Advice and Stuff

It's so sad what I've been through but we all must do it in life. I hope someone will find me life experiences interesting, funny and helpful. Ya'll might have been through worse, but who's house is this? Oh.

First of all I just wanna say that I've been out with all types of guys. No matter the shape, size (height) or color. I've always liked older guys. I've been out with a 28yr. old and a 30 yr. old. Don't let age fool yah gals! The 28 yr. old, Lamar* was very imature. But like all relationships it never was like that at the beggining. We were actually friends for about 3 years before. He was a WONDERFUL friend. Then the "honeymoon" stage was over. He wanted to be "pampered" and served on hand and foot. Now, I myself do like a little pampering now and again and I don't mind doing for my man too BUT when the ass expects it 24/7! A 28 yr. old should be doing for his own. His ex always use to pamper him(oh did I mention he was living with her while we were going out?)so he would always throw that at me. He sure did need pampering, but LUVS don't make them that big.I found out about 2 months after we broke up that he lied about his age and is really 30 something. 30 yrs. old, with one kid, no education and still running the streets like he was 18. Lesson...NEVER date a good freind unless you both can agree to keep the friendship more important. And older ain't always better.
The 30 yr. old, Wesley* was great. He treated me like a queen. He'd buy me anything and bring me anywhere. But, and I bet a lot of woman out there will agree with me, when a guy treats me good I tend to stray. At the time we were involved I was also seeing 1 other guy. The nice ones always seem to get this kind of treatment. Guys, peice of advice, SOME woman like a challenge. Once they get what they want they don't want it anymore until it's gone. Cliche, I know, but hey, it's true.