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"The lion and the calf shall lie down together, but the calf won't get much sleep."
ENGINEERING NOTE
"Do not meddle in the affairs of cats, for they are subtle and will piss on your computer!"
We hear so much these days about violence against women. In my opinion violence, whether it's directed against a man, a woman, or a child, is still VIOLENCE... and it's
WRONG!
To the UNinformed who pride themselves on their open-mindedness... read, and perhaps learn something!
"Sex for pleasure is a normal human drive and is acceptable when it brings pleasure to both partners, from this perspective, D/s is simply a 'different' kind of loving."
- Gloria Brame
NB: Gloria Brame is the author of "Different Loving - The World of Sexual Domination and submission" published in 1993 in the United States by Villard Books, a division of Random House, Inc., New York, and simultaneously in Canada by Random House of Canada Limited, Toronto.
There is a marked difference between DOMination and submission (D/s) and Bondage and Discipline (B&D). In D/s relationships there is almost no pain or humiliation. The charge gives up control to her Master willingly, it is her gift to Him, her punishments are light. Generally a word of disappointment or a look of disatisfaction is enough to cause tears. In the B&D relationship punishment for misdeeds or failure to obey is severe.
WARNING
"No more B&D and cunnilingus... I keep getting tongue tied."
Hmmmmm... Chocolate sauce is good on "vanilla" ice cream too!
A submissive woman
As a submissive woman, you find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment in being submissive to another in a loving relationship. you are not weak, or stupid, you are a strong woman, with firm views and a clear concept of what you want out of life. you do not serve out of shame or weakness, butt out of PRIDE, STRENGTH, and LOVE.
THE FOUR CORNERPOSTS
There are FOUR cornerposts (no pun intended) to a successful D/s relationship. In some ways its like building a house.
1. RESPECT
Starting with the excavation, this is where we begin to gain knowledge of one another; then
2. TRUST
Into the excavation we pour the concrete for the foundation. Respect and Trust must be a part of the mix before true submission can take place;
3. LOVE
This is symbolized by the completed edifice. Love brings the desire to serve and to please, and gives Master control over His charge; and finally...
4. COMMITTMENT
Committment brings the relationship to life permitting it to develop, to grow, and to be strengthened through both bad as well as good times... and just as a house requires on-going maintenance to prevent deterioration and collapse, so does the D/s relationship.
THIS MASTER'S CREED
1. I am a Master, and I accept this charge into My loving care and protection.
2. I will provide the physical and emotional necessities of life for My charge, and she will know My love as I choose for her to know it.
3. I will use My charge's body as I wish, such usage to be limited only by My responsibility not to damage either her physical, or mental, or spiritual being.
4. I shall establish a clearly understood set of RULES for My charge and I shall enforce them in a firm butt responsible manner. These RULES will be for her protection as well as her discipline, and will, to the best of My ability, foresee every eventuality and control the most minute aspect of her behavior.
5. Within the self-imposed limitations above, I undertake to train and discipline My charge in a manner calculated to guide her toward a perfection of obedient submission that I know she can never achieve. In doing so, it will be My goal to reward her efforts by dispensing the punishment she requires and deserves.
6. I shall endeavor to provide for My charge's necessities of life, even in the event of My passing or be otherwise rendered incapable of caring for her.
Click HERE for THE 10 MOST IMPORTANT RULES for the Novice submissive
Enter girl, and know your Protocol before this Master...
"Everyone is weird... some of us are proud of it."