10 Good Qualities of a Dom/me

1. Control--You can't control Your slave/submissive if You can't control You.

2. Creative--Your slave/submissive is attempting to give You all of them, shouldn't they have something interesting to focus on? They deserve all of You in return, Your energy, creativity, etc.

3. Human--Don't be afraid to apologize, Dommes make mistakes too. Realize that just as important as it is to punish for mistakes, it's equally important to forgive mistakes and move on.

4. Compassionate--Be caring, not just about Your slave/submissive, but about their family and friends as well. Realize that You are not the center of the universe, that even tho Domme is something You live, Mistress is a role that has a shut off point. Be considerate of Your slave/submissives r/t issues and needs.

5. Technique--Know Your toys and how to use them, try them on Yourself before using them on Your slave/submissive.

6. Consistent--Don't give conflicting commands, equal punishment for equal offense, remember to reward for good deeds. Don't back down from difficult situations, deal justly.

7. Thorough--Direct the scene from start to finish, be detailed.

8. Respectful--Respect Yourself and O/others.

9. Safe--Be aware of the damage You can do to Your slave/submissive, do Your best to avoid causing harm. Keep Yourself updated in first aid procedures.

10. Communication--Mean what You say and say what You mean. Be specific and keep Your words in good order. Strive to relay clear instructions. LISTEN.