First let me assure you that marriage to a beautiful vibrant Russian/Ukrainian woman is not only possible,  it is extremely probable!  I have been doing this since 1998, have made many good matches and a few that did not work out.  Such is life.  I have a beautiful Ukrainian bride.  We met in June of 1999, are married and have been together for all of these years.  It turns out she is 35 years my junior!  It works for us, however I would not expect you to pursue this route.  Rather tend to stick to a 5 to 15 year age difference.  Twenty years is also possible, if age is important to you.  Write things of substance, don't brag, write from the heart.  If she is good looking in your eyes, say so.  Truth is universal and unambiguous.   She will expect that you have had some accomplishment in this life to even be interested in her.  Above all be completely honest.  I know people who had nothing, they ended up with a wonderful wife and are to this day in a happy secure marriage.  There is someone for everyone.  It is my biased opinion that Sevastopol, Ukraine has the most beautiful women in the world.  Once we find a bride for you; our feelings about this matter will be mutual.