Stay True to Yourself!
Do me a favor and stay a virgin until it's right for you. Boys actually do respect virgins. Never give that up because a boy wants to have sex with you, because you can never ever get that back. Even if you do use a condom, you can still get pregnant. If you have sex during your period, you can still get pregnant. If the boy drinks a lot of Mountain Dew, you can still get pregnant. And say you get pregnant. The father is most likely not going to care and not want to have anything to do with you or the baby because he has his own life to live and it'll be too hard on him. So therefore you have to take all this on your own and you might have to drop out of school if no one can help you and your life is ruined.
Just because you had sex with a boy doesn't make you special. Boys that sleep around don't care about who they have sex with. You're just another mini-trophy in their collection. You're just a number to add to the list of how many people they had sex with. You're just a sex partner. Some guys just have sex and then they don't remember the name or face of the person they have sex with. You give them a blow job, so what? They won't care. Most guys that sleep around treat sex like having coffee. It's just a normal, everyday thing. Guys will go with anyone that is willing to give them what they want, and then those guys will dump them.
Pregnancies aren't the only problems. You can contract an STD (sexually transmitted disease), and then not many people will want to have anything to do with you. Plus, if you sleep with guys, people will start talking about you behind your back and saying that you're a whore, slut, or you're just plain dirty. You loose friends, and the guy you have sex with doesn't want to be friends with you or anything, he just cares about the sex. How does that make you feel?
There's only one way to avoid all this and to keep your pride. Abstinence. In other words, stay a virgin.