Have you ever watched kids
on a merry-go-round
Or listened to the rain
slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last
Do you run through each day on the fly
When you ask "How are you?"
do you hear the reply?
When the day is done,
do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last
Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow
And in your haste, not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
'Cause you never had time
to call and say "Hi"?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last
When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away...
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.
Close to the door
he paused to stand
as he took his class ring
off her hand
all who were watching
did not speak
as a silent tear
ran down his cheek
and through his mind
the memories ran
of the moments they walked
and laughed in the sand
but now her eyes were so terrible cold
for he would never again
have her to hold
they watched in silence
as he bent near
and whispered the words......
"I love you" in her ear
he touched her face and started to
cry
as he put on his ring and wanted to
die
and just then the wind began to blow
as they lowered her casket
into the snow....
this is what happens
to man alive......
.....when friends let friends.....
drink and drive.
Jenny was so happy
about the house they had found.
For once in her life 'twas on the right
side of town.
She unpacked her things with such great
ease.
As she watched her new curtains blow
in the breeze.
How wonderful it was to have her own
room.
School would be starting, she'd have
friends over soon.
There'd be sleep-overs, and parties;
she was so happy
It's just the way she wanted her life
to be.
On the first day of school, everything
went great.
She made new friends and even got a
date!
She thought, "I want to be popular
and I'm going to be,
Because I just got a date with the
star of the team!"
To be known in this school you had to
have a clout,
And dating this guy would sure help
her out.
There was only one problem stopping
her fate.
Her parents had said she was too young
to date.
"Well, I just won't tell them the entire
truth.
They won't know the difference; what's
there to lose?"
Jenny asked to stay with her friends
that night.
Her parents frowned but said, "All
right."
Excited, she got ready for the big event
But as she rushed around like she had
no sense,
She began to feel guilty about all
the lies,
But what's a pizza, a party, and a
moonlight ride?
Well the pizza was good, and the party
was great,
But the moonlight ride would have to
wait.
For Jeff was half drunk by this time
But he kissed her and said that he
was just fine.
Then the room filled with smoke and
Jeff took a puff.
Jenny couldn't believe he was smoking
that stuff.
Now Jeff was ready to ride to the point
But only after he'd smoked another
joint.
They jumped in the car for the moonlight
ride,
Not thinking that he was too drunk
to drive.
They finally made it to the point at
last,
And Jeff started trying to make a pass.
A pass is not what Jenny wanted at all
(and by a pass, I don't mean playing
football).
"Perhaps my parents were right....maybe
I am too young.
Boy, how could I ever, ever be so dumb."
With all of her might, she pushed Jeff
away:
"Please take me home, I dont want to
stay."
Jeff cranked up the engine and floored
the gas.
In a matter of seconds they were going
too fast.
As Jeff drove on in a fit of wild anger,
Jenny knew that her life was in danger.
She begged and pleaded for him to slow
down,
But he just got faster as they neared
the town.
"Just let me get home! I'll confess
that I lied.
I really went out for a moonlight ride."
Then all of a sudden, she saw a big
flash.
"Oh God, Please help us! We're
going to crash!"
She doesn't remember the force of impact.
Just that everything all of a sudden
went black.
She felt someone remove her from the
twisted rubble,
And heard, "Call an ambulance!
These kids are in trouble!"
Voices she heard....a few words at best.
But she knew there were two cars involved
in the wreck.
Then wondered to herself if Jeff was
all right,
And if the people in the other car
were alive.
She awoke in the hospital to faces
so sad.
"You've been in a wreck and it looks
pretty bad."
These voices echoed inside her head,
As they gently told her that Jeff was
dead.
They said "Jenny, we've done all we
can do.
But it looks as if we'll lose you too."
"But the people in the other car!?"
Jenny cried.
"We're sorry, Jenny, they also died."
Jenny prayed, "God, forgive me for
what I've done
I only wanted to have just one night
of fun."
"Tell those people's family, I've made
their lives dim,
And wish I could return their families
to them."
"Tell Mom and Dad I'm sorry I lied,
And that it's my fault so many have
died.
Oh, nurse, won't you please tell them
that for me?"
The nurse just stood there ~ she never
agreed.
But took Jenny's hand with tears in
her eyes
And a few moments later Jenny died.
A man asked the nurse, "Why didn't
you do your best
To bid that girl her one last request?"
She looked at the man with eyes oh so
sad.
"Because the people in the other car
were her mom and dad."
Red roses were her favorites, her name was
also Rose.
And every year her husband sent them, tied with pretty bows.
The year he died, the roses were delivered
to her door.
The card said, "Be my Valentine", like all
the years before.
Each year he sent her roses, and the note
would always say,
"I love you even more this year, than last
year on this day.
My love for you will always grow, with every
passing year."
She knew this was the last time that the roses
would appear.
She thought, he ordered roses in advance before
this day.
Her loving husband did not know, that he would
pass away.
He always liked to do things early, way before
the time.
Then, if he got too busy, everything would
work out fine.
She trimmed the stems, and placed them in
a very special vase.
Then, sat the vase beside the portrait of
his smiling face.
She would sit for hours, in her husband's
favorite chair.
While staring at his picture, and the roses
sitting there.
A year went by, and it was hard to live without
her mate.
With loneliness and solitude, that had become
her fate.
Then, the very hour, as on Valentines before,
The doorbell rang, and there were roses, sitting
by her door.
She brought the roses in, and then just looked
at them in shock.
Then, went to get the telephone, to call the
florist shop.
The owner answered, and she asked him, if
he would explain,
Why would someone do this to her, causing
her such pain?
"I know your husband passed away, more than
a year ago,"
The owner said, "I knew you'd call, and you
would want to know.
The flowers you received today, were paid
for in advance.
Your husband always planned ahead, he left
nothing to chance.
There is a standing order, that I have on
file down here,
And he has paid, well in advance, you'll get
them every year.
There also is another thing, that I think
you should know,
He wrote a special little card...he did this
years ago.
Then, should ever I find out that he's no
longer here,
That's the card...that should be sent, to
you the following year."
She thanked him and hung up the phone,
her tears now flowing hard.
Her fingers shaking, as she slowly reached
to get the card.
Inside the card, she saw that he had written
her a note.
Then, as she stared in total silence, this
is what he wrote...
"Hello my love, I know it's been a year since
I've been gone,
I hope it hasn't been too hard for you
to overcome.
I know it must be lonely, and the pain
is very real.
For if it was the other way, I know how I
would feel.
The love we shared made everything so
beautiful in life.
I loved you more than words can say,
you were the perfect wife.
You were my friend and lover, you fulfilled
my every need.
I know it's only been a year, but please
try not to grieve.
I want you to be happy, even when you
shed your tears.
That is why the roses will be sent to you
for years.
When you get these roses, think of all the
happiness,
That we had together, and how both of
us were blessed.
I have always loved you and I know I always
will.
But, my love, you must go on, you have some
living still.
Please...try to find happiness, while
living out your days.
I know it is not easy, but I hope you
find some ways.
The roses will come every year, and they will
only stop,
When your door's not answered, when the florist
stops to knock.
He will come five times that day, in case
you have gone out.
But after his last visit, he will know without
a doubt,
To take the roses to the place, where I've
instructed him,
And place the roses where we are, together
once again.
If
by
Rudyard Kipling
(my favorite poem)
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt
you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too
wise:
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
If you can think—and not make thoughts your
aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to,
broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and
sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold
on!"
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt
you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in
it,
And—which is more—you'll be a Man, my son!
Your laws ignore our deepest needs,
Your words are empty air.
You've stripped away our heritage,
You've outlawed simple prayer.
Now gunshots fill our classrooms,
And precious children die.
You seek for answers everywhere,
And ask the question "Why?"
You regulate restrictive laws,
Through legislative creed.
And yet you fail to understand,
That God is what we need!
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