Bio

i think most reg's know me , though my time online these days are limited due to work, i live and work near Leeds in England, i used to Switch but i'm now much more of a submissive than a Domme, i have been active in bdsm real time since the age of 18 , i'm now 32.my pic is on this website, but it is 10years old, it's an old passport photo.
My real time life has had many ups and downs, including the death last year of my boyfriend of 3 yrs , what made that so hard to bear was that we had only just split up when he was killed in a car crash, in the past i have decieved ppl in the room, when you are at a low ebb you do things you later regret, and i'm no different, thankfully i have learned from life and from my mistakes, and i believe i'm a better person for it.I'm not married, but, dating, i have no children as yet, i smoke and i'm a former heavy drinker, i only drink in light moderation now. i love bdsm, i love life, i love the dungeon and i love all my friends, real time and cyber.