Bio

35 year old switch from Cleveland soon to be relocating to DC to be near to my Beloved Master MDom. Mother to one lil Master. I have been on ACN since July 1999 (yes, I am addicted, but aren't we all)! Apart from being a serious pain slut, I am also a serious lifestyler dedicated to sharing my knowledge with others and continually seeking out new information about bdsm. I am always open for people to talk to about bdsm and more importantly and more often, about how past rape/incest/abuse affects women in bdsm. I have come to terms with my D/s needs and desires and reconciled them to the abuse I suffered in the past and I find no shame or incongruity in willingly submitting to another. My favorite essay on bdsm EVER is located in castlrealm. If you want to know me, go to http://www.castlrealm.com Click on subSpace, select Archives, and read "Chains of Love" by jade. The last section there entitled "Letter from a Dominant Male" should be the gold standard ! by which those claiming to be "dominant" are measured. If you are new to the dungeon, welcum if you are a reg, < huggles & fropes >.