated along the paths (then called roads)..around Pindi Point and the mall. there were no proper roads beyond the bottom of the mall. We had to walk from there which was a long way. We wore uniforms then which were not as attractive as the clothes worn now. We were a very close group and had lots of fun. We did have midnight feasts. Over the years I have lost touch with all those girls. I am still active and use the computer a lot. At present I am writing a book about my life which keeps me interested. I would find it very differcult to do this without a computer. A reunion sounds like a good idea for the " young Oldies". However I feel sure that there would not be anyone there that I would know. You have done a great job of bringing so many of the old girls together. They all seem to appreciate it. I am sure that you must feel pleased when you read the enormous number of email resulting from your work.

Yasmin Karim: Well here it is Sonia you wanted pics and you got pics!!! I have many more. Many of you from 1971/72 will have a huge laugh at these. Remember the school picnics. Some of you should remember a beautiful nun called Sr Francis. She was Irish and I fell in love with her. I have so many of her. We kept in touch for years and then she fell very ill. I believe she died sometime last year and I only found out months later. She is the one playing the guitar. She taught us so many songs. Saba you will laugh at the Macbeth photo and the picnic one¡Kall that hair!. Girls from other years will remember Ayubia I think it was a yearly excursion for some years for the Seniors. Oh and school picnics on the khudside with all the goodies in those baskets¡K Oh Lesley a good one of you and me looking so angelic!!! Little did they know!! LOL Enjoy everyone.

Nilofer Qayoom: HELLO ALL OPENED MY MAIL AFTER AGES, AND WAS THRILLED TO HEAR FROM SO MANY EX CJM STUDENTS..BELIEVE ME GIRLS THOSE WERE THE BEST YEARS OF MY LIFE & I WISH WE COULD GO BACK IN TIME AND LIVE THEM ONCE MORE. SOME YEARS AGO I TOOK MY KIDS THERE, MET SR. CLOTILDA & SR.MERCEDES, THEY REMEMBERED ME(NEVER FORGET DO THEY)..MY KIDS FELL IN LOVE WITH THE SCHOOL AND WANTED ME TO LET THEM STUDY THERE...BY THE WAY THIS IS NILOFER QAYOOM, CLASS OF 1976..DO YOU GUYS REMEMBER CRAZY MEENU DURRANI & SHAHNAZ MINALLAH? HAVE BEEN IN TOUCH WITH SHAHNAZ & LESLEY THROUGHOUT MY LIFE, & SHE IS MORE THAN A SISTER TO ME AND A MOTHER TO MY KIDZS..WE ALL LOVE YOU LES. .I REMEMBER SO MANY OF YOU, YASMEEN & MEHROON, SABA & YASMEEN, ANEELA OFCOURSE I REMEMBER YOU..HAVE ALOT OF CONVENT PICTURES WHICH I MUST LOOK FOR..SOMEONE ASKED ABOUT MARYLOU PEREIRA, WELL SHE IS IN KARACHI & MARRIED TO LEON MENEZES, A WONDERFUL GUY..USED TO BE IN TOUCH WITH HER AS WE WERE NEIGHBOURS FOR MANY YEARS...SANDRA HAYJAHAN IS IN CANADA, MARRIED AND HAS 4 KIDZ... SAIRA IRSHAD'S DAUGHTER & MY DAUGHTER R BEST FRIENDS, TOGETHER FROM NURSERY AT GRAMMAR SCHOOL..SAIRA STILL LOOKING AS GORGEOUS AS EVER. I REMEMBER ONE WOULD EAT ANYTHING IN SCHOOL, I WAS LUCKY AS LES NEVER ATE EGGS OR CHICKEN, SO I HAD DOUBLE SHARE ON THOSE DAYS...USED TO PUT RED CHILLY POWDER ON BREAD AND IT WAS DELICIOUS, ALSO BREAD WITH CONDENSED MILK....AND ALL THOSE CARDS WE USED TO DRAW FOR EACH OTHER ON BIRTHDAYS..MEENU DURRANI THE RICHI RICHI PROVIDED LOTS OF CHOCOLATES WHICH I RELISHED..WONDER IF ANY OF YOU REMEMBER, MY DAD WOULD SEND HUGE BASKETS OF LEECHEES ALL THE WAY FROM SYLHET AND WE ALL HAD A FEAST.. LES & ME LOVED TO DANCE AND WE WOULD DANCE WITH THE SENIORS...ISHRAT, DONIA & OTHERS. LISTEN, I NEED TO DO SOME WORK, SO WILL CATCH YOU ALL AGAIN..ALL OF YOU WHO R IN PAKISTAN, LETS MEET UP SOMEWHERE SOON..

Aneela: Nilofer, do you remeber when, i think it was in class seven--you, me and Saadia Zarif were caught pleading with the pakora man to give us pakoras at pindi point and the next day at assembly we got our infamous pink cards! I also visited the convent a few years ago and my daughter thought it was absolutely wonderful.....straight out of a story book! I haven't heard from Sandra Hay (My vice-captain for Courtesy House) in years. Last time I met her was at Sonia Jamal's house in Lahore---ages ago! do you have her e-mail address or maybe you could just forward this...four kids, wow! Lots of love to you, Aneela

Mary Manuel: Hi Nabila, This is Mary Manuel (not Elizabeth!) . We used to be the best of pals at CJM. I think our house was "Service". And we did meet approximately fourteen years ago while I was visiting my younger sister in Karachi. At that time, your little boy, Akbar was an adorable toddler! Does anyone have contact with my other good buddy.....her name was Rubina, but everyone just called her Fatty? She was from the Peshawar area and was excellent at sports....especially vollyball. Also: is this the same Fauzia Siddiqui (from the USA) who used to write absolutely beautiful poetry? I'm in contact with Natasha Nasarulla if anyone is interested in her e-mail address....she lives in Australia. And so do her cousins, Kathy and Mona Carapiet. Well, three of the four Manuel girls (Kathleen/Mary/Julianne) have settled in California, USA. The youngest, Beverly Manuel aka Umber Hyatt, still resides in Karachi with her three kids and hubby, Rohail Hyatt.

Mary Manuel LeCompte Hi Lesley (Middlecoat), I used to fly with you for British Air....you loved wearing yellow bows in your hair (very pretty!) One time after a very early flight back to Karachi , you took me out for some parathas and halva....delicious at two in the morning. Ambreen Rashid Gilani: hello thr girls...just wanted a lil nudge on my erratic memory with a lil help frm u all....does anyone remember the big feast and the small feast?i think the big feast was the one which had some coupons and we did what with them...search me...think bought school toffee etc ...i was very young.and the other feast was on till boarding school finished...maybe it was always called fancy fair...not small feast.and the school feast...yes on the 21st of june.where tradition required that seniors wear saris...i had my mom buy me a new one...didnt want her hand me downs...it was such a proud moment when she did.now girls get whatever they want so easily.the charm is lost. and the lazy long drawn sundays of our time...the day used to drag on and on and on...and the music on that medieval gizmo...how we loved it.we would dance ..and have fun.now if u do...they brand u...the world has become more intelerant hasnt it? and does anyone recall the school picnics?where as soon as we sat in the bus we said a lil prayer and then 'OLE MACDONALD,MY BONY LIES OVER THE OCEAN'.......sigh...what innocence.i would polish off my picnic lunch in the bus then would be hungry all day.we went to such remote places...close by but very private...maybe murree was just less crowded then.what magic....and the rambles,the walks,the games,the aftr supper walks...so seriously we lived our little lives...all so vague and misty now.plz send pics...so my memory gets tickled back. happy sunday....;)

Nabila Maniya; Do you guys remember going to NASDAQ cinema in Islamabad, in the Convent's white van to watch movies? We used to look forward to that little taste of the outside world. I remember the Character Building classes with Sr. Mercedes that were held out doors in the mellow sunshine. Also the Art classes conducted outdoors. We would pick a pine cone or a daisy to draw. The place was so serene. In Spring, the slope going down to the Hockey field used to be covered with white daisies. The cottage (I forget the name) at the end of field would have such pretty wild flowers like Butter-cups and Lady Ann's Lace. In our senior year, we were going to dissect a rabbit. First, when we were trying to use some chlorofoam (sp?)to put it out, it escaped on the little hill near the back corridor, near the kitchen. We had to chase it around the hill, until we caught it after 30 min or so. Finally we put it into the whole tin of chlorofoam. Any way, long story short, after the dissection, we buried it near that cottage and said a little prayer for the innocent little thing who was sacrificed in the name of science!

Catherine Faddis: Hello all: If anyone knows the whereabouts of Michelle Braganza or her sister Sabrina, please let me know or forward my info to her. Since I have the floor, let me share with you my silly memories from CJM, which was such a lovely time in my life. Coming from Ghana, not to mention two years in the cloistered diplomatic circles of Islamabad it was my first real opportunity to understand Pakistani culture at a deep level. So here goes. The 10 things I will never forget about CJM: 10. Watching one of the visiting nus (she was wheelchair bound) read Mills and Boon romance novels all day long 9. Learning to enjoy paan 8. The wonderful roasted corn on the cob rubbed with lemon, salt, and red pepper 7. Putting red pepper on potato chips. Eating street food -- Samosas! 6. Watching girls cleanse for evening prayer by touching wood. 5. Crowding in a room for the one hour a week TV treat -- CHIPS! 4. Compulsary use of a fountain pen. 3. Using our hair to clean excess ink from the pen. 2. Referring to ourselves as girls. As in, "girls, its time to go now". 1. The first day of school. Being surrounded with girls rubbing my skin to see if the color would rub off.

Yasmin: Hi Catherine, I knew a Pat Braganza and a Winnie Braganza were they any relatives? Pat is married to a distant cousin of mine and living in Perth Western Australia the last I heard. She was a senior when I joined the CJM in 1965/66. AmnaShah: hi girls...its absolutely wonderful to read all these mails..i still havent gone through all of them as i am out of station..yasmin karim thanks for the lovely pics..btw im the one with the short hair and jeans in the group pic of class of '72.. love to all..amna shah cjm'72. Hi Amna, my god I couldn't believe you are still alive in this crazy world. I thought it was yo in the photo but couldn't quite remember your last name!!! Didn't we look funny in those days...but I remember so well those cold mornings sitting at the back of the library and studying for our pending exams in which I didn't do that well I might say!!! So great to hear from you. Come on anymore gals from the graduating year of 1972 how about making contact and filling in the blanks in the photo as I couldn't remember everyone's name.

Yasmin Karim (1972) CJM forever!! Hi Selma, I'm Salma Saranjam, class of '69. I remember you and the Scottish dance you used to do. Sandra Aziz is in Canada, I could probably get an address for you. When I last met her she was living in Ottawa but I do have some friends here in Toronto that are in touch with her. Take care, Salma from

selma in edinburgh: Everyone...........What can I say, FINALLY...see below and marvel!!!! I did...the power of the internet and communications.... finally someone from my era....i was seriously worried that i had imagined my years in Murree.......and that i was possibly gate crashing your memories!!! (only joking!) but Salma Ataullahjan.....thank you so much for sending this.....and if Sandra Aziz would also like to join the email allumni....i think that would be wonderful..... I think if i understand you correctly,Salma, that by saying class of 69, you graduated in 69...making you a bit younger than sandra and i............ the fact that you remember my 'dancing' is somewhat worrying..................very few people see my 'dancing'.....and to have impinged itself on your 'young' mind like that: definitely worrying!!! Cos it's C'mas here, am surrounded by carols and the like.........and thus, another 'memory'.... we thought we were the first to sing 'we three goondas from bhori bazaar'...to the tune of 'we three kings...'...................now that was truly risquee in my time!! thank you again salma......and regards to all....from a cold and windy edinburgh

AMNA HAMID: yasmin.. great to be in touch..im adding more of the 72 batch and some other girls to the mailing list.. lubna shah..samina hatimali..zarmina durrani(tinas younger sister) maria anwar...nadi(whose name was ismat khursheed)and kishwar saadullah... love amna

SABRINA HAYAT-How many of you remember the expresso coffee we used to make furiously beating the mixture in the cup under the table the moment the nuns were at a distance. Once I cant quite remember who it was,I think it was Faiza Syed ,not sure now, but the bottom of her cup came out and she was quite petrified coz we wernt allowed to make expresso coz invariably the bottoms would fall out (cheap quality). Well anyhow I came up with a solution and we waied till the hall was empty. Then I took the other half of the cup and threw it down on the floor to break it completely and not have such a tell tale shape. Lo and behold nothing happened to the wretched cup, so i DID IT AGAIN. Little did I know but two nuns were standing just outside. They never came in at the first crash coz they thought " oh one of the behras broke something" but at the second crash they came running in to catch us red handed.

Sabrina Hyat ( Class of 73) Ghazala Nangiana and myself just came back from a wedding. We met Lubna Shah and marias daughter there. Later we met Kishwar

Gail:Hi Yasmin You probably don't remember me, I guess I was much younger than you guys or so it seemed like it back in those days, today I'm not so sure, you really would probably be no more than 3 or 4 years older than me. I do vaguely remember a lot of you, as well Mehroon, can't picture the face now though. Lesley Middlecoat looks great in a recent photograph that was sent. I also remember the names Dunia and and definitely Mary Lou. These were some of my idols if you like when I was in school. I left Murree with my sister Charmaine who is four years old than me, and we left in 1971 (not graduated then), I was in Class 4 aged 10 at the time. It's lovely reading emails from all of you, brings back memories of days and years gone by although I have never forgotten them, somehow they seem to have a lasting memory of my time there and we regularly talk about our experiences at the school to our friends and family. Next time Charmaine talks to Jean Carlvahlo, I will let her know you guys are on line, she lives here in the UK too. I would still like news of Valerie Horne and Sally Ann Jones if anyone remembers them (Class 4, 1971). Very best wishes for the New Year.

Lesley Middlecoat class of 75.Gail if I remember correctly its Sally Ann Baker you are looking for and not Sally Ann Jones. She was a cousin of Jean Ferguson both of whom used to live in Sylhet ( tea gardens) in then East Pakistan. after the 71 war they did not come back to school. try a search on the net!!! good luck. HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL YOU LADIES................HOPE THIS YEAR BRINGS PEACE TO OUR WORLD......... AND MOST SPECIALLY TO PAKISTAN.......where all of us grew up and many of us still live. Cheers,

Nabila Maniya: That is so true! I remember the day clearly, in 1978, I was 12, just starting class 7. My mother had just left me in Sr. Mercedes' care and I was devastated and crying. She said remember this day child, your first at CJM, and how you are crying right now. This is how you will be crying on your last day with us. I felt such resentment and thought, she doesn't know how I am feeling and how can she say that! Fast forward to Dec. 1982 and boy did those words hit home! Done with Senior Cambridge, we felt such a void in our lives. What would we do now? Where do we go from here? But life goes on. Actually it flies by and here we are welcoming 2009. But what is great is this link to the past, this deep bond and connection of "been there, done that". I am thankful to everyone for sharing long lost stories and memories and feelings. May 2009 bring peace and stability to everyone's lives. Ameen.

Munaza Akhtar (Shamshad), Class of 1982Well said Nabila.I think we all share that experience. I remember standing on the flat and looking onto the Islamabad lights in the evening and longing to be back in the 'plains' with my family when I initially got there in 1977.However leaving school in 1982 was one of the most painful experiences in my life. I spent the next year feeling lost, confused and depressed and constantly living in memories of CJM.It's amazing how that place grabbed onto our hearts and has never let go. I don't think I ever want to go back to Murree again as I want to just remember it like it was. Wishing all my CJM sisters a very Happy New Year and peace and joy in the year ahead.love,

Aneela class of '76 I took it a step further: after I graduated in 1976, I went back to CJM and spent a week there. I just needed that closure. It felt weird not being a student there anymore but that was my family and I just needed to go back one more time.

Yasmin Karim (1972)For those of you who went from Karachi to Murree¡Keach year on exactly the 10th march I remember getting on the train with our steel trunks and that huge odd looking bedding roll, piling into compartments and the scenes of kids crying and not wanting to leave their parents. I so clearly remember every year Mehroon not wanting to go but I somehow looked forward to it all!!!! Those dusty days of travelling no windows and dust everywhere. The sellers at the different stations¡Kcan¡¦t remember how many days its took about two I think and then every 10th December doing it all again only this time looking forward to seeing our parents.


selma edinburgh Wow, what a memory..............i do remember that now.....and singing on the return, homeward journey in december. i now remember one March that the weather - snow - lying on the ground, all banked up and very deep - was so severe, we couldn't go into CJM the normal way...main pathways, up the main flight of steps. we had to wait till the berras had made a pathway down the side of a hill. they took the trunks and bedding rolls, then came back to help us....all their slipping and sliding with the baggage, trunks etc had beaten the snow down even more. a new teacher had accompanied us that year out of karachi (61-62?)...i think i have seen her name mentioned...a music teacher...mrs walsh? welsh? ..but since i had two left feet, and no musical abilities whatso ever...so ofcourse, karioke was invented for me personally...i never had much to do with her as a teacher. Once grown up and back in scotland, eventually, i opened the first ever information-resource centre for (other peoples' wordage---not mine--black minority ethnic women) in scotland. i very quickly learnt that to survive as the director of this organisation with so many expectations on us all....staff, and the women and children who attended...that i had to revive and restore all my (aborted) wedding songs, dances, film-y knowledge, menhdi appreciation and the like from my karachi days................. but from the older women who did attend, they could still make me blush (in my 40's) with their (especially) Punjabi songs, dances and gestures.................... the utter joy, tears, hopes, the sadness, the pleasures and the successes of working in that women only (children to age 5 in the creche-nursery) atmosphere.............almost like CJM all over again.

Geethi Aziz ''75 Uzma has been forwarding me the CJM Circular (...is that what it's called?) and I want to be a part of it - please! Adding Havovi Pajnigara and Farzana Dossa - all of us from the class of '75 - and of course Tubby - and hey I see Les here! When do we have an off-line get-together? Sit around a bonfire up in Bhurban, marshmallows and all - reminisce, laugh and perhaps shed a tear or two for those golden years. Sonia Farooq - I do believe it is you who has knitted this together. Great job! Warmth,

Kishwar Sadhullah : my dear,dear girls of JNM,what a pleasant surprise to hear from all of you at the same time,i am feeling nostalgic like never before.i have been asking for yasmin karims email add. forever,what a lovely opportunity to remember our childhoods and share with one another.Oh.....a very happy new year to all of you,lets pray for ourselves,what are we giving our children,and what is our future?? i am kishwar saadullah from the batch of 72.....what a long time ago,36 years ago!!!!!like a life time ago,but i am alive,living in islamabad as of the past 4 years,my address is house 446,street 11,F10/2,if any of you are in islamabad,batch of 72,please come and stay with me.my phone no:0300 9412444. samina hatimali i have wanting your email to condole on your mothers passing away,she was all you had,it must have been terrible.parents are...no one wants them to become part of the past.i am so very sorry. where is Nabat dossa,mona saadani?yasmeen kareem write and tell whats been happening with you,i sent u an invitation for my marriage to australia,and it came back to me,returned to sender. amina thanks for putting our names,are u back in karachi?how are you?lezlie,how is mother margaret mary?she was such a lovely person.my love to all who remember me,and the ones who dont know me,but have shared the same school and sames routines,the same classrooms and the same footpaths and playgrounds and driveway to and from school.long live the girls of CJM and long live the nuns who dedicated their lives for our education.lets get together and do some constructive work,contribute,give back to society for being the fortunate ones,what do you say?????????any ideas???with love kishwar.

Nabila Maniya: did the Karachi to Murree so I remember the annual exodus too. I remember my parents dropping me on the Karachi Air-Port with all my stuff every March, after umpteen hugs and kisses and for the first year or so tears. At the Islamabad Airport, we would all meet up from all over Pakistan - Karachi, Lahore, Peshawar. The tears and long faces would vanish. We were united with our buddies, all excited, chagtting up a storm. We would be picked up by the CJM staff in the Off-white Ford van. We'd get there before the girls whose parents or families would be dropping them. The Convent would be so quiet that for the first day or so my ears would ring (seriously, due to the lack of ANY sounds). Slowly, by the evening or following day the place would fill up. CJM would come back to life, shaking off the hibernation of 3 1/2 months. By the way, the weird rolled bedding was called "Hold-Alls". I attended the 150th Anniversary of CJM and visited for the 2nd time since my graduation in 1982, it was like coming home. I had also visited in 1988 with my sister-in-laws & husband. My husband swore it was like visiting "the in-laws". Sr. Clotilda said you better be taking good care of our child. Poor guy. He's such a sweetheart, so all of this was pretty uncalled for. But I felt so protected and loved. Aaaah, to think that she is gone.

Yasmin: Well things sure did change over the years didnt they..to go from those dusty miserably hot trains from Karachi to Rawalpindi to flying into Islamabad¡K.now that is progress. Well it¡¦s unfortunate you gals didn¡¦t experience the train trip that was something else indeed!! But I¦m glad time afforded you some luxury! Hi Selma I feel sorry for you in all that cold..but maybe you can spare us a thought in all this heat!! Mind you I would never swap. It is summer here in Australia and we in Mandurah Western Australia are averaging about 35% which is ideal when you have a pool which we have. My kids are making full use of it too. I don¡¦t envy you in all that snow. I remember the times we had snow in Murree. One year it snowed while we were still in school. I remember studying for final exams sitting in our jumpers coats and practically on top of the heater. How did we survive with no hot water to wash in in the mornings!! Maybe that¡¦s what made us strong.

Meher Asif (mehroon k) Hello all. Just wondering if anyone is in touch with Sairah Irshad. I met her in Karachi while I was staying at Holdiay Inn Hotel in 1986 when my son was 2 yrs old and then again in 1987 but after that we lost touch. I would love to get in touch with her again so please help....anyone. Thanks

amna shah '72 meher..sairah irshad lives in karachi,has 2 children,works as an editor for NEWSLINE magazine as well as running a lovely art gallery. we have been in touch with each other for a long time. i will get her email addy and put it up here soon. love,

kishwar Khanzada. hello dear,it has been such a long time,glad to hear that you are well.are you married and how about children? i am intouch with ghazala and sabrina,they live in the same house.you must know that ghazala has lost her husband in the recent past.as for amna shah,ismat,lubna shah,laila khalid waheed,rukhsana sajjad we have been and still do stay in touch.yasmeen aminullah,rabia latif also ishrat aurangzeb, fakhree too,a lot of them dont use the computer so staying in touch with them for you would be difficult. i remember you and me making plans in the science room,wasting time and not studying.you just dissapeared after school.imagine now we have a computor we can use and stay in touch no matter where we are in the world.do you remember mother goretti asking us what the year 2000 would be like?i could not even imagine this future....could you?our children are doing a lot better than us, i hope....lots of love and good wishes,will be im touch,

Meher Asif (MK) Hello all I am overjoyed I managed to get in touch with Havovi and Saira Irshad Im sure most remember them, I spoke to Havovi first for gosh must have been almost 2 hours her son asked her "Mum whose paying for the call "(so sweet mashallah) I told her to tell him its coming out of his pocket money :-). So many years to catch up on its gonna take a lot more than 2 hours. She gave me Sairas cell and I called her last night and again it was so lovely talking to her. I am amazed to learn where life has taken us all after J& M and the amazing challenges we have all faced as adults and married women. One might say that our days in Murree definitely contributed to making us all very strong individuals. Whats more amazing is that with most of us in our 50's we have found each other and it just doesnt feel as though we lost touch at all inbetween. It doesnt feel lonely anymore :-) I travel to Islamabad often and would love to meet up with those who do remember me if possible. Please respond with your cell nos and I will definitely find the time should you wish to meet up. My husband is Asif Siddique, ex owner of SABRO. He works as MAF Country Head Pakistan and is stationed in Islamabad for the time being.


ambereen rashid (gilani.)...class of 1977 hey girls.....hope u are good...i am in peshawar as some of u mite hv figured out ...alls well here...as well as can be..sp in a place a stone throw frm khyber agency whr all the bad guys live.:} anyhow wanted to just gv u a couple of messages.i talked to mother andrew....shes in toba tek singh....thats a couple of hours by car frm lahore...she was well and when i told her about this virtual site where we all meet...she was v thrilled and said to give all of u her love and blessings.and the other message is my cousin,yasmin aminullah...is in pesh...visiting from toronto.she asked to add her to this surreal list...her email yasmintoronto@hotmail.com so cheers girls....have a good happy life.love,

Dear CJM-ites I am finally getting on track since I got a wake-up call from Murree ( that loud bell which Sr Clotilda ran in our ears in the wee hours of the morning)!! How are you all dearies? Believe me, I am sitting in Westlake in a suburb of Ohio and reminescing my wonderful 5 yrs at the convent and every time I remember my time spent there I simply have a smile and a heartache. Those amazing nuns, Muchee baira, LIPS like Mick Jagger!!, Motu baira and Paniwala (the scrawny man with mighty shoulders to carry that one pail of hot water!!!) and never to forget Mrs. Walsh( piano teacher - remember that Boky! (whereever you are)~gosh, those wonderful wonderful memories never fade away. I can still picture Mother Superior- the kindest soul on earth comforting me after the colossal loss of my father.

Samina HussainFinally ----ladies---- I am SAMINA HATIMALI from the class of 1972. Please whoever remembers me,kindly pen me a few lines and share some fond memories. I personally knew the famous Tina Durrani, and will never forget her art work. By the way another artist in my class was Amna Hamid - Currently I am married - thank God, to Feroze Hussain and live in Cleveland, Ohio. Fortunately, my family consists of two amazingly wonderful and sweet girls Alishia and Nadia. Both are graduates from Case Western University. Kishwar, Boky, Saadia(Abbasi), Mona Sadaani, Zenia Irani, Yasmin, Ismati, Maria , Samina Nangiana, Ghazala, Nabat Dossa, Marina, and the Korean sisters are fondly remembered by me. God knows if you all remember me but these are the Class of 1972. God Bless you all and please send any pictures so we can look at each other, and I shall do the same. Love

Yasmin Karim 1972Hey Samina where the hell did you resurrect from!!! Ohio my God sounds far away from me¡KAustralia!!! LOL How can you say does anyone remember you we were all like sisters and I sure do remember you. Are you on facebook? Get on now and see all our pics and show us some of yours. Yes the Korean sisters were Chun Moon Chung and Chung Inn Chung¡Kremember!! ƒº My sister Mehroon is in dubai and is meeting up with Yasmin Bokhari who is a director of the Mashreq bank¡KSaba is in Paris¡Keveryone is all over the place. I believe Yasmin Aminullah lives in Toronto but is visiting Pehsawar. I have been in touch with Havovi and Sabrina Hyat (Pussy) and so many others its wonderful. I too remember Amna Shah being a great artist¡Kshe too is on this email list. Good to hear from you

samina- nee hatimali-now hussain 1972 Good God, really the dahl was watery and pale yellow. Remember the duck eggs(large size) and how I loved them. As far as eating a monkey if served - well: maybe at that time but honestly, I was soooooooooooothin at the time and now it is another story. I simply loved the raisin bread that Sister ? made and hey the egg curry, and pish pash, and the delicious oatmeal--all nutrious and savory!!!!!!!!!! love you guys take care

AMNA HAMID: not to forget the dahl and rice mixture and odd scraps stuffed into jam jars to be snuck out of the dining room for sehris during ramazan since rozas were forbbidden...o God ive never felt so holy or daring since...:)

Nabila Maniya: I do remember the egg in the daal. But I don't remember it being fried, just boiled in daal. It had an interesting taste. May be 1978 - 1982 they changed it. remember the square omlettes on Sundays and the Roast beef & potatoes. Yummy. I had a ginger cookie today and was reminded of the ginger snaps of CJM.

amna shah '72. but lets face it...there is nothing as good as condensed milk and marie biscuits!!!...im stll addicted to them...:) my children mostly think there mum lost it a long time ago ...but are now quite resigned to the murree convent madness...they hardly have a choice...:)

selma, EdinburghThanks for this...condensed milk and biscuits....i thought i had dreamt that! (believe it or not, but i am off to the dentist...co incidence or whjat?, but not me, just hand holding Him!) have no great memories of the daal, but do remembr parathas...and condensed milk, and at othr times, ketchup, chilllies and pickles..... still prefer parathas to chapattis, but rice wins every time..... the ever expanding

Yasmin '72 Ha Ha I knew once I mentioned food a lot of CJM girls would respond!!! Selma you and me alike expanding!!! Gosh Amna ¡§condensed milk¡¨¡K. I remember sneaking spoonfuls into my salivating mouth when Sr Helena wasn¡¦t looking!!! What about the tuck boxes, some of us had measly cartons with a few minor luxuries but boy oh boy do I remember some of the rich and spoilt girls (no offence if you were one of these) who came with huge treasure chests and trunk full of all sorts of goodies and often that¡¦s how friendships were formed!!!! So funny¡KLOL What did you bring in your tuck box???? Tomato sauce!!! I think that was put on everything to help with the taste! Especially on fried eggs which you could have thrown against the wall and I swear they would have bounced back! ƒº I remember one year Teresa (chow) Helen¡¦s sister was opening a huge tin of jam and sliced one of her fingers on the lid¡K.so much blood I had never seen in my life..I think tins were banned after that. Talking about food any of you ever involved in a midnight feast??? (we nearly burnt the hall down that I do remember!

samina yes, siree, i remember the condensed milk and marie biscuits and to this day I look around for those biscuits(thank God we get them now in Cleveland) and eat them. Hey, no one responded to my previous email about the duck eggs, delicious raisin bread that Sr. Helena made and that egg curry - pish pash (rice concoction) boy and talk about nostalgia lane - I will never forget the 'gunzakhas' that the Pathan friends bought. Buying friendship was very true thru foooD!!!!!! I can never forget having a 'midnight feast' in the cubicle with home made rotis that my mother would send up with the driver and chicken tikka. I would share with the dorm friends. Girls, those were the days my friend. and such life goes on and on. love

amberwhat days and what times....its like a little window somewhere from which we are glimsing a golden piece of our growing up...and i am always scared it will close again...i was in class 5 in 1971...and we had a miss john...dunno if any of u recall her?bless her...once samar amin and i kept a roza...and the iftar was in class,during evening study...and she went and got us toast and keema from teachers cottage.wherever she is...may God bless her.she made two ten year olds very happy.on the other hand...miss rukhsana haq was the cause of me getting an emergency pink card a week after i joined school in class 5...coz someone claimed i had used a curse word...i didnt even know what it meant then...that was the start of my pink card collection...but hey..i got 3 blue cards then when i was a senior... they managed to tame me eventually... talking of food...i miss the kichri...it was yumm.....dry and delicious...would give an arm and a leg to recapture a meal there... u gals frm1972 ...do u recall something called the big feast?i have a faint memory...there was a school feast on june 21st,then a fancy fair and one other thing which had coupons and u could buy food with that...did that actually happen or was it a figment of my imagination? i think u gals from 1972 rock...my 1977 classfellows are underground...think only uzma is on....ah well...it doesnt matter now...a few years here and there....cheers.... p.s some other time i will confess about how i stole a cake fromthe kitchen(right under sister marie roses nose...:)

selma ....Burning down halls......!! you were brave!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we got up (one time is all i can remember)and skulked around ,,,,bear with me,,,,can't exactly remember where, but try this..... dorm above the dining hall?.....near the loos? ....longish corridor, for hanging coats???? sitting on top of something? long chest? boxes? defintiely eating and keeping warm by pulling those coats??? around us? what did we eat? can't remember exactly, but do remember sneaking food up to bed, and once almost got caught by Mother Berchmans....asked us to open our desks, and she had a quick rummage... i had stuffed the biscuits right at the back. I am sure i had a cubicle bed there, in that particular dorm, with curtains all around it......some responsible senior I (wasn't!!!!) Me and an other....and after all these emails....another name almost popped into my head. have we been thru the Braganza link/family? Am i imagining a Jean Braganza? regards........

Yasmin¡¦72You aren¡¦t imagining about the Braganza girls there was Jean and Pat from what I remember they were seniors the year I joined in the early 60¡¦s I think. I don¡¦t know about Jean but I know Pat married a second cousin of mine Danny McCarthy her in Perth Western Australia I haven¡¦t kept in touch with them though. Was Pat in your year Selma? If you knew her I will see what I can do about finding her email address from this end. I remember the school feast on 21st June and every year on that day I think of our murree days. Remember the fudge and toffee we could buy with those tickets and I also remember getting a kebab wrapped in a nan¡.soooo delicious in those days anyway.

Salma Saranjam You guys have me remembering school food now, I remember the toffee, fudge, brinjal pickles and the School feast where we all took our bought food and went for a "Ramble" that's what it was called right? You might not hear from me for the next 6 weeks because I am heading off to Pakistan for 4 weeks then London for my daughter's graduation. Take Care,

Nabila Maniya-Rember shopping at Raja Bros. for tuck items? Eating cones vanilla & coffee flavored in the chilly weather? Buying books from Hamid Bros.? Reading comics in there to hide from a sudden down pour? Naan Kebabs in those little hole in the wall place on the Mall Road? The one with the stairs winding down one level below the street? The covered market with yards of cloth and nuts of all sorts? The dilapidated cinema? Coffee at Sam's....ahh, the memories just keeping flooding in!

Yasmin ¡¥72Oh and what about that mean guy who sat in the boiler room and we would beg him to toast our one measly piece of bread and beg for an extra bucket of hot water for our bath!!

amber the guy at the boiler room guy was sharif...true...we would get a bit more water if we were polite... and the langery...and the counterpane and the cubicle...and tuck...all these are names no one else will probably recognise...and remember sister clotildas bell at nite?when we were herded to bed.she would be standing at the top of the stairs,with a stern look on her face...try as i would,i could never get an innocent look on my face...and invariably she would give me a warning glare.how precious she was. congratulations Salma on ur daughters graduation...may she be a trail blazer.....love.

samina (1972)THOSE precious memories shall be locked in our hearts forever and ever. Gals, I have been reading everyone's mail and being class of 1972 was so so special as at the time we were multicutural at the convent. I don't know if foreign diplomats siblings attend the school. I am living in Ohio and to date I have the memories of 'motia' fragrance, Khadim bros tuck shop where I bought the English sandwich spread Bornvita( eat it to this day) and warming Ovaltine and not to forget those delicious choc biscuits. How about refreshing us with the memory of pakora wala at the tip of the winding road from Pindi Point to school. The brisk walks to and from THE MALL. 'PLEASE LOOK STRAIGHT AND DON'T LOOK AT THE GORA GALI BOYS.!!!!! Does anyone one remember the Urdu teacher MISS FIRDAUS. I still remember her colorful attire. Hey, Kishwar , how are you? please write a few lines to your buddy. Remember those wonderful games of netball and how we sweated out running back to the dorms. love

Selma REHMANcongrats on yr daughter's graduation in London......and if you get that far, why not think of visiting edinburgh? ok we might not be the same year, decade even, but if you fancy a trip up north, to the beautiful part of the UK, keep me in mind!! Someone mentioend coffee...Sams and the cinema.....that's where a few of us saw The Nuns Story....and came back to the convent with a knowing look on our faces,,,,would any of our nuns fall in love and depart????????? my mind is working over time re names.... i think i now remember a Fawzia, Fawzia Sha'bzada? NWFP ? i think i'd better give up esp re the Braganza's since i think i'm now making them up......but yes, there was a Braganza in my year/times. Jennifer Bailey...ended up in rickmansowrth england I think an australian with irish background...surname .........Carroll an american....possibly called Mia ('my-ahh') Helhowski...we all envied her...she got a few days off to go see the Kennedy's. i think that was the time the US embassy took a camel driver off to the usa. two sisters Edna and Anne....mother remarried so two surnames floating around....Barbour and Tyzack Wahida ..possibly Khan....again NWFP...i'm sure Gulnar Pujnigara.......karachi Bilqis ....?.....tehran I am sure i rember a Cynthia Diaz......Lahore Ismet.... from Lahore...think her surname was Nazir....I thought she was very glam...her folks were in the movie business....and just coming from edinburgh for the first time ever, that was truly glam.....to me.....i thought it was a smaller version of hollywood. Talat ? from karachi...i think her folks had a hotel, hotel metropole.. I am giving up!!! tooooooooo tiring.

YasminGosh Samina I remember the pakora wala (what I wouldn¡¦t do for some pakoras right now) and wasn¡¦t there a guy who had no nose always sitting around Pindi Point and we were all scared of him¡K. I know I didn¡¦t imagine that one. It seems like 1972 must have been a very special group of gals as most of us chatting here are from that year!!¡¥

AneelaMemories of the pakora wala at Pindi Point. Here's one: Sadia Zarif, Nilofer Qayum and myself, Aneela Nazir received the infamous pink cards at Assembly time the day after we'd begged the poor guy to hand out some pakoras. I think we were all out on one of our walks and definitely had no money on us!!!I still don't know which one of us came up with the brilliant idea but we thought of ourselves as the convent daredevils! Anyone from the class of '76? Amna, you dressed up as Captain Kirk one time, didn't you. I remember how we all used to be hooked on Star Trek. Anyone living here in the US? I'm in New Orleans and am wondering if there's anyone close by? Regards to all of you...stay safe and keep warm!
Loretta's sister Michelle was in my class. Last I heard she was working for Saudi Airlines. I don't know if that's of any help, but, who knows, she might still be there.

Nefer jhoomaThe "favorite" food list has to include Sister Zaferinas' brinjal pickle. My mouth waters every time I think of it. Have been teaching at CJM Karachi since Aug 2008......got coerced into it by Mother Andrew...and who can say no to Mother Andrew! She has now been posted to Tobek De Singh.(sp)? and Mother Berchmans has taken over. We often reminesce about Murree and the good ol' days. Can't imagine the CJM Muree being just a day school and Matric at that! Amna, has your mobile no changed? The one I have for you says it is not in use.

 

Meher Karim;Hello all. I had the most wonderful dinner at Yasmin (Bokhari)Javed's home in Dubai. When I walked through the door I got a very warm feeling immediately. When we met it was as though we had never lost touch. She looks exactly the same i would have easily recognised her anywhere. Unfortunately she would not have recognised me, yes the skinny (Mehroon) can no longer be called that beautiful word :-( We had a wonderful time reminising about the past and also trying to catch up on eachothers lives after Murree. I could not believe that the 9 years she has been here we didnt bump into eachother even once. I have been in Dubai for the last 19 years. I am sure that CJM girls have the strongest bond ever. It doesnt matter if we were seniors or juniors. Its truly amazing. When I spoke to Havovi and Saira its like we were back in school chatting as usual. I talked so long the last time I'm giving her a little break now :-) I will call you soon again Havovi. I would love to know if there are any more CJM girls living in the UAE. (keeping in mind that they know me as I left school in 71 but should have graduated with class of 75) It woudl be lovely to have a reunion here.

Nefer Jooma;More horrors............Sam's is now a Red Onion and the guy who makes the famous Raj's toffees was on "chuti" when I visited Muree last year with Azra Ayub. Was looking forward to sinking my teeth (yes I still have them) into a Raj's toffee. Two things the CJM girls were always short of.....food and toilet paper! Anyone in touch with Donya Partow?

Nabila Maniya:Ah, our classic old Sam's! What about cold coffee and hot chocolate. This is awful. Has anyone seen "Eternal Sunshine of the spotless mind"? That's what I feel like, that if I go visit, all my rich memories of old times will get wiped out and replaced by these character-less images. Tallking about trekking... we used to walk 5 miles to the Mall with only Rs. 5.00 in our pockets. So all we could buy were peanuts with shells crimsoned by the rich red earth or popcorn - the only thing that would us last for the long walk back. But thanks to those day, man, can I hike and walk. Both remain a very regular part of my life till this day. Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing ......ah, those days.....

Yasmin ¡¥72 Those walks all the way to Pindi Point and sometimes even further some of us hated them and the excuses we would use to get out of going¡Kanyone remember the supposed trigger for fainting¡Kstanding in the sun with an onion under your armpit!!!!!! LOL I never saw it work. While we might all be good trekkers I have to say that exercise didn¡¦t do me any good living in Australia where everyone is a good swimmer and I can¡¦t swim a stroke!!!

Nabila Maniya:Rember shopping at Raja Bros. for tuck items? Eating cones vanilla & coffee flavored in the chilly weather? Buying books from Hamid Bros.? Reading comics in there to hide from a sudden down pour? Naan Kebabs in those little hole in the wall place on the Mall Road? The one with the stairs winding down one level below the street? The covered market with yards of cloth and nuts of all sorts? The dilapidated cinema? Coffee at Sam's.. ..ahh, the memories just keeping flooding in!

NEFER JOOMA;Never tried the onion....where would we get one. The Mall walks were our only outings out of school grounds, plus the fact one could pick the blueberries on the way to Pindi Point. Yes........Murree has changed. A car worthy road that goes from Pindi Point past the school and joins the Lawrence College Road. New hotel too just below the Holy Family guest house.

SAMINA 1972Honestly, Murree to me hasn't changed except if I saw the Mall -that could be more commercial. Same windy roads, rusted house sidings, beautiful scenery and I can literally feel the care ride from Pindi(where I lived)to Murree and having the queasy butterflies churning my stomach to having to return to school.!!! Remember those days guys, when suddenly you fell sick!!! Anyone remembers the Ayaa's name that helped Sr. Clotilda in the lingery and other odd jobs. I can never forget how kind she was. I seem to reminesce those days when 1972 seniors got to see Paul Anka movie- and gosh the TV show MAN FROM UNCLE> I still think Ilya Kurkyakin was the best and no to mention Tom Jones and his Delilah.!!! love

NEFER JOOMA:No it was definitely Dr. Kildare and the Fugitive who were the heart throbs and of course Danger Man......Lord I feel ancient. The biggest punishment was to be kept away from those weekly shows. I remember the Ayah, though not her name. Her daughter got married our senior year and we were allowed to attend. I remember Tina did her make up.

SELMA REHMAN;Onions, onions...where would you find an onion to stick under yr armpit? the only onions i think i ever saw were in the food, and the worst of all Sister Clo had a cough remedy I'm sure that featured raw onions. DON'T ANYONE DARE HAVE A REUNION WITHOUT PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE TELLING ME!! i'm setting myself a time target WITHIN 09...and God willing, I will make it!! when i do make up my mind......stand back! there's still life in these old bones yet. i kind of thought that even if i just got to karachi i might get to see the convent and Mother Berchmans...but it would be stupid to get that far and not to get to murree itself. Yasmine...how can you possibly not swim bearing in mind where you are.....i promise you,it is so relaxing!!! i swim at least once a week here in edinburgh...nothing fancy, just pounding up and down the lanes for exercise, i can only do the breast stoke, and not on my back either!!!!.....once i have done my minimum 20 lenghts, i then treat myself to half an hour just floating leisurely, gently..believe me, i have swum out all my tension and aggro! and Uzma can i please send you a very very big thank you. i had never bothered signing up to face book, but did because of you.......and would you believe it..someone found me from my Karachi and Dhaka days.....but no connection to cjm. most of these long lost friends (the full family) are in talihasee usa (...purists amongst you, forgive my spelling if this is incorrect)..but still have lahore connections.......... i feel a reunion coming on.......but i don't want to get to talihassee before i get to murree

amna shah '72good Lord nefer did tina really do the maids daughters make up??? :) i certainly must remind her of that when next i see her !! my complete heart throb was capt james.t.kirk and mr spock of star trek btw !! i remember being punished and banned from watching star trek one time but regardless sneaking into the classroom under the baby dormitory and watching it...one of the most daring things i ever did !!!:) love

UZMA MASOODyes i was wondering how no one had mentioned the pakora wala at pindi point.his pakoras were the best for whatever little cash we had on us.im still trying to figure out the school toffeee recipe as sister marie rose ha d explained it to me on one of my trips to murree.i really loved the roast potatoes.the fudge was amazing too but never turned out like sister marie rose recipe.
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Selma hi all, and don't know if i have bored you with this already, but...actual book censorship took place in my time.. there were no james bond books, and the one copy of neville shute's book...on the beach...was censored with pages ripped out. every winter i went back to karachi with a list of boooks i had to source and read!

GEETHI AZIZ:Standard fare on return to school, first day, after the hols: roast beef and potatoes! We'd reach school more often than not, in the late afternoon or evening - first few hours away from home and family. The cold cuts of roast and potatoes - well, didn't do a whole lot to cheer some of us up! Who remembers the pastry wala cycling up to the flat? Green icing, fossilized cream rolls, but boy were they good! LOL

UZMA MASOOD:yes remember the guy with the trunk and the yummy cream horns ,pastries.after leaving school i never ever went near those things again.just got put off by all the things in the trunk.

MEHER:Hello all. I visited Murree in 2004. this was my first visit since 1971. I couldnt believe how crowded it had become and how small the place looked. I was with at that time a friend Razia who is now my Mother in Law. I visited CJM and walked into the area where parents used to be taken to visit the nuns. A couple of the nuns whom I didnt remember too well recognised me instantly whihc is absolutely amazing I was so touched. The feeling I had of this place I absolutely loathed in my childhood years was of one who had come HOME after a long long time.

GEETHI AZIZ:How about the home-made jam, served up at break-time - thick slices of bread with the jam! And does anyone remember sprinkling chillie powder and salt on the white buttered-bread, for the lack of anything else to layer on it, especially at the end of term when tuck ran dry?

Nabila Maniya:Rember shopping at Raja Bros. for tuck items? Eating cones vanilla & coffee flavored in the chilly weather? Buying books from Hamid Bros.? Reading comics in there to hide from a sudden down pour? Naan Kebabs in those little hole in the wall place on the Mall Road? The one with the stairs winding down one level below the street? The covered market with yards of cloth and nuts of all sorts? The dilapidated cinema? Coffee at Sam's.. ..ahh, the memories just keeping flooding in!

samina (1972) THOSE precious memories shall be locked in our hearts forever and ever. Gals, I have been reading everyone's mail and being class of 1972 was so so special as at the time we were multicutural at the convent. I don't know if foreign diplomats siblings attend the school. I am living in Ohio and to date I have the memories of 'motia' fragrance, Khadim bros tuck shop where I bought the English sandwich spread Bornvita( eat it to this day) and warming Ovaltine and not to forget those delicious choc biscuits. How about refreshing us with the memory of pakora wala at the tip of the winding road from Pindi Point to school. The brisk walks to and from THE MALL. 'PLEASE LOOK STRAIGHT AND DON'T LOOK AT THE GORA GALI BOYS.!!!!! Does anyone one remember the Urdu teacher MISS FIRDAUS. I still remember her colorful attire. Hey, Kishwar , how are you? please write a few lines to your buddy. Remember those wonderful games of netball and how we sweated out running back to the dorms. love


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