New
Century, Same Old AA
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© The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., July 2000
An
article in a recent Grapevine referred to the advent of something
relatively new: online AA. This is something I know a bit about. Several
years ago, the Grapevine published an article I wrote on the plight of
alcoholics with hearing loss, particularly on how hard it is for us to
hear the message so ably carried by this Fellowship.
I am still sober, but my sobriety was in grave danger a few years ago. As
my hearing decreased, I found less and less value in meetings. Finally,
when I could no longer hear the speaker at all, I left. For two years, I
did without meetings, trying to stay sober on literature alone. At last I
realized that it wasn't working all that well. True, I had not picked up
a drink, but I was starting again to feel and think like a active alkie.
It was only a matter of time until the booze itself reappeared. I had to
do something. But what?
Enter online AA. In an E-mail group, one of the more than 100 online
groups around the world, I found the AA I'd been missing. In fact, it is
even better than the meetings in church basements I used to attend! All
of the love, help, advice, pertinent comments, and sense of humor as well
were available to me each day. In the old days, I used to go to one,
maybe two, meetings a week. Now I make seven to fourteen, right from the
desk in my office! I love these people! They, in turn, love me. I've
stayed sober the last three of my seventeen years of sobriety because of
their help.
I found that the online groups have an intergroup, The Online Intergroup
of Alcoholics Anonymous (OIAA). Next thing I knew, I was Group Rep. and
eventually Chair. AA online has its own service structure as well. The
groups deal with the issues of anonymity that are relevant to online AA,
among other things. Although it seems to be a persistent concern, there
is no real reason to worry about anonymity beyond the group level in
cyberspace. It is just as secure as it is in the f2f world. (Oops -
"f2f"
means "face to face".)
The Online Intergroup of Alcoholics Anonymous can be found easily with a
search engine, but each group is anonymous, just like any other. Nobody
can accidentally "wander in." At the same time, alkies who
search us out,
in increasing numbers, find us easily.
Although there is an online group for deaf and hard-of-hearing
alcoholics, Sounds of Sobriety, most online members are not people with
disabilities. Some are sailors at sea, AA's in isolated locations, older
AA's who don't like to venture out, and so on. The majority, however, are
simple AA's. They may attend meetings at the church down the street, but
they also treasure their online connections. They are not "strings of
words on a monitor" to one another. They are living, breathing human
beings, connected in space and time by computers, carrying the message
the way its always been done.
So the uproar over online AA does not disturb me in the least. Think
about the controversy over the writing of the Big Book, over admitting
women, and over the influx of dually addicted people. This is the same
thing. Online AA will survive, prosper, and grow, come what may. In fact,
it's already grown to nearly 5,000 members since the 1995 International
Convention, and it will have a cyber site at the Convention in Minneapolis
this year. If online attendance doubles in the next four years, I would
not be surprised. Why? Because church basement or computer keyboard, it's
the same AA we have always known - one alcoholic, talking to another, so
they both stay sober.
Rick S., Ottawa, Ontario
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