My Girlfriend Flirts With My Man!

Dear Lissa & Mayv,
Help! My best friend is always flirting with my boyfriend! I've asked her to stop, but she doesn't realize that she's doing it (or so she says). She's the type that flirts with any guy that walks in a room and always has to be the center of attention. My boyfriend is flattered by the attention, but I don't think he's really interested in her. I just wish she'd quit hanging all over my man or this friendship is over!
~Fed Up!

Dear Fed Up!,
Don't toss your friend out yet. Since you've already confronted her and that doesn't seem to be helping, set aside a time to be with her and a separate time to be with him. You may not be able to combine your friendship and relationship together. If your friend complains about this explain to her that it is her own doing which led you to such action. If she can promise to leave your boyfriend alone, then you and he will get together with her socially again.
Good Luck!
Lissa & Mayv

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