Bio

Hi. As of 3/2001, I'm 39 and active in BDSM ten years (read about it for 10 before that). I live in the Seattle, WA area and survived the earthquake 2/28/2001. I like to think I'm quite knowledgeable about BDSM and one of my favorite things to do is talk to people about it. But, I'm also still learning, so won't you share your perspective when you see me online? I have had several wonderful long term BDSM relationships but alas am now looking for the "perfect" submissive to collar permanently. Okay, you're right, I'll never find the "perfect submissive", but it sure is fun looking for her :o) If you'd like to apply for the position, send your name, birthdate, SSN, and a copy of your last W2 to lorderos@securenym.net (kidding!). But, do feel free to share any bits of wisdom, ask a question, or just get to know me. I respond to A/all m, f, or other.

I work as an executive at a software company which is thrilling but takes too much of my time away from BDSM. One day it will pay off and I will play all the time. My favorite color is steel blue. My favorite drink is well aged single malt scotch. My favorite fiction author is Michael Crichton. My favourite nonfiction author is Robert Fulghum. My favorite columnist is Dave Barry (Miami Herald). Good humor is an important part of my life and you need to have a well developed sense of it to communicate with me. I love to play with words both online and r/t, double entendre being a specialty. My hobbies include writing music, photography, and creative digital erotic art. I participate in Aikido, sailing, cycling, racquetball and several other indoor sports (scenes can be a real workout sometimes .. < rubbing my Top's Elbow >).

I am generally well controlled and quite controlling. If I get overbearing, just say something. I have much patience and a long fuse, but when pushed, I can get explosively angry. Don't do that to me, you won't like it. I am much more involved with D/s than B/D or S/M (sorry if you don't know what I mean by that, its just the fastest way to explain). I am highly imaginative and can both plan a scene for weeks in advance or just roll with the flow and improvise as necessary. Hard limits are anything having to do with animals, children, urine, feces, or blood. Other than that, pretty much everything is fair game.

I hope to see you online,

Best Regards,

Lord Eros