There is alot more to experience in Erotica than just sex, theres sensation, passion, desire, lust, and the exploration of your lovers body. If one can combine some of those qualities within themselves, they can find to be a very unreal lover and very memorable one too.
Most of my education has been spent on reading alot of erotic novels. Its funny when I tell my friends that I read books like that. They think its dirty and pornographic or cheap smut, no, its all in the mind of the reader, I have found alot of people to be narrow minded about such topics and have never explored that side of themselves. I believe everyone can be very erotic, its just a matter of finding it within yourelf and nurturing it and letting it become a part of your life as you would want it to be. Being erotic can make your sex life much more interesting, for yourself and your lover, spouse boyfriend or girlfriend.
I can't say I am an expert on it, but from my experiences it heightens a relationship that can go beyond realism. So many things can make it feel unreal...a kiss, an embrce, a look of longing, that first gentle touch of your lover caressing your hand. I love those sensations...they always make me feel lightheaded and makes my heart pound feverishly and my stomach flutter madly when it catches me off guard. Perhaps it was a smell or a color or something small that makes the memory flood my mind, whatever it is I can't help but smile. Its always those small gestures that constantly remind me of a sensational lover, it catches me off guard and I feel lost for a moment. The freshness of that moment lingers in my mind all day after that, the sense of emotional state, the touch or the kiss or the eyes lingering across me. Its crazy if you think about it, but its such a neat feeling its kinda like a high, and can be an addiction like a drug...the withdrawl syndroms can be the same. The slight shaking and feverish moment surpasses you unexpectantly. In my mind I am swallowed up in the passing moment and my body relives it all over again. Outside I must look like a druggie going through withdrawl syndroms or something crazy. Everyone has experienced that feeling a few times...I'm sure you know what I am talking about.
Women are more interested in the erotic novels more than men are, its not very often that you find a guy sitting in a coffee shop reading an erotic novel. I have yet to see that some day, I'm sure if I saw a guy sitting there reading a book like that, I'd walk up to him and ask him what it was about. Perhaps it could start off an interesting relationship.
So I just wanted to share some of my favorite books with you that I thought were interesting.
The Erotic Adventures of Sleeping Beauty - Anne Rice writing as A.N. Roquelaure
Satin by NIght - Tom Crewe and Amber Wells
Confessions of an English Maid and Other Delights - Anonymous
Obsession - Cathryn Cooper
Pandora's Box 2 - An anthology of Erotic Writing by Women
I also have a small chapter of my own writing as well to share with you. Please feel free to read it if your up to some good erotica.
If you have read any interesting books or if you would like to share some of your erotic moments, please feel free to email me!