HaZoR

If you looked up the word controlling in the dictionary, you would see my picture as an example. I enjoy total control. In fact control is far more important than sex to me. I'm very strict, and exacting. I'm opinionated and will voice it even if its not asked for. I will not hesitate to correct another submissive, whether she is owned or not, and at times it gets me into trouble. I'm not the most popular Master by any means. Many don't understand me, but when you do get to know me, you will see that I'm loyal, devoted, and caring. I have over twenty years r/l in the lifestyle. During that time I have made a study of women, and know more about a woman's body then many women do. I don't just want to own a woman's body, but I desire to own her mind, heart, and soul. I wish to know her feelings at every given moment while I'm with her. I put great importance on emotions and the mixing of many together to create the ultimate experience. I crave to teach, and will offer to share my knowledge, and experience with any that are serious about the lifestyle. I don't believe ignoring a slave as punishment has value, in fact its abuse. When it does come to punishment I believe punishment should fit the crime in most cases. I think if more Doms realized that the submissive really is in control: its by her gift of giving it up that we Masters/Doms end of with it, then they would cherish the gift even more. What you see online is what I am in r/l. I don't believe a Man can learn to be a Dom....Doms are born.... I live it every day. However Doms can learn to be Masters in time... All Masters are Doms but not all Doms are Masters. How do you know if you are a Master? It's not self-appointing. Your slaves will know if you are a Master, then you will know. Sadly on irc, there are many wannabees. My advice to serious subs is to go slowly...and even test the Dom out you are thinking about submitting to. Total surrender is the goal, and its progressive, but a Master will never asked for, it will be given naturally, and freely as should be.