Guestbook Archive


Great Job Maryann!
by:Tammy 8/31/99 12:49 pm

None of the graphics came in, however I loved the layout. I think you did a great job! Good for you!

Tell ole boss that he needs to get unbusy and get his input up! Or is it you that are keeping him busy! LOL

;o)

Congrats
by:Waltdad 8/31/99 2:20 pm

D $ M, Congratustions on this website. I don't know why I can't see the graphics, but I an sure that you will fix it.
Keep up the good work. and thanks.

Waltdad

reply to guessbook

by:Maryann 9/1/99 12:21 am

Dear Waltdad;
Thank you. I am glad you enjoyed the site. Because i am just a beginner at html codes, other people have been having trouble with the graphics, and in some instances, getting a blank page. i have asked for help from the more experienced, and hopefully will get the bugs worked out. Thank you again,
Maryann

very interesting reading, helpful

by:Sandy 9/1/99 12:25 am

Thank you so much for taking the time to put this site together, I found it interesting, and helpful in trying to put this kind of lifestyle in my own life. I am going to visit often , in order to keep me on track

very interesting

by:Dana 9/1/99 1:27 am

Maryann,

You did a great job on this. I enjoyed visiting here very much. I found it very informative as well.

Second Visit

by:Waltdad 9/2/99 8:01 pm

M&D
I came back the graphics are awesome. I enjoy your site a lot. BTW glad you dumped the photo link on page one.

Good job,
Walt...

Hey! It works!

by:Tim 9/5/99 11:50 pm

Dear Digs and Maryann, Hey, Glad to see that all your hard work finally paid off! The page looks GREAT!!! We'll visit often! Thanks!

How thoughtful of you Maryann! Good job

by:Hollyleaf Trunk 9/11/99 8:16 am

I think that this is a great idea and that you are doing a real service for a lot of people! We really do need to hear from the Digits himself, though. Maryann, you are a sweet and sassy birthday angel.

Reply to Hollyleaf

by:Maryann 9/12/99 2:05 am

I know we need to hear from him. Poor man has his hands full of finishing projects around the house, and then keeping me in line. LOL Thanks for the nice comment.

I agree with you!!

by: Terry Kersting 9/18/99 10:18 am

Maryanne,
I wholeheartedly agree with you and your thoughts about being submissive! I am submissive to Rod, because i choose to be. I love him dearly, and desire to please him any way i can. I have been in a bad relationship where i was dominated, and was submissive on the outside, but not on the inside where it counts. I know that Rod wants the best for me, and will help me to become more and more the woman that i want to be. We are definately equals, but he is head of the house!! And i like it that way!! Terry

Well Done

by: Sir dave 9/19/99 10:34 am

Great page, you two! Keep it going.

Thanks

by: Sir Dave 9/26/99 12:43 pm

Great page & many thanks...Although we are in Scotland we appear to have a similar lifestyle....Thought we were the only ones in the whole world for ages

Hormones

by: Chantilly14 11/14/99 3:38 pm

Maryann,
Excellent, excellent job with the hormones article. Well written and it makes perfect sense! How well I know those drops during PMS. Those sudden drops also account for what is commonly called "the baby blues"....that period about 24 to 72 hours after the birth of a baby. Anyone who ever feels "weird" about liking spanking should read and then re-read this article. It really helps to explain a lot of the "why" we like it.
Chantilly14

Hormones

by: Sandy 11/15/99 1:20 am

Thank you Maryann for all your hard work, this is so informative, and will help both of us to understand a lot more about all this. You are truly gifted.

hello

by: April 5/3/00 9:16 pm

Hey I finnally found your guys site. I am not letting John know though. Those paddle things scare me..lol. Glad I found it.

April
Member of CSF and VSF and the Playground

What a great site!

by: Olivia 5/22/00 5:34 pm

Hi Maryann,

I've just discovered your website and think it is wonderful. As a new discoverer of DD, I think it is wonderful to have well informed sites such as this to help us understand the ins and outs and what it's all about. Just one thing...being very new to this I don't understand a lot of the abbreviations that many people use in messages and in postings to egroups like Household Discipline. What, for instance, does LOL mean? Is there a glossary somewhere?

Thanks,
Olivia

Thanks for a great site

by:Jill 6/5/00 12:40 am

Ken and I accidently found your site, several months ago, before we married. We printed out each word, and have refered back to it often. You have described our lifestyle, together, perfectly. Ken was somewhat hesitant at first, but thanks to your site, he now understands the why's and where-for's about a DD relationship. Digits comments have helped him alot...thank you for all your hard work on this site. Jill

Thanks.

by: ART 6/7/00 11:53 pm

Great site: Only you took the time to explain in detail why some women want and need to be spanked and some men to spank them as part of the whole relationship. Keep up the great work!

posting

by: Digits 6/28/00 8:19 pm

We have had 17,500 visits as of this moment and yet have had only 25 post. Please people give us and others feed back on the site and let us know you are there.

We're here OK.

by: Mae 6/30/00 1:02 am

There are lots of us lurking out here. I think some people may be just a little shy about posting to a bulletin board.

I thought after all this time we were getting very good at D/D do but you have showed us there is still much to be refined and learned.

Thank you for your thoughtfulness and hard work!

;-)

Mae

introducing myself

by: jules 6/30/00 3:49 am

I just found your message board, and have printed a couple of pieces of information to share with my husband.

We are very new at this - just starting out, actually. We have a lot of talking to do yet, so I don't know how much we'll have to share with anyone else. . .

-Jules

Keep up the good work

by: Bonbon 7/10/00 3:18 am

I haven't been around for a while due to family problems. Had to put off D/D too. But maybe soon hubby and me will be back into the swing of things and I will be on the receiving end as usual

The Bible's support for discipline

by: 11zzzz 7/16/00 2:35 am

Hi! I recently wrote a paper supporting DD - a serius look at it from the perspective of a Bible-believing Christian. I try to make it very open to NON-DD people, at least at the introduction, so that maybe they will give it a fair hearing.

Keep it and pass it around freely, but please do not make any changes to it or try to sell it (it is MINE, remember, legally as it's author according to copyright rules). Enjoy!

http://www.dd-issue.frenzmail.com

Husband is confusing me

by: CJ 7/28/00 12:13 am

We just started recently in a DD relationship. We talk and I ask him if he understands this and everytime he says he does. I ask him if he is okay with it and he says he is, but the problem is it seems that I am the one that has to start the conversation when he is home on the subject. He has spanked me, but doesn't really know the difference between a punishment spanking and anything else. Then he is so inconsistent, it drives me crazy. He seems like he likes being in control, but sometimes he just doesn't do anything and I could be awful. Defiant, disrespectful, not doing chores and really bad on the money situation.Spending way over budget. I am not doing these things to get spanked, I just have been spoiled for so long and I want to change and I have given him the gift of submissivness.But we just can't seem to get it together. You have a great site here and I hope I can get him to read some of it so it will help him better understand. I know I have to communicate and I really try, but it seems like it is taking along time to get through to him. Thanks for your time CJ

confused

by: Digits 7/30/00 9:34 pm

CJ: Do you have a written set of rules and expectations? If not that may help alot. Remember just as you have some habits, so does he. He is not in the habit of watching out for what you do. So the list of rules helps him to remember that, "oh yeah, she is not supposed to do that." Also with each rule there should be a set punishment thus overspending = 20 swats or whatever you two decide. Sit down and write the list of things you wish to change, then present it to him to write in the punishments.
It may also help to print out the portions that I have written and present that to him. If you have any more questions you may use the email link to us.
Digits

introducing myself and few questions

by: Sheri 9/21/00 5:38 pm

Hi, first of all I wanted to introduce myself. I just found your site and think it is wonderful. My husband and I were considering a DD relationship but had a lot of questions and nobody to talk to. Reading this site helped answer most of them and helped us decide to give it a trial period of 6 months and then decide from there.

Altough I do have one question that I hope someone can help me with. The DD relationship was my idea. He seems ok with it and said that at times he had considered the fact that sometimes he felt as though I needed a good spanking. But the problem is, my husband is a very kind and sensitive person and loves me very much. He also is very aware of the fact that growing up I lived in an extremely abusive family (all forms of abuse). Well last night was the first time we had to really spank me. I guess I mark pretty easily and he literally freaked when he saw that my bottom was marked(not permanently, just a few welts) He didn't really spank me that bad (I didn't even cry). I am afraid that this has made it very difficult for him..he is so afraid of hurting me. He says I have been hurt enough in my life. But he also understands that I need this. I was just hit for any reason so I do not have a real sense of appropriate behavior. Fornutely I am not too much of a brat just have some things I need to work on. Does anyone have any suggestions to help make this easier on my husband. He says he is ok with this and still wants to try it but I don't want it to be to hard on him. Any input from more experienced people would be greatly appreciated.

I also wanted to let Digit and Maryann know that I greatly appreciate you site. You have helped me understand something I have struggled a long time with and now I feel much better about it.

Sheri

Just Found Your Site

by: Lynn 9/27/00 5:40 pm

Hi. I am in a relationship where we practice some D/D. We also have some BDSM and some of the Daddy/Little Girl. We are picking and choosing what we like! lol

But I can relate to the bruising thing. The first time he used the paddle on me, I bruised something awful. I was afraid he would react like Sharon's husband did, so I made sure to let him know that it looked bad but didn't hurt that much. So that night, I got another spanking, since I didn't hurt from the first one, he must not have done it right, he said!! LOL You can never tell how some people will react to things!

A great site that I will show to my fiancee.

Lynn

First Name : lucylicksdix
URL : kycouple69@hotmail.com
Comment : I have added this page to my favorites and to my cool links, and copied it to print. I want to study it a become a better submissive for my Dom.....in training, Lucy

First Name : Christopher
URL : shovelbum401@msn.com
Comment : My girlfriend has introduced me to the world of DD. This page has been a very good start to understanding the importance of why she needs DD and helping myself understand my importance in this new relationship.

First Name : Bruce
URL :
Comment : Hi, Just wanted to let you know that the url on your entry page for DDpersonals ( http://www.egroups.com/group/00DomesticDisciplinePersonals ) gets a "no such group" message from yahoogroups.

First Name : Maryann
URL :
Comment : Apparently that group closed. I found another DD personal group within the E-groups and have put that link on there. I am not a member, nor do I know about the content of this group.

First Name : Keeper4_2
URL : Urbanblksmth@yahoo.com
Comment : Haven't read it all but I offer my congratulations on the success of your path. The communication and exploring you work at is evident as one of the strongest foundations of rewarding and serenity of the relationship.

First Name : Debbie
URL :
Comment : Hi, Just came across your site tonight and have been enthralled by it. Have wanted a good old fashioned spanking for years, but haven't had a significant other in my life long enough to ask for one. LOL You aren't in the New England area, are you? HAVE NE

First Name : John
URL : john@referential.freeserve.co.uk
Comment : I found most of the material on your site very helpful. It has helped me to come to terms with some of the aspects of the role that my wife asked me to take on for a trial period of 3 months that I was finding difficult. Thank you. John

First Name : Sherilyn
URL :
Comment : Thank god I found you! I thought I was pretty much the only one.

First Name : Debbie
URL :
Comment : Fantastic!!!

First Name : jo
URL : Comment : I used to get spanked by my first husband years ago. My second husband does not know that I like it, and I don't know how to bring it up. I have tried hinting. I do not want him to be dominating at all ever. I like our relationship, really basically 50/50

First Name : solange
URL :
Comment : We have begun our journey. My husband has started my training and discipline and it has made such a difference already.

First Name : Angela
URL :
Comment : Thank you for putting into words what I have always felt. After numerous failed attempts to convey to my husband why I felt the way I did about discipline I found your website and after having him read this he finally understood what I needed. What a difference.

First Name : Tina
URL :
Comment : Thank you for giving us the help that we needed and being so honest and explaining what to do and how to get started so easy to understand. This might be the one thing that saves my marriage

First Name : David
URL :
Comment : Love this place. So glad to see how others have started and made progress along this highway. My "little miss" doesn't need training, per se. Just loving correction and a firm guiding hand once in a while...just about every other day:)

First Name : katmat
URL :
Comment : I don't know what an URL is. I'm writing because of the note that said how many visitors and how few notes. I thank you for all the stuff to read. Some very right on for me, but I don't know about all that submission. Does it come in little, some and lots

First Name : Jen
URL :
Comment : This website is great. I am so thankful to see all of the other couples that enjoy this type of lifestyle as well.

First Name : dawn
URL :
Comment : Loved the site! I realized I was not alone! I am no longer ashamed to admit that I submit to and am disciplined by my husband.

First Name : Joyce
URL : jozlynne@earthlink.net
Comment : Keep up the good work. Very informative and helpful! Thank you.

First Name : Seychelle
URL :
Comment : I love your highly perceptive understanding of how our hormones effect and are effected by spanking! Thank you for sharing your lives, so people like me will one day have the words to express what we want in a forever relationship. chelle

First Name : linda
URL : blg363@att.net
Comment : great site, please keep updating this site, i like the links.

First Name : Loretta
URL : http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Ephesians5_24-25/
Comment : I think it was wonderful and very helpfeul. Can't wait to get my husband on here. :-)

First Name : Angela
URL :
Comment : My boyfriend and I are both from broken messy marriages, and seek to find the peace and tranquility you have offered in this website. We are both very interested in the "lifestyle" both being from very strict Christian upbringing.

First Name : verlaine
URL : verlaine_l@yahool.com
Comment : Curious, would like to visit. Thanks!

First Name : melinda
URL :
Comment : neat site!

First Name : Steve & Akiko
URL :
Comment : wonderful!

First Name : Daddy and Sally
URL : http://www.oocities.org/daddy_n_sally/
Comment : Wonderful site. We loved it, very insightful and well laid out.

First Name : Sam
URL :
Comment : I really enjoyed reading your comments.

First Name : carsten
URL : carsten_sde@yahoo.de
Comment : DD is a very suitable pragmatic way to keep a relationship going. Would like to have more peaople to agree with this. Greetings from Germany. Carsten

First Name : Debs
URL :
Comment : This site is fantastic! I cried with relief when reading the information. It's given me clarity and direction to some very confused feelings. I didn't even know there was such a lifestyle with followers like this! Best of all, my partner is keen on the wh

First Name : Terry
URL :
Comment : Thanks for the info. This has helped me define the roles of our relationship. We started without even understanding what direction we were going. Thank you very much.

First Name : Sara
URL : JimSara@aol.com
Comment : This is what we needed. You do this with love, understanding and class. My husband and I refer again and again to this site. Our marriage is thriving now.

First Name : Carol
URL :
Comment : Thanks for the wonderful, and very helpful reading. I feel now that I can communicate more precisely to my husband about concerning D/D. Again many thanks.

First Name : bea
URL : Comment : i would like to know how to access web sites re: this subject...DD...and/or just pleasureable as well as punishable spankings...not too playful but HARD enough to "teach" and HARD enough to ENJOY THE STING... Thanks..

First Name : rachael
URL : rachael88@aol.com
Comment : Thank you both for so much good information. I am fairly new to D/s and your site filled in a lot of answers for me.

First Name : Emma
URL :
Comment : I have been married for 6 months and my husband began punishing me within the first week. I still cry but I love him all the more. I feel that if it wasn't for his discipline then I would not be the wife I am now. I get punished once or twice a week.

First Name : Wyndigo[j]
URL :
Comment : Great page! My sub/girlfriend found it, so I had a look and found it to have LOTS of information.

First Name : Carol
URL : tinkers lady
Comment : Learned alot from your site. My hubby is still not too sure about DD, doesn't take it seriously although he has noticed the positive changes in me after the few discipline sessions we have had. Thanks for the helpful info.

First Name : Katzishepan@yahoo.com
URL :
Comment : Learned much from this site. Hoped that DD would lead to erotic play and satisfying sex. Maybe that is just not discussed in detail here. Any comments? Email me? Thanks. KS

First Name : Cheryl
URL : babynurse11@hotmail.com
Comment : Thanks for the site. It has helped me discuss dd with my dh and We are beginning to try dd in our home.

First Name : V.Y.T
URL :
Comment : Thank God - I'M NOT CRAZY!!!!! I can't explain how relieved I feel knowing normal, educated people do this. I have felt like this ever since I was young and wondered "something must be wrong with me". Thank you for caring enough to save me from continuing

First Name : Michael
URL :
Comment : Plenty of ideas and information here that I found nowhere else.

First Name : Debbie
URL :
Comment : Just newly introduced to spanking by a "friend". Interesting info!

First Name : crimsonblue2u@yahoo.com
URL :
Comment : Very good site. Very informative and ice-breaking. My new wife and I are incorporating DD into our relationship right at the onset, we're both in agreement on this and breaking things in slowly. So far I've administered one stern OTK/barehand and one stern

First Name : Sarah
URL :
Comment : I'm new to this lifestyle. I am very thankful for all the information provided here. Thank you so much.

First Name : Ro
URL :
Comment : Wonderful site! Well thought out and detailed!